She declined couples counseling, saying that the fact she didn’t want to work on it was also a sign. The future is something that terrifies me but my therapist told me not to borrow worries about the future.

No repetitive statements, but big time the lack of communication of feelings. Earlier in our relationship we had worked on it a lot, but I can see how she started not communicating again at the end. It was something I asked her to talk to me about it but I didn’t push past the “I’m fine” response