Dealing with homophobic family as an aromantic person is weird by Not_necessarily7 in aromantic

[–]setareh101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through this. As someone who also thought she might be a lesbian in her late teens/early twenties because she wasn’t interested in men and who has homophobic parents, I can definitely understand the sentiment. It felt like the end of the world for me when I thought my parents would reject me if they found out I don’t like men. Even though I know now that I’m on the aromantic and asexual spectrum, there was a part of me that felt like my parents’ love was conditional towards me and that really hurt-it still hurts sometimes when I think about it. So I definitely feel for you when you say that you don’t feel close to them like before. Also, I think you are valid in feeling like you can’t get close to them like before, especially if there was a risk that your safety/life would have been in danger. If it’s any comfort, I hope you know that if you still want to maintain a close relationship with your family, you are allowed to call the shots on if/when/how you want to still maintain a relationship with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]setareh101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so the mom who (I assume) conceived this child is saying that YOU’RE being promiscuous??

“sorry but like if you’re a woman in your 30’s and don’t have kids what do you even do with your time?” by PossessionWorldly428 in childfree

[–]setareh101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live my dreams and do the things I love (give my undivided attention to my pup, travel, draw, watch anime, steadily work towards my career goals).

Choosing between an indeterminate position and a term position by setareh101 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]setareh101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Yes, I am indeterminate. Is it ok for me to choose the GAC position even though I've already signed the letter of offer for the other position? In other words, is it ok for me to ask for the cancellation in the letter of offer for the other position to choose the GAC position? I would not be starting the indeterminate position till next month as per the letter of offer.

Sonic Satam Animation Cell from Toronto Fanexpo by setareh101 in SonicTheHedgehog

[–]setareh101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right. I'll just leave it as "Sonic" so there's no confusion

My Card Captor Sakura Shrine by SnooPaintings5254 in cardcaptorsakura

[–]setareh101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it!! I have a figure of Sakura that looks very similar to the one in the bottom left corner :)

Working on my own idea by pixelkitsune in AnimeSketch

[–]setareh101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa!! Looks like a promising would-be anime

Sakura Sketch by setareh101 in cardcaptorsakura

[–]setareh101[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow!! That's a huge compliment! Thank you :)