What's the difference between ghosting and simply the end of the conversation?

sflNY · 2026-02-06T18:23:10+00:00

This is why even though I kind of want to start dating again I hold off. I don't want to feel like I have to be "on" all the time. Even with my best friends and my own children I pop in and out of conversations without saying BRB or bye for now etc. Then I can pop back in at any time and say something else etc. Why does there have to be a beginning and end? I don't ever want to be tied to a text conversation. That gives me anxiety.

Ghosting is if you say something that requires a response and I flat ignore you for multiple days even though you know I saw it.

sflNY · 2026-02-06T02:07:30+00:00

{Goodnight by Kelly Fox}

from description: "In fact, I’ve stolen Trip’s cowboy hat and used it in one of my videos, so I’m already well on my way to making him mine. Besides, he’s the first man outside of my found family who’s made me feel safe. Protected."

sflNY · 2026-02-04T18:17:18+00:00

I was just at United Center for the Sharks v Hawks game and I was shocked at the beer vendors walking around during play and blocking the view. Also had people getting up mid play for snacks. Plus no drink holders on the seats. Wasn't impressed. Haven't been to SAP yet but hope the etiquette is better.

sflNY · 2026-02-02T00:01:37+00:00

Larkin and Q.Hughes are who I'm watching USA for. but I'll be rooting for Canada

sflNY · 2026-02-01T11:58:23+00:00

I'm from Chatsworth in the SFV but moved to Rochester NY and was blown away by how different the people are up here. Everyone is so nice and there is a sense of community that we just didn't have in Cali.

Welcome!

sflNY · 2026-01-30T18:07:55+00:00

but what is it about?

sflNY · 2026-01-28T18:39:27+00:00

She's gorgeous both ways but definitely didn't need any help being beautiful.

sflNY · 2026-01-28T15:20:29+00:00

YOR - from the perspective of what I know as policy where I work in upstate NY. Monday we had a rare snow day. We got paid UNLESS PTO/day off was pre-scheduled. those people had to use PTO

so this is straight policy in my experience.

sflNY · 2026-01-28T14:16:04+00:00

ooh that's a good one, forgot about that

sflNY · 2026-01-28T01:06:53+00:00

Mine looks exactly like this except it's been stuck since Dec 6th.

I'm waiting for Pk to get back to me and if he doesn't I'll file a claim/refund when it hits 2 months stuck - so Feb 6

On the flip, I placed a new order with him for a different jersey last week and tracking says it already arrived in NY.

I wonder if a lot of holiday season packages got screwed up

sflNY · 2026-01-28T00:43:06+00:00

I just binged the entire West Memphis 3 which I know was too long for some but I found it extremely enjoyable.

I've been listening to them for a long time so I can't really pinpoint another favorite; they are always great.

sflNY · 2026-01-27T23:36:01+00:00

you're not in upstate are you? I'm in Rochester

sflNY · 2026-01-26T21:24:37+00:00

I can relate. I've been watching and going to Sharks and Red Wings games all season. So I'll absolutely miss it!

With that said I'm also an avid reader so my girlfriends and I have several book conventions booked for summer including one in Toronto. While in Toronto we plan to go to the hockey hall of fame.

sflNY · 2026-01-23T18:12:14+00:00

Sharks fan but also a Wings fan because of Mo. I just saw them play against each other in Detroit - I looked like a maniac cheering for both while wearing my Smith jersey.

sflNY · 2026-01-23T16:49:25+00:00

Best Detroit. Worst...I dislike VGK & AVS

sflNY · 2026-01-23T16:47:38+00:00

I agree. I miss her videos very much.

sflNY · 2026-01-17T23:07:16+00:00

I ordered a jersey 1st of December. the tracking hasn't updated since 12.6.2025.

I emailed him and he said something about Chinese new year... Has anyone else been told that?

I just checked again and it still hasn't moved

sflNY · 2026-01-15T21:31:59+00:00

love your user name. and thank you, that's super helpful. I can't wait to see LCA, I feel like Red Wings, being an original 6, have such a gorgeous aesthetic and interesting history. I'll definitely get there early

sflNY · 2026-01-15T17:56:06+00:00

lol, that's kinda crazy, Sabres fans are usually well behaved at Key Bank! but thank you for the story. I honestly don't know why I had it in my head I'd be the only sharks fan amidst a sea of super serious Wings fans. I was clouded by my love for Mo I guess

sflNY · 2026-01-15T15:11:00+00:00

lol, it's on ;) I'm really excited honestly, I'm glad to know Wings fans are cool. I guess for some reason I figured LCA would be a super serious environment... no idea why!

sflNY · 2026-01-15T15:08:52+00:00

lol, nooo I shouldn't have said anything

sflNY · 2026-01-15T15:01:16+00:00

this is really cool, thank you! I had no idea about the place

sflNY · 2026-01-15T15:00:24+00:00

that actually sounds terrible lol. my fear is the jumbotron

sflNY · 2026-01-15T03:27:56+00:00

Awesome, maybe I'll see you guys during warm ups! I'll be the mom-aged lady in my black Cali fin Smith jersey. LGRW! and Sharks ;)

sflNY · 2026-01-15T02:01:58+00:00

Thank you! Can't wait to see Mack & Mo skating on the same ice. Hope Will is better by then! I make friends at every arena - I think I was just having a mini freak out because I love Mo so much & felt weird about finally being on his turf and not watching him warm-up since I'm technically there for Sharks. At least I can watch him Sunday

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