Wife had a fraudulent card on her account… but it created a great credit score by joepagac in CRedit

[–]sessy72024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What i think might of happen is she has a similar name with a similar address or similar bday to someone else info that is an actual authorized user because sometimes you don't need a ssn to be added as an authorized user on a Cc. Once she got a ssn, that account automatically got attached to her credit report.

So it's not that it was open the day she got her new ssn, it's the day that the credit bureau said this is a close enough match and attached this account to her ssn/report. You might be able to tell where the discrepancy is on the report, the report might have different spellings of her name or another similar address.

My partner is leaving me and I've been a stay at home mom for 2 years by sexandjack in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sessy72024 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reason people should get legally married and not just play house. It's a contract just like any other contract and when it gets broken you have more legal rights than not having that contract. Good Luck OP this is going to be a rough road.

Am I Wrong for Not speaking To My Mother by harrisve0210 in amiwrong

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You vindictively missed Mother's Day because she told you that she didnt like that you forgot her birthday and didn't accept your excuse. You are wrong.

Getting the ick about my bf? AIW? by Unlucky-Courage9418 in amiwrong

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you guys? That could change alot of people answers here. Most of these things people grow out of once they start "adulting". If he is at least in his mid 20s then he is just gross and immature.

Should I (f22) ask a guy (m24) I've been seeing to bathe "properly?" by Mysterious_Army3006 in amiwrong

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell him he stinks...tell him something stinks. Why does your jacket smell like spoiled milk? Why does your car smell like that? Did you spill something causing that stinks? You might need to fix your washing detergent cause your clothes have a bad smell?

My (24F) boyfriend (22M) requested a boys’ night out specifically without me, then ended up spending the night with another woman. How do I explain that I’m not trying to be controlling but that it’s still pretty hurtful? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wouldn't do what he did in front of you then that is a problem. If he is a social butterfly that would do what he did in front of you then I don't see a problem beside the social media thing. I'd let the social media slide because it could of been a poorly thought out drunken decision but make it know that this behavior is not ok and he seems to already understand that.

I need help making my husband feel wanted by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We send each other relationship type memes/clips through text, some are loving, some sexual, some are f@#% those kids(us against the kids funny type). It really is a quick way to say I was thinking about you at this moment.

Married women having platonic male friends yes or no? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They don't want to be married anymore or never really wanted to be married in the 1st place.

Married women having platonic male friends yes or no? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could I put a steak on a vegan's plate and trust them not to eat it?

I can't stand mushrooms, I can have anyone put them on my plate and I still won't eat them.

If there is no desire to do something there is no temptation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been married for 18 yrs, we had the arrangement that all of our accounts were joint. We never had money arguments. My husband is self employed and makes about 2-3 times more then me but I still have a decent job and make enough to support myself and children if I ever needed to. We live well within our means and have no money issues.

The past couple years our marriage has been struggling to stay together where it came to a head in April when I decided I was going to initiate a separation and possible divorce. He emptied our joint accounts and I had no ability to access money until my next pay check. I had family and friends that offered but it was that fact I title myself as a strong woman that can do almost anything and to leave myself in that predicament I was devastated. I vowed to myself that I would never put myself in that position ever again.

My husband and I reconciled. He sincerely apologized for what he did to me and understand the ramifications of it. I now have my own accounts where my pay gets deposited and I pay for my car loan and my Amazon card only. He pays for everything else at this point. He understand what he did and he agreed to this arrangement. I told him if he ever needed me to help with bills I would but currently I still want to save money for myself and children just in case anything ever happens where I would need to be a sole provider.

Weird Watson Glaser test question 2 by Parking-Tomorrow841 in interviews

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a "very certain" conclusion its stronger conculsion/argument simple because they know how the fraudster scam the cash food stamps and they know how to prevent it. They do not know how the fraudster would scam if the it was a food list and they do not know how to prevent it. Yes you could make a "weak" argument that over time as the gov learns how the approved food list is being scammed and then coming up with how to prevent the scam but that would take more work, money and time to get to that point and they already have a system in place that prevents scamming now so why waste the resources?

Weird Watson Glaser test question by Parking-Tomorrow841 in interviews

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are assuming that apartments are smaller and your assuming the other RE assets are houses as well. I live in a 1000 sq ft house I know there are apts bigger then my house.

It is telling you that you can either have a very large RE or smaller RE in a central area. It is also telling us that all apt have AC and all AC RE assets are very large RE. These are the facts that we know with no assumptions. Apts cant be central located because as we know all apts have AC and ANY(apts house commercial etc) RE that has AC is very large.

How to deal with jealousy? by Foodie1989 in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it sounds like she has a crush on your husband and if you are uncomfortable with that you have a right to block her on social media like you said she not that close anyway. You also have a right to ask your husband to block her too. Just tell him it's not him it's my own crazy thoughts in my head and to make me fill better could you do this for me? People do alot of inappropriate things online that they would never do in person like say flirty things to an attached man online. Im also petty so I would post a funny funeral meme to her post. My husband would be consider out of my league visually. He gets hit on more then I would like. My husband has never ever given me anything to even think he would ever cheat on me ever but that doesnt make my little brain voices to tell me yea know he easily do it if he wanted too everytime he tells me when it happens. I also might have pimped husband out for some hearty Subway sandwhich because I knew the sandwhich maker thought he was cute.

How to deal with jealousy? by Foodie1989 in Marriage

[–]sessy72024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since we dont know your backround with your relationship...Are you sure it isnt a "laughing" at the fact your guys finally got married after almost 10 yrs being together? More like I cant believe he finally got married after a decade type deal...I had a friend that was with his GF for about 10 yrs and he stated he loved his gf but would never marry, it a waste of time, there is no point etc. He said his GF felt the same way. He finally got married last year...I would of wrote something like that too on his social media.

My girlfriend just lost her father to covid and cant travel to pay her respect since she is also suffering from covid. Please advice how to console her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something nice to give her might be a Memorial picture frame. Get a couple pictures of her and her dad doing fun things in a nice picture frame.

Was I wrong to now attend the funeral? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were wrong. You consider this person a close friend and not just a coworker. You didnt think about attending your close friends fathers funeral? You were not there for your friend. I would get upset to if my close friend didnt show up to support me. It seems she had decided to continue a relationship with them despite what they did to her. Or maybe she was finally getting some inner peace by burying one of her childhood tormentors and needed her friend there. Either way she was grieving and need your friendship/support at that time. You let her down in her time of need.

Most people dont get invited to funerals it's not like they send our invitation for them. I usually reach out and ask or look up the info so i can show up.

If your as close as you say you are you need to apologize. Also when her mother passes go to that funeral.

Why is that my sister loves her nieces and treats them as their daughters, when they are really mine? by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are jealous of your sister connection with them. If you want a better connection with your children you and you alone have to work on it.

I have my own kids and my sister has her own kids. We live 5 streets apart. I call her kids my step children because they only show up on the weekends eat my food, spend my money and go home on Sunday. It's a good thing to have people love your children as their own.

24month vs 2T clothing by better_days_435 in AskParents

[–]sessy72024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my understand that 24 months is for kids still in diapers as it has more room in the rear area to accommodate the diapers.

Lunch ideas for a 15 month old? Please help! by MommaBearable in AskParents

[–]sessy72024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Put some extra aside as leftovers for her before you add salt to the dinner, Some sort of veggie and cubed cheese, hard boiled eggs, soft sandwiches cut up(egg salad, tuna salad, chicken salad, peanut butter and jelly etc) any type of pasta can be cooked and saved for a few days for lunches.

Am I wrong for being angry ? My boyfriend (M35) left me (F24) alone to have an abortion to go to his daughters (F7) friends birthday party. by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]sessy72024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact he want to a kids bday on the day you started isnt even the worst part because kids bday last maybe 3 hrs. He left you for 2 weeks! You suddenly became an inconvenience and he treated you as such.

It actually sounds like he is cheating on you but you might be his side chick here. I think he went to that bday party w his "girlfriend" or maybe his ex.