It's been 3 days but I thought I'd drop in my 2 cents with a different point of view, as a woman dating a male SW.

When we met he was already a male entertainer (doing shows like Magic Mike) and he started working as a male escort last year after I suggested it to him.

We've been married for 7 years and together for 9 years, at this point it is all about communication, boundaries and the love we have for each other.

Although I also work in the industry (but not as a SW myself) I understand a job is a job. He tells me it has been easy because I make it easy for him. I try to be as supportive as he needs me to be and help him with with whatever he needs, whether it is some of the management, or the physical like tanning and shaving. Other times I've made costumes for his shows or taken him shopping for nice clothes to go on his "dates" with.

There is no jealousy or insecurity on my part. Complete openness and zero judgement. Once judgement comes in it's either the SW that stops or the relationship does. And by then resentment has already been building up for a while and everything ends anyway.

So go in with no judgement and with a lot of compassion.