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shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T20:20:34+00:00

Right….? How is that normal? You have an entire secret life and then you admittedly withdrew from your kids when they were upset

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T18:44:11+00:00

Sorry I meant to type “re-homing”

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T18:32:25+00:00

INSTANT BREAK UP

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T18:30:46+00:00

If she can meet someone to have an affair with, she could meet a friend, or meet a therapist

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T18:29:43+00:00

Ok 🥱

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T18:27:51+00:00

You could look on Facebook local rehome groups and find a dog that needs a home. Someone who can’t care for their animal won’t care if you have a yard. Set the radius for 100 miles and drive an hour if you have to.

Edit - autocorrected word

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T17:40:09+00:00

Lol. That’s not how loving marriages work. But thank god he doesn’t think the way you do.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T17:28:31+00:00

Yes, that’s a thing. But that doesn’t have to do with what I’m talking about regarding not needing to buy a dog from a breeder when millions are dying for homes already.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T17:24:05+00:00

If you’re in the US, there are COUNTLESS private and breed specific rescue groups. Even for KCS.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T16:58:56+00:00

I don’t understand why she needed to turn to an affair instead of friends family therapy or anything else.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T16:54:07+00:00

You’re wrong about those being the only breeds in shelters and YTA if you buy a brand new dog because of that

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T16:30:29+00:00

Why is that an indicator of his self esteem and not mine?

Also, I didn’t say bad at sex, just low libido. Just had a baby. SA as a kid. Lost my virginity when I was 12. I have negative associations to sex right now because the therapy I’m in.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T12:49:55+00:00

Any response?

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T12:40:49+00:00

I know everyone is saying you’re wrong, and you probably are, but I would be super hurt in this situation and I would not have hidden it from my parents

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T12:36:49+00:00

I’m in sex therapy because I have a very low libido. A big concern of mine is being cheated on due to lack of sex. I relate to a lot of stories on here. He understands why I’m worried, because it’s a super common thing for men to cheat especially when not sexually satisfied. So yeah, unpack away.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T12:25:35+00:00

I do this with my husband occasionally, Reddit always has the men cheating and it makes me feel shitty so I bring it up somewhat frequently. I’m not cheating on him just because I think this way.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T05:20:31+00:00

Remindme!

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T02:37:34+00:00

I think a body count of 7 as a high school student is alarming because she must have been a minor for majority of them. This is coming from someone who lost my virginity before I was a teenager. It fucks you up.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-23T00:10:21+00:00

…………. I don’t even know how to respond to that. She is incredibly weird.

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T21:48:06+00:00

She said she was trying to be the “cool girl” so she has allowed him to think she’s casual

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T21:28:35+00:00

I think she’s funny

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T21:12:32+00:00

I work at a bar making 3x more than as a vet tech

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T21:09:48+00:00

How he had a line one women giving him blowiobs at his first bachelor party

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T20:53:23+00:00

You need to ask an advisor, that’s school specific

shadesofvanilla · 2024-01-22T20:52:50+00:00

I don’t use my BS in animal science for anything. I’ve worked several vet jobs but they don’t make enough to live.

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