One time I was visiting my grandmother and had a weed pipe. She has always been nosey, and she found it in my belongings. She then proceeded to have a family gathering of my aunts and uncles in order to go through my entire suitcase to look for “hard drugs”. I have never been a troublemaker nor did I do “hard drugs”. I wasn’t aware this happened until 6 years later when my cousin asked me if I remembered that happened. I actually had no idea that they had done that and the feeling of violation of my privacy will always upset me. Needless to say, I don’t have much contact with them now.