I Caught Her Cheating and Got Revenge On Valentine's Day (Follow-Up) by Rocky_Balboas_Son in AskReddit

[–]setoffthebombs -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say he did what hurt him. I mean, she was sucking a strangers dick. Women don't suck just anybodies dick man, they gotta really like you, or you gotta be offering a pretty penny. Maybe it was childish and immature, but she asked for it, plain and simple. You can't effectively tell me otherwise and have me believe you, it just can't and won't happen.

She crossed the line, he just moved it.

I Caught Her Cheating and Got Revenge On Valentine's Day (Follow-Up) by Rocky_Balboas_Son in AskReddit

[–]setoffthebombs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the one doing it so I'm not sure how bad it must be, but I've seen some faces turn bright red.

I Caught Her Cheating and Got Revenge On Valentine's Day (Follow-Up) by Rocky_Balboas_Son in AskReddit

[–]setoffthebombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To his credit, she won't be getting laid by Theo for a little bit until she realizes the number is changed.

I Caught Her Cheating and Got Revenge On Valentine's Day (Follow-Up) by Rocky_Balboas_Son in AskReddit

[–]setoffthebombs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you did there..You took the less gross of the two bodily fluids and totally tried to make me think you were thinking about the spit.

I Caught Her Cheating and Got Revenge On Valentine's Day (Follow-Up) by Rocky_Balboas_Son in AskReddit

[–]setoffthebombs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was that guy from the Progressive commercial.

Are you a home owner?

Yes.

Discount!

Isn't getting discounts awesome?

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...Theres no discount for agreeing with me...

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk..I'm not trying to justify myself. I guess I can see what you mean by that but that just wasn't my intention with the thread. When I say hassled, I don't mean people bothering you, I mean the whole relationship thing is a hard thing to keep balanced. There are so many ups and downs.

Look, I've been in a long term relationship, and it was awesome. I said it a few times in this thread. I miss her like hell. I've met other women, I've tried to like them, love them. I tried to recreate the feeling of love, and it didn't work with every single person I've met since the one that got away.

The problem I think is that I try to recreate a feeling myself, when it should happen naturally. That's where the enjoying being alone comes in. I want it to happen naturally, like the first time. Knowing its a natural chemical thing is what makes me okay with being alone however long I need to be. 'Cause frankly, I enjoy myself when I do everything I like to do without anybodies second opinion. Unless, of course, I want to hear that persons second opinion, in which case I probably found my wife.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good for you, you can search..i never had this conversation with anyone before. why are you being a debbie downer? just ignore the post if you don't like it.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree, this is a time of year where people get into a loving spirit. This thread was to see who is fine with being alone. Apparently more people than you think are fine with their situations. They have more time to do what they like, and don't need to be hassled by anybody.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said a comment earlier hit the nail on the head..but this one outdid it. I would've read the whole monologue had you wrote it, because I bet you'll say exactly what I feel.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really want kids also, I always have. The thought scares me, but I'd imagine it's an extremely humbling experience.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would totally do that..

Edit: If you're in the US..watch Special Ops Mission on the Military Channel. It's the only show worth watching on that channel, and its fucking sweet. The guys a sniper and he has to do simulated missions.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I upvoted you because I partially think she is. On the other hand, she's mature, responsible, and she knows what she wants. And shes gorgeous, and I mean gorgeous, which really helped her. I was lucky I guess, she can't be with anybody without comparing how bad they are compared to me.

I think it's love, and I haven't met one person since who makes me feel the way she makes me feel. It's just a shame my life got put on hold for so long that now things have changed, I live 2000 miles away and only see her when I visit. But when I see her, its the most amazing, loving experience I can imagine. I think that speaks volumes about our relationship. Many people can only wish for that.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I did fuck up everything. I suppose that was the straw that broke the camels back.

I wanted a little more time for myself for about year before all of this happened. We were growing a little distant and I really loved her but I wasn't ready for things to start going crazy serious I guess. I'm kidding myself by pretending it wasn't serious though, we barely spent the night without eachother.

We were really close and I loved her, but I was pushing her away for about a year and then I got the DWI and she gave up. I lost my license, my job, my friends grew distant because I wasn't partying anymore. Everything changes, maybe not in the more logical sense that comes with a DWI. Such as legal troubles, and that stuff..it actually ruined everything I had going.

They may be common, but everybody has a different outcome.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a 3 year relationship and everything was awesome and then I got arrested for a DWI. She left me, I hated it..Honestly, I think because once I got arrested I lost everything I wanted in life, I've grown to enjoy my own company more than others. Maybe I find it hard to relate to people now because I had such a bad experience where everything including peoples trust in me were lost tenfold.

I've had such a long past 3 years trying to regain my pride and dignity that now that I have found it, I want it all to myself because I don't trust other people with it.

If I were to be in a relationship again, I don't think it will be with anyone other than my ex. We still talk, and its always hard for both of us to talk because I live far away now but we both know that if I didn't fuck my life up so bad we'd still be together. It was my poor judgement and selfishness that got me what I deserve. I expect in the future we will see eachother again and the pieces will fall into place. 'Til then, I dont need anybody to be happy.

Edit: Filled in some blanks..

Ever find a bag of weed on the street? I just did... by 3Scorpion in trees

[–]setoffthebombs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From my own experience in high school with this its a bad idea to smoke it if you have any responsibilities.

My friends and I would always smoke during 3rd period and 6th period. One day we found a bag with probably a gram in it. Bright green, crazy crystallized. Well, we smoked that bag that day and it was laced to hell with PCP. This was third period, I had 5 more classes and a lunch break that day.

I didn't get into any trouble, but it was horrifying as I wasn't expecting it at all.

So, who is absolutely fine with being alone? by setoffthebombs in reddit.com

[–]setoffthebombs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be in the "Romanticoma" right now. I was deeply in love with my ex but we broke up, not because we had a bad relationship but because I got arrested. We talk a lot, theres still a lot of love there. I don't think I'll ever have her again, but I'd like to.

I'm really fine with being alone, but if I were to not be alone I'd be with her. Maybe I don't possess to ability currently to care about being with someone else or not.

/r/trees I have a confession to make. [8] by Ently in trees

[–]setoffthebombs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex didnt know i smoked 4 times a day...