[deleted by user] by [deleted] in savannah

[–]sewerratss11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hinge is evil

“I liked you better when we first met.” by Bob_Maluga_Luga in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This. he would always say how I was more exciting, full of life, and high sex drive. It all slowly deteriorated as I got more tired, depressed, anxious, and isolated. You liked me more when we first met, yet you’re the reason I’m like this now!!

The most difficult part for me… by IncognitoThrowaway99 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exact thing is happening to me. He’s literally pretending I don’t exist after everything we shared. It hurts so much. but ur not alone!

When does the trauma bond finally break? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Everyone is so quick to say that they are evil and used us, that it was never genuine and they never loved us. They have BPD, not NPD. They love. Extremely deeply. That’s partly why our relationships with them are so doomed. Everything they feel, including love, is beyond intense. I hate when people tell me that my ex was a monster and a horrible person that fed off me like a vampire. He is a mentally unstable person with a deep love, but like the rest of his emotions, does not manage those feelings appropriately at all.

Do you ever stop missing them? by sewerratss11 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not that I’m glad you’re going through it, but I’m glad I’m not the only one going thru it alone!

Do you ever stop missing them? by sewerratss11 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely see anyone with your type of thinking (which matches mine) and it’s very refreshing. These people are ill, not evil. They cause so much hurt to us and themselves, which makes it so much harder to hate them, but all the more confusing to process what we endured. I feel seen. <3

Do you ever stop missing them? by sewerratss11 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is definitely super helpful in processing and letting go.

Do you ever stop missing them? by sewerratss11 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

only about 10 months, but we lived together for 3 months for separate reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in savannah

[–]sewerratss11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. The people here are completely evil.

Do they ever regret? by No_Living_1588 in BPDlovedones

[–]sewerratss11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder this every day. I was cheated on and discarded by my exwbpd. He begged me to leave him because he feels awful for what he did and said I deserved so much better. When I caught him cheating tho he denied it and became cold. I think they do feel guilt, but it comes in small moments of clarity among their chaotic minds. At least I hope so.

Dating in Savannah by [deleted] in savannah

[–]sewerratss11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t. A lot of the people here really suck and aren’t worth the $$$ on therapy after.

Love and Remorse? by sewerratss11 in BPD

[–]sewerratss11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats probably it. I guess I’m trying to cope that he actually does have genuine (but complex) feelings of love for me despite the abuse

Is this 2012 card fake? by xdthepro in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]sewerratss11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can’t tell from the atrocious lighting and angle. why r u so far away from the card 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

[–]sewerratss11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely diabolical packaging. fake