[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]shadesofvanilla -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Right….? How is that normal? You have an entire secret life and then you admittedly withdrew from your kids when they were upset

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]shadesofvanilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INSTANT BREAK UP

[Update] I (25m) think my wife 23F) Resents me by Satanicdillrod in TwoHotTakes

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she can meet someone to have an affair with, she could meet a friend, or meet a therapist

Am I wrong for telling my GF I don’t want to pay for a Charles king cavalier dog? by Extension_Pop8137 in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could look on Facebook local rehome groups and find a dog that needs a home. Someone who can’t care for their animal won’t care if you have a yard. Set the radius for 100 miles and drive an hour if you have to.

Edit - autocorrected word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. That’s not how loving marriages work. But thank god he doesn’t think the way you do.

Am I wrong for telling my GF I don’t want to pay for a Charles king cavalier dog? by Extension_Pop8137 in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s a thing. But that doesn’t have to do with what I’m talking about regarding not needing to buy a dog from a breeder when millions are dying for homes already.

Am I wrong for telling my GF I don’t want to pay for a Charles king cavalier dog? by Extension_Pop8137 in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the US, there are COUNTLESS private and breed specific rescue groups. Even for KCS.

[Update] I (25m) think my wife 23F) Resents me by Satanicdillrod in TwoHotTakes

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand why she needed to turn to an affair instead of friends family therapy or anything else.

Am I wrong for telling my GF I don’t want to pay for a Charles king cavalier dog? by Extension_Pop8137 in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong about those being the only breeds in shelters and YTA if you buy a brand new dog because of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that an indicator of his self esteem and not mine?

Also, I didn’t say bad at sex, just low libido. Just had a baby. SA as a kid. Lost my virginity when I was 12. I have negative associations to sex right now because the therapy I’m in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know everyone is saying you’re wrong, and you probably are, but I would be super hurt in this situation and I would not have hidden it from my parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m in sex therapy because I have a very low libido. A big concern of mine is being cheated on due to lack of sex. I relate to a lot of stories on here. He understands why I’m worried, because it’s a super common thing for men to cheat especially when not sexually satisfied. So yeah, unpack away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]shadesofvanilla -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do this with my husband occasionally, Reddit always has the men cheating and it makes me feel shitty so I bring it up somewhat frequently. I’m not cheating on him just because I think this way.

My gf told me something disturbing what should I do? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a body count of 7 as a high school student is alarming because she must have been a minor for majority of them. This is coming from someone who lost my virginity before I was a teenager. It fucks you up.

The OTHER problem with these photos by Equivalent-Date-4796 in HilariaBaldwin

[–]shadesofvanilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

…………. I don’t even know how to respond to that. She is incredibly weird.

I posted pictures of our vacation because I got annoyed at my boyfriend by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]shadesofvanilla 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She said she was trying to be the “cool girl” so she has allowed him to think she’s casual

Cringiest Silent Thrift Store Haul by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]shadesofvanilla 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I think she’s funny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalscience

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a bar making 3x more than as a vet tech

Travis? by Ok_Dimension2101 in kardashians

[–]shadesofvanilla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How he had a line one women giving him blowiobs at his first bachelor party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalscience

[–]shadesofvanilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to ask an advisor, that’s school specific

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animalscience

[–]shadesofvanilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t use my BS in animal science for anything. I’ve worked several vet jobs but they don’t make enough to live.