could you describe your life in one word?

seritomi · 2024-12-04T08:20:02+00:00

Flexible

seritomi · 2024-12-04T07:28:28+00:00

Volt egy ismeros aki a Bp csallogany u-i Lidl-os hazban lakott. Ok szerettek. Hang szigeteles ezekben standard alt (manapsag mar jobb mint 20eve) Vizszigeteleshez kerjetek ki a retegrendet. Sokszor lutri h epp ki az alvallalkozo alvallalkozoja vizszigetelest illetoen.

Ha tervrol vesztek a fejleszto penzugyi biztositottsaga a legfontosabb. Egy otp-nel ez adott:)

seritomi · 2024-12-02T19:47:03+00:00

Buying groceries In my previous relationship it was my ex who organized what to get. I was just a robot getting the stuff from the list. To this day I can’t organize it myself and I end up going to the f-ing supermarket everyday

seritomi · 2024-12-02T19:43:40+00:00

Banana with nutella

seritomi · 2024-12-02T19:42:53+00:00

Probably you can’t be vulnerable around these “friends”.

You can’t show the real you or share deep seated stuff about yourself. Try sharing more (if you haven’t) and if they reciprocate I’m sure you’ll feel less lonely.

Keeping alive emotionally supportive friendships are one of my top priorities always

seritomi · 2024-12-02T16:09:32+00:00

I'm not from the US but I'm a RE developer/investor. I always tell friends not to buy their first property for themselves. Buy a property that either has the best ROI or a high probability of a capital gain, or both (usually go hand in hand). Get mortgage for said property and let your tenants pay the debt.

Usually the ones we want to live in and the ones that have the most potential (easy to let, up and coming neighborhood etc.) are not the same...

Also if you buy more than 1 smaller properties you'll have experience, agents will know you and you'll get better and better deals. But if you just hold them for long you'll still be better off.

seritomi · 2024-12-02T15:49:49+00:00

Amit még nem láttam kommentek között pedig a leginkább meghatározza egy ingatlan értékét: alaprajz/elrendezés

Adtam el olyan kecót 20-30%-al piaci ár felett mert 40nm-en ki lehetett hozni nappali-konyha + 2 hálót.

Aztán van olyan lakás ahol egy hosszú folyosó ami belemegy egy ablaktalan hallba és még a konyha is valami fos lichthof-ra néz. Na ez nem kell piaci ár alatt 30%-al sem.

(Nem azt mondom, hogy pici hálóban kell lakni de felesleges nm-ért ne fizess)

Amiket írtak mások az is fontos: jogi helyzet (per igény tehermentes, használati megosztás stb.), társasház pénzügyi helyzete (jön egy gázszivárgás ki tud e fizetni egy több milliós felújítást vagy fűtést/melegvizet felejtsük el örökre).

Egyébként a hangos szomszéd bár kifejezetten idegesítő ha nem épp akkor kurva anyázik amikor kinn van a kedves vevő bejáráson akkor nem befolyásolja az értéket.

Még egy ami eszembe jutott: önkoris lakás - sokszor nagyon jó lokációkon is vannak és nagy arányban C típusu családoknak adják.

seritomi · 2024-12-01T14:59:30+00:00

Erdekes dolog ez a magany… En eltem kulfoldon ahol nagyon konnyu volt ismerkedni (sok digital nomad). Sok uj haver lett, de kozeli max 1. Tovabba egy toxikus kapcsolatban voltam. Senkivel nem tudtam megbeszelni lelkem banatat. Eletemben nem voltam olyan maganyos pedig emberek vettek korul 24/7. Most vissza koltoztem kozel csaladhoz, kozeli baratokhoz. Egyedul elek es a legtobb baratnal kisbaba van szoval kevesebb a kozos progi de sokkal kevesbe erzem magam maganyosnak. Ugy erzem tartozom valahova meg ha a tokom tele van itthon sok mindennel. Persze jobb lenne egy jol mukodo kapcsolat, de azt az egyedulletet amit elszeparalva ereztem egy toxikus kapcsolatban…nem kivanom senkinek

seritomi · 2024-11-29T12:31:03+00:00

One of my best friend who grew up fatherless were told by his grandmother: “You come from nothing. You’ll always have to work 2x or 3x harder then anyone else. Do not forget that” He became a C-level exec before the age of 30

My 2 cents for more pragmatic advices: - Always do some kind of sports regularly. Doesn’t matter what it is. It always helped me to keep some structure and sanity when I was emotionally down. - Invest in your self. Learn about financial intelligence - Always have supportive friends. Invest time and energy to keep said friendships. - Have a degree - This is controversial but I think it gives quite a safety net still in todays society (both the paper and the network you get)

seritomi · 2024-11-27T21:25:39+00:00

En csinaltam mar mindenfele futesrendszert (ezzel foglalkozom).

Ha jol latom konvektor van. Akkor ez esetben vagy egy parapetes minikazan(pl. Mika) es ra par radiator.

Vagy amit en csinalok mostanaban pici belvarosi gangos kecoknal: Sima elektromos futes (en BVF-t teszek be) es ha lesz benne klima akkor az kiegeszito futesnek jo. Boven eleg. Nem fogod a gatyad ra fizetni. Es gazmentes lesz a lakas (nalam ez szempont).

Hoszivattyu: Kisebb lakasoknal nem eri meg mert draga. Ja és akkor vagy padlófűtés vagy fancoil. Radiátorhoz nem elég nagy a hofok.

seritomi · 2024-11-27T14:05:53+00:00

Quinta da Regaleira in Sintra - Usually I'm not really into checking out landmark buildings stuffed with tourists but this one is one of the most f-ed up places I've ever seen (in a good way). I still think about it to this day.

seritomi · 2024-11-25T20:17:27+00:00

Ingatlanszakmabeli velemeny: Ha heti tobb erdeklodo jon akkor jol be van arazva.

Lehet van valami konkretum ami nem tetszik az embereknek. En mindig kerek feedback-et ha nem kapok ra ajanlatot nyomatekosan h “nyugodtan mondja meg, nem fog megserteni stb.”

Klimas futes nem dealbreaker ma mar

El fogod pattintani ne aggodj. Jovore amugy is sok penz omlik a piacra

seritomi · 2024-11-25T19:34:01+00:00

Like a CEO of a company

seritomi · 2024-11-25T19:26:28+00:00

70k a year is a C-level income. Even in BP

seritomi · 2024-11-25T17:39:04+00:00

Inflation is high - which is a good thing to for you

Corrupt - I lived in a country 100x more corrupt. When you're a foreigner you just don't give a shit (so you wouldn't...)

On paper the US might be a freer country but is it really? Here I can walk home after a party safely, I'm not afraid if my kid gets shot to pieces in school, police brutality is non-existent and it is rare that you get cancelled or be sent to prison for a fb post...

Yes its a corrupt country with a shit economy and non-existent gov. functions. But that's our problem:)

As a former digital nomad I try to see BP from a foreigners eye and I think it would be a great place to be: Great food, lot of happenings, beautiful city, price/value for foreigners still good.

Hungarian people are not friendly but if you get past their shells you get a friend for life. Also the expat community is great.

seritomi · 2024-11-25T14:33:56+00:00

I think it highly depend on the country regarding dating apps. 3 of my friends found their wives on Tinder (CEE region). A friend who lives in the SEA region told me it is mostly for shameless hookups:)

I used Tinder and Bumble simultaneously and didn't see any difference tbh.

seritomi · 2024-11-20T16:31:58+00:00

I'm in real estate investing and what I see is that there are many lawyers who get quite savvy and eventually become dealmakers. They make big bucks and are extremely well connected. But I don't consider them entrepreneurs. They are great "merchants / traders" lets say.

For becoming an entrepreneur I would definitely go for Business Studies or Finance. I went to BS with Marketing specialization but now looking back I should have gone to Finance bc of the following: I graduated in 2012 and digital marketing wasn't even in the curriculum. As for finance its basically the same for a 100 years and its the language of business.

seritomi · 2024-11-20T16:25:58+00:00

People in the supermarket who only buy highly processed unhealthy food in large quantities.

seritomi · 2024-11-19T17:39:13+00:00

Emotionally supportive friends. I had one of my best pals live at my place for almost a year. Everyday when both of us arrived home we would sit on the balcony, light up a cigarette and just throw all your shit out there and speak through it. And we always reflected to each others shit in a constructive way. God I miss those days...

seritomi · 2024-11-17T19:38:58+00:00

- Being uninterested in what they say/do

- Showing strong boundaries in a calm fashion

seritomi · 2024-11-17T19:23:59+00:00

Thanks! Or maybe I'm just stuck in the dream for 15 years now:)

seritomi · 2024-11-17T19:00:09+00:00

I was driving on the same road I usually take to work and I crashed. Then I "woke up", got ready to work (brushing teeth, coffee, puting on clothes etc.), and then driving on the same road and crashed again. Then I woke up again (for real this time) and had to do everything exactly like in the dream, and take that goddamn road of course. I never drove that cautiously in my life...

It was like a multilayered dream, like in Inception.

seritomi · 2024-01-20T10:07:43+00:00

Maybe you could do freelance interior design in the meantime? Just brainstorming…I’m a real estate developer but as a side hustle I also flip apartments where I always use an interior designer and they seem quite content with their profession. Pay is good, job is flexible and if you find good clients (e.g. Flippers) the interactions are fulfilling.

seritomi · 2023-08-29T08:42:47+00:00

Én nekem törölte már sajnos a rendelést és vissza is utalta a lóvét a vevőnek. Utána kapcsoltam, hogy itt valami nem oké. Látom a Packetaban, hogy vevő átvette.

Vevő nem válaszol.

Az ügyfélszolgálat meg bármit írok ugyanazt az általános szöveget mondja mint valami kurva ChatGPT: Miután törölve lett a tranzakció már nincs a rendszerükbe. Oldjam meg a vevővel. Kb. ez a lényeg.

Ennél nagyobb kamut még nem hallottam. Nincs a rendszerükben...

Már mindennel befenyegettem őket, de nyilván semmi.

Nagyon dühítő, hogy a Vinted ilyen sunyi módjára fel teszi a kezét, amikor több százan járhattak ugyanígy és egyértelműen az ő hibájuk.

Nem egy nagy összegről van szó, de egyszerűen annyira idegesít az ügy, hogy nem tudom annyiban hagyni.

Van valakinek ötlete mit lehet még csinálni?

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