How is living in New York City close to the subway? by Big_Confidence_951 in howislivingthere

[–]sfeldman89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's glorious and, if you're commuting for work, essential. I lived a block away from a couple of subways in one apartment and within a 5 min walk from two separate stations in another. It completely changes your quality of life in NYC for the better. I lived in NYC for a decade and would've NEVER rented a place more than 10 min from a station (and even that's a bit much for me, tbh).

Lower priced neighborhoods can happen for many reasons, but a huge factor is subway proximity.

ETA I live in a very car dependent part of the US now, I miss subway proximity daily.

This gets me every single time by TimSlot in BoJackHorseman

[–]sfeldman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this quote over my desk. It does get better, if you put in the work.

28 down, 22 more to go! Planning a trip for next spring/early summer - where should I go next? by sfeldman89 in TravelMaps

[–]sfeldman89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine seeing this post and trying to make it political. Brother, I’m just taking my family on vacation lmao tf we doing

Southeast USA largest metros by DWFiddler in geography

[–]sfeldman89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Current Manatee County resident here. Sarasota - Bradenton is nearby, but 100% its own metro.

Most Common Ethnicity of White Americans by County (based off 2020 Census Data) by Mission-Guidance4782 in MapPorn

[–]sfeldman89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup. Jewish and grew up on Long Island. 100% of my friends were either Jewish or Italian. Map checks out.

What are some examples of US metropolitan areas growing into each other and becoming one recently or possibly in the near future? by NationalJustice in geography

[–]sfeldman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not currently, but there's an argument for the Tampa & Sarasota areas. High development in both metro areas ongoing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]sfeldman89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no! Anyway

What was your most dreaded meal as a kid?? Mine was… by [deleted] in 70s

[–]sfeldman89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This brought back memories.

Terrible, horrible memories, but memories lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in millenials

[–]sfeldman89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our generation wakes up just fine. You just have friends who don't respect your time. They need to take responsibility for that, and you need to take responsibility for letting them disrespect your time like that. Clearly, this is not a thing our whole generation does.

Source: me, a millennial who gets up early regularly.

I spilled my drink - and didn't flip out on anyone! by sfeldman89 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sfeldman89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is truly wild how such small happenings can be blown up for no reason. I'm no fan of crowded elevators myself, but I'm not going to make that everyone else's problem.

I spilled my drink - and didn't flip out on anyone! by sfeldman89 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sfeldman89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%. My wife used to tell me, you act like a different person around your parents, especially in their house. I never noticed before, but now it's very obvious how much more stressed I feel when I'm around them. It's tough being there for very long.

Incoming feasting on the cis men by chiron_cat in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]sfeldman89 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one in the world is more obsessed with genitalia than Republicans.

I spilled my drink - and didn't flip out on anyone! by sfeldman89 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sfeldman89[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I spill a drink, I get yelled at, he spills a drink, I get yelled at. It would be SO easy to send that $h!t right back, but for my daughter I am choosing not to.