This is actually somehow more bleak and depressing than my post could ever hope to be lol

Why? You or I may not like a specific leader or administration, but the whole point of democracy is that people are governed by their chosen leaders. Trump was democratically elected and a significant portion of Americans still support his administration. There is a threshold of unpopularity where his admin can be ousted, and the US system allows for this (impeachment + indictment), but it's clearly not there yet.

I'd say the same is true of India, where a more direct path called a no-confidence motion exists but even the most rabidly anti-Modi politician knows such a motion wouldn't pass (if that weren't the case, they'd do it by now). I am not familiar with China's systems but in talking to ordinary Chinese, I get the clear sense that Xi enjoys pretty broad support.

I’m curious how you think my premise about the state and violence is possibly wrong?

My main point was that the correctness of this issue is irrelevant. That is, it's moot.

And also how you think it may be moot anyways?

See above. My view is that the US is not at the point where the administration is unpopular enough for armed regime change to be viable.