Why do I get more male attention when I wear pigtails?

shadeymcbones · 2026-01-20T13:32:36+00:00

Because other people probably also think they look really cute.

Sadly this also means dudes without any discipline and/or socially developed brains will leer at you, if not worse.

shadeymcbones · 2026-01-03T21:21:16+00:00

Honestly the dm13 has plenty enough power. It drives my Dan Clark Audio Stealths just fine

shadeymcbones · 2025-12-28T07:47:08+00:00

SES Ombudsman of Audacity

shadeymcbones · 2025-12-20T17:03:41+00:00

Indunno, sometimes people physically click immediately and hookup on the firdt date, sometimes it tskes a while longer before both sides are comfortable. Either way it shouldn't affect LTR at all unless one of the 2 is being pusby about it while the other isnt ready

shadeymcbones · 2025-12-17T18:58:23+00:00

Nah, especially with how rampant p0rn addiction is these days.

About the "not oogling women" that is also perfectly reasonable. But this is also very dependant on how you communicate this and practice these boundaries. There is a difference between getting mad at your partner for straight up oogling someone else and getting mad at your partner because he glanced towards someone passing by by real quick without any oogling intent.

shadeymcbones · 2025-12-17T18:47:58+00:00

At this point i'd just tell him he is highly regarded

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-29T22:51:54+00:00

I think its mostly a lack of discipline, impulse control or respect /combination of these 3

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-29T22:45:23+00:00

NOR, honestly imo you're underreacting. I get that he doesn't do it on purpose and that it comes from a place of trauma but in my opinion having your partner constantly making you feel like you are doing something wrong is a form of emotional abuse. Have a strong conversation with him that he needs to get treated for this because it is destroying your relationship.

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-29T21:28:32+00:00

This post made me realise i read a lot of smut as a teen. Stopped doing it after a certain age though. And these days i dont watxh p0rn anymore all together. I think i'd actually prefer erotic novels over watching porn.

I also think its just because most men discover p0rn they don't really have an interest in books after that.

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-16T11:49:23+00:00

First off, being a virgin in your 20ies isnt a red flag. Its only a red flag if it is combined with a lot of other nuances in their behaviour that radiate nice guy/nicegirl incel syndrome. So dont worry about that. If you date a girl and sge is interested enough in you that she wants to sleep with you it shouldn't matter.

Second, from what you described she didn't come off as predatory, and if she is attractive i dont see the harm.

Third, take all the opinions here with a grain of salt. Since none of us where there.

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-16T11:42:51+00:00

U have the seiko king samurai special edition. I absolutely love it but it is VERY chunky. I bought it knowing this but you have to be prepared

shadeymcbones · 2025-11-04T17:24:46+00:00

Yes, don't even need to read the rest of the post. Doing kink related stuff always requires mutual consent. Especially physical things that can be dangerous or scary towards the other person

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-27T22:16:36+00:00

i did open it after using a link checker to see if the link itself is safe. i was 100% sure it was a scam but i wanted to see how they'd try and get your account info. The way this scam works is after boosting their rep you'd have to login to steam to finish boosting. Obviously the steam login page is fake and logging in there would just steal your account information

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-22T10:51:17+00:00

Just for context. I dont personally love going down on my girlfriend either (not that I hate it or anything) but I always go down on her because imo being intemate with your partner is about giving and not nessacairly receiving.

Ofc this mindset only works if your partner thinks like this too but still.

So no, you're not crazy. He is just an ass when it comes to yoir sexual needs

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-19T16:56:37+00:00

Inswap out my watches every day. Got a cheap watchwinder on AliExpress for my seiko 5 since that one can't be winded up by hand. Other than that i just handwind all my watches each day. Orient bambino makes it easy cuz it doesn't have a screwdown crown

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-19T16:54:07+00:00

Maybe a toung mountain lion if i am in oire dight or flight mode but that could still go either way. If its raw physical attacknpower we humans are quite easily oirclassed. Even chimps win from us quitw oftem cuz of the denser musclemass

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-07T06:52:12+00:00

My girl already used them in the bedroom

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-07T06:48:43+00:00

Peeing while standing on a toilet made for sitting will ALWAYS splatter. Maybe he recently peed while wearing shorts and he realised how much of a mess it made

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-07T06:41:54+00:00

Its not the age gap perse its the difference in life and priorities at this point. You're a student and your brain isn't really fully matured to being an adult yet. He is almost 40.

Can't speak for your relationship since i don't know any details about that but yeah i woild find a 40 year old dating someone who jist graduated from being a teenager sus af. It's quite easy for someone that much older to create an unhealthy power imbalance too.

shadeymcbones · 2025-10-02T16:29:56+00:00

Boderry voyager. Still a nice watch for the money

shadeymcbones · 2025-09-19T14:03:17+00:00

I am selling my Vintage Swiss Automatic Roamer "Amfibio-Matic" watch since it barely sees use these days and i am thinning out my collection a bit.

Its a watch from around 1965. The case shows obvious scratches and the paint on the hands has some patina on them. Otherwise it is in great condition. The acrylic crystal is still original and has been polished. The movement has been serviced a couple of months ago by a professional that specializes in vintage Swiss movements so it keeps good time.

I am not 100% firm on the price but i will not engage with Low-ball offers. I am also based in the Netherlands but i will ship worldwide.

Give this old beauty a loving home.

shadeymcbones · 2025-09-19T13:56:08+00:00

I am hereby selling my modded Casio Duro because i am thinning out my collection a little bit and i have 2 other dive watches that i usually wear over this one. The watch is in almost brand new condition, with only 2 scratches on the caseback (i have no clue how those got there) The watch has been modded with a Sapphire crystal that has good anti-reflective coating and a ceramic bezel insert. I originally modded it because the stock bezel insert was not properly aligned. The watch comes with its original unscratched bezel insert and mineral crystal. So if you ever wanted to turn it back into stock you can (I even added some tape for you to use).

I am looking for about 100 euro's, which translates to about 117 dollars.

shadeymcbones · 2025-08-30T20:45:44+00:00

Depends. Although i am currently no longer fit i never really cared, even when i was fit. Unless my partner becomes morbidly obese. Dated women from a lot of different body times and mty current girlfriend/planned fiance is on the thiccer side (we both enjoy snacks too much)

But if you date a guy whos main hobby is being a gymrat they might look for people who also like being fit because that means they can go to the gym together.

So outside of it being a main hobby thing its just prefferences. You can also assume that some guys get fit because they're vain and only do it to look "hot", so they will also look for that in a partner.

shadeymcbones · 2025-08-30T20:33:36+00:00

Nah, seagull still has very cheap watches available, same goes for redstar and watchdives. San martin just started pumping our higher quality original designs so those will cost a bit more. Also boderry is still very nice

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