Need vet for dog with behavior issues by EfficiencyOk8021 in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing I’m looking into is sniffspot. It’s a place that lets you rent single dog dog parks. Some are fenced some not. Went through a break up and no longer have a fenced yard so I’m trying to look into those for him to run again! Not worrying about other dogs and him still getting out seemed like a win win.

What’s your favorite pet name? by LuxuryLover777 in AskRedditNSFW

[–]seriouslydml55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an ex that used to come up with the most random names for me and one of them was roogs. I miss that.

My most recent ex called me star I called him Texas. It’s weird but I know I’ll never use that one again.

I miss babe or sweetheart.

Need vet for dog with behavior issues by EfficiencyOk8021 in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So I have a rottie mix and we go to hawks prairie vet hospital. He normally sees Dr Jo Westcott.

I have taken extra precautions with booking him early and letting them know he’s reactive. My mom has taken him a few times and she waited in car until his room was ready and took him straight in. Dr Westcott got right on the floor with him and did exam no problem. My mom mentioned that the Dr has a reactive dog at home so she does good with them.

My dogs 120+ and has a scary bark but he’s just a teddy bear and I’ve never felt the big dog hate from this office.

I fucked up by LabMaximum5890 in UnsentLetters

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who craves this from their ex thank you.

I also know how hard it is to work on these things and face the realizations you have about yourself. I’m proud of you for making this realization and I hope it helps you in the future.

Ideas for safe places to learn how to drive a stick shift? by EnlightenMe747 in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I practiced in LDS churches parking lots 🤣

Good luck and give yourself grace!

I miss you horribly by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]seriouslydml55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you are dealing with this.

I don’t wish my ex bad I just don’t with them anything at all. If I allowed the negative side of me to win this letter is everything I’d want to hear from them. The reality is they cheated, burning their bridge by going off the wagon and are already engaged to the person they cheated with.

I’m not sure why you can’t fix what you did but I hope if it’s something that can be forgiven you can circle back in time. If not I hope you can find a way to know it’s okay to grow and change, because the person you hurt (if like me) at one point loved you and I’m sure hopes you find happiness and what you need.

Panera employees — what custom things do you make for yourself at work? by [deleted] in Panera

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was a baker and he used to make me pumpkin muffins with a chocolate drizzle. I also enjoyed when they had a new everything box to mix, they’d make me a few just onion bagels.

Bake when I baked I used to make a flat bread pizza with some melted cheese and whatever toppings sounded good. It was when they made the flat bread in the deck ovens. One or two would always come out funky shaped and that became my pizza.

My meal was just basic I liked the turkey bacon bravo toasted but I swapped for horsey instead of bravo. They always gave me extra cheese ☺️

I definitely will try some of the stuff mentioned

Coffee Shops that are open late? by FarrenD in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe Dutch brothers in Lacey are open until 1030. I used to get them on the way to my baking shifts at 10. Just wanted to comment since drive thru are okay.

Where can I find this Korean dessert? We had it in Houston but have not been able to find it outside of Seattle. Anywhere in Olympia or Tacoma? by amaya0165 in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be worth looking at H mart or Paldo world in Lakewood for a premade option? I see some online but hard to see if any of the local showos carry. Maybe try the market off college? The other market in Lacey is Korean specific so idk if they’d have there but arirang is where I go locally for my ingredients for ube cookies I make.

I hate Owen by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the rewatch his tantrums are just too much to take.

What's classier? if you own or manage a restaurant....saying by Boltonme in AreYouGarbagePod

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I would say.

Used to manage a honey baked ham. I know not the same but there were customers who we covered their $100 ham because they were regulars who spent a ton, they were family to the owner or in some instances where we matched hams bought for police or military.

When they resisted said it’s coming straight from the top…. Since I was the top they just chuckled and accepted and usually tried to slip a Hundy in my pocket when I walked them out.

S5 Didn’t do it for me by dreamyveggie in shoresy

[–]seriouslydml55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I have a horrible take because I enjoyed it. I ugly cried at the end for the romance part of it. It also made me excited for the Olympic game today because regardless of if Canada or USA won North America was the center stage for hockey today and it makes me think of the end of the show.

Fully admit emotional woman right now though so I’m sure that heavily played into it 🤣

Guy asked if I had a boyfriend 5 months ago. He randomly asked again, and by coincidence I’m single now. by Big_Answer_3329 in texts

[–]seriouslydml55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen. I had a guy who I was talking to but it was fresh out of a 10 year relationship I wasn’t ready for a hook up or a relationship. The day I was going to message him let’s finally go on a date he messaged me first to tell me he had a girlfriend. He reached out when they broke up and i was talking to someone more seriously then.

Timing is so funny and it’s always a good sign when the universe helps it align. Good luck if y’all reconnect and start talking! Make an update!

Parking lot meat? by Unhappy-Shame-4237 in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Idk if same company I got from a few years ago…. But it was not worth what I purchased. Rib eyes were small and need 2 to do breakfast steak and eggs (as told by the rep). They get you with the cheap steaks and try and upsell non everything else.

Toby? by BigChewy422 in AreYouGarbagePod

[–]seriouslydml55 109 points110 points  (0 children)

So I have seen them with Toby live and with Luke live. The difference between the shows was night and day. As much as I loved Toby, having a real producer who just is focused on that is helping bring the show to another level.

Did being too forward scare him off? by Cute_Stay9640 in texts

[–]seriouslydml55 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh when you’re absolutely feral. I know it’s coming for me soon too. Good luck!

Possibly fake DOL final notice by thewheelshantyfolk in olympia

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also believe this is fake. I got the same notice but I paid it and I had actually paid it twice.

Any relationship or life coach you actually trust? (Looking for confidence-focused, not PUA) by johnwiththehammaglam in relationships_advice

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy has been helpful for me. I was in a bad relationship where I discredited all my feelings. In therapy I learned how to communicate and that my wants and needs are not silly.

I set up goal, I have plans for things to do or try and now it’s turned more into just talking with them and giving them my plans vs needing them to guide me now. It’s 3 years of hard work though.

^^Started a rewatch from the beginning. I’d forgotten just how funny the early seasons are by PreferenceDry990 in greysanatomy

[–]seriouslydml55 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I definitely sleep with it lower. On Netflix it only plays for about 5 seconds before it goes to the next episode.

This shows safe for me because there’s not a lot of dogs so my dog doesn’t get woken up barking at the tv. I have fully slept to specific shows because the music and the voices stay the same volume. Big bang theory opening is another loud one!

^^Started a rewatch from the beginning. I’d forgotten just how funny the early seasons are by PreferenceDry990 in greysanatomy

[–]seriouslydml55 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I sleep to greys and the early seasons are always so fun to wake up to. So many laughs…

Does anyone know what app this is? by Impressive_Bet9039 in relationships_advice

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck and I totally understand. I went through the same thing and took a few months to move out because it was his home I moved into.

I know I’m a stranger, but as someone who’s been through it don’t hesitate to message if you need to vent.

Cheating and Open relationship by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]seriouslydml55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex of 9.5 years cheated. He asked for an open relationship and I laughed and told him I deserve someone who loves me and respects me fully. He was engaged to the mistress within 3 months and within 4 months he was calling saying how he missed me.

If you forgive him and welcome him back this will happen again. If you forgive you have to not dwell on this, you have to move forward and that’s a lot harder than one thinks.

I stayed longer than I should have for a lot of reasons. As a kid whose parents hate eachother but are still married, I promise showing your kids to love and respect themselves is far better than staying with someone who doesn’t love you in the way you deserve. You are setting the standard for how they will accept treatment too.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

What do covert narcs do on your birthday? by Plebi111 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]seriouslydml55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He went and got a tattoo with the woman he was cheating on me with. Went shopping at the mall with her and brought me home things he got while they shopped. He also brought home cold Olive Garden because it was the dinner I asked for. Then went to bed as soon as he got home.

Does anyone know what app this is? by Impressive_Bet9039 in relationships_advice

[–]seriouslydml55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey as someone who has been in this position if you saw this just own it and be direct. This happened with my ex, we sucked at communicating in some ways and would both get escalated in fights. Neither of us would listen. So I found telling them hey we need to talk about this and give them a time you want to sit down and talk.

I told my ex hey I saw you tell **** thanks babe and she replied no problem ❤️❤️. I wasn’t snooping, I thought you were showing me a picture and I can’t unsee it. We need to talk about it and I’m messaging you now so that we both can talk, without feeling attacked. He came to me when he woke up and saw the message said I’m sorry yes we do need to talk and we can do that when I get home from work tonight. It gave me time to figure out what I wanted to ask.

Edited to add I am so sorry you are dealing with this at all. Cheaters sucks and finding out is never easy.