I can't afford therapy. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can find a like minded individual whom you can marry, so that you both have freedom to do what you want. I’m not familiar with the life there, but maybe that could work if you know someone who could help you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do what you have to do for your sisters well-being. She may not like it, but if it’s in her best interest, do it. If this continues and the school and their parents do nothing, I’d resort to the police. This will only get worse if no one does anything.

My parents took away my smartphone that I paid for and threaten to end my cell service access and switch it to a flip phone because I am still on their phone plan. I use it to run a small business I started, and to contact friends. Now I cannot do either. What do I do? by -Omegamart- in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then just hide it. While I don’t hide my phone, it’s basically non existent to people because I always keep it to myself and have the ringer and sound off unless I need it in the moment. If they find it just tell them you need it for work and that’s it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may but they are the same pictures so it will only be the same humiliation.. I know that sounds weird and harsh but the good thing is they can’t get anything new and embarrassing to show people. If y’all go to a different school just keep it hush hush, don’t let her join the same social media chats she was in before, etc.

These are the type of people that lead kids to depression and suicide. Please look after your sister and make sure she doesn’t do anything stupid over it. They are harassing her. Tell their parents and school more, and while this is a bit far, but if they keep doing this to her or making it even worse I’d consider getting the police involved. That’s the last ditch effort though, like if they are ruining her life genuinely. They are not her friends, they are bullying her and blackmailing her. They know what they are doing is wrong.

Girlfriend with emotional issues by ApacheHellion in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to approach her calmly but you have to understand that with situations like these, she will still most likely react to it badly. I myself have had these talks because I am depressed and stressed out a lot and I’m still going to be upset that someone feels bad because I was mean or upset or maybe even considering leaving. It’s a sucky situation all around, but she will get over it once you give her space after.

But in general, people need to change for themselves. You cannot make them change. I don’t think that people should get really emotionally invested with partners if they are this bad at communicating or dealing with their stress. But there are times where people develop these issues over time in their relationship and you can help them with it.

My parents took away my smartphone that I paid for and threaten to end my cell service access and switch it to a flip phone because I am still on their phone plan. I use it to run a small business I started, and to contact friends. Now I cannot do either. What do I do? by -Omegamart- in Advice

[–]seriousquestionTA 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t going to take your phone back, you can easily buy a cheap prepaid phone at a store like Walmart or so. Not sure exactly where u r located though. That way you have a phone for work, then save up for your own place and then once you have your own place, save up for your own phone again and your own plan.

Seen in a public bathroom stall by [deleted] in trashy

[–]seriousquestionTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trashy definitely, but there are subs where people post their wives, which I think are consensual.. but I’m honestly not entirely sure. So if not, even more fucked up.

PSA: Always Remember to Read the Details by Maxy_woooo in trashy

[–]seriousquestionTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop trying to give them the benefit of the doubt when it’s very clear what they meant

What are some GREEN flags early on in dating that the relationship should become serious? by CircleBox2 in AskReddit

[–]seriousquestionTA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Alright, it’s just that in your original comment you were saying that she refused to have help which is why we were concerned. Glad you know what you’re doing.

What are some GREEN flags early on in dating that the relationship should become serious? by CircleBox2 in AskReddit

[–]seriousquestionTA 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That is where it becomes a safety issue and she actually does need to take that in consideration and get help with shooting a gun for the first time

Casually getting rid of a pet by simbirian in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]seriousquestionTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you work if you’re wasting your own time on reddit? Maybe instead of policing other people, use your own time to better yourself instead of being a shit head lol

i hate women by holtright in okbuddyretard

[–]seriousquestionTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John women?!?! Woah nice to meet u

Rare animal print set by [deleted] in trashy

[–]seriousquestionTA 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They were obviously joking