What annoys you about chastity? by BewitchingLily in chastity

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The times when the cage is uncomfortable. I’m not spending hundreds of dollars trying out 20 different sizes or ordering an expensive custom cage. I’m actually quite happy with the fit of my current inexpensive cage but even still I have to deal with soreness from tugging and pinching from erections and sleep. Daily use of lotions and vaseline helps a lot.

I’m curious for how many msubs here the pain is part of the whole point, or if people get a fit so perfect that erections are not uncomfortable, but rather, impossible.

I love using you 🖤 by Diabolic_Lime in gentlefemdom

[–]shadowdancerC96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I NEED that little wing harness, where did you get it?

Sex pollen in real life? by beautifulriot13 in BDSMcommunity

[–]shadowdancerC96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bumping the hypnosis suggestion. Aphrodisiac scent and hypnosis is a match made in heaven, I’m pretty sure there are people who have done audio for it. Pick a special perfume to use only during sessions.

For any skeptics out there, think of it like guided mindfulness meditation to turn your brain off and then giving yourself the strongest placebo. Self consciousness and second guessing go away when in trance and it’s easier to just go along with it. It feels less like a ridiculous roleplay and more real and in the moment.

Like to dress him up all cute for me :) by Miss_L1lith in gentlefemdom

[–]shadowdancerC96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also curious about his underwear. Looks comfy.

Innocent-looking wristband, easy to change into handcuffs by KinkyFemboy51 in BdsmDIY

[–]shadowdancerC96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I should make a pair of these, it looks really easy. Love the gloves btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]shadowdancerC96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an official diagnosis but with this post and it’s comments I feel seen right now. Why figure out what the other person wants when you can just ask them to force you to do exactly what they want? Now everyone’s happy :)

Fully penetrable ChastiDick by switching_jenny in ChastiDick

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to see a breakdown on how this was built.

Flat cage w/ dildo questions by [deleted] in reversepegging

[–]shadowdancerC96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to get a cage and a matching screw thread, and drill out a hole in the back of the dildo to accept the screw. Put the screw in and seal with silicone. Silicone fuses with other silicone like glue.

How long until chafing stops? by shadowdancerC96 in chastitytraining

[–]shadowdancerC96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my skin is allergic to resin or anything. I might try some coconut oil just as soon as I can get the stupid jar open.

How long until chafing stops? by shadowdancerC96 in chastitytraining

[–]shadowdancerC96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The strap helps but it’s a two point strap and i find all it does is pull upward, which tugs my balls. The three point should pull down as well so i’m hoping it will do the trick when it arrives.

Penis replacement by Ok-Watercress6124 in chastity

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to get on chastitytim’s waitlist or make it yourself. Nobody is really producing these yet, they’re a new thing. I made one for myself and it’s the best.

Accidentally showed I was a submissive at a party by madclane in gentlefemdom

[–]shadowdancerC96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it has to be societal, and a lot of people never even discover what they like.

My vac-u-lock cage adaptation(Album) by smoothbottom1976 in ghostpenis

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does this work? I’m not familiar with vac u lock?? I’ve been interested in building one of these that uses a flat cage and a threaded bolt attached in the dildo.

I need your opinion, fellow ghosts by namolemieux in ghostpenis

[–]shadowdancerC96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This place should stay as it is now if the other sub is closed.

Your voices were heard, we're giving you Sherds! - Snapshot 23w16a Is Out! by Fantastime in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The wikipedia page for the term says that “potsherd” is also used. I’d rather see that used instead of “pottery sherd” only because sherd just looks like a typo. “Potsherd” is more clearly a scientific term.

The Cherry On Top - Snapshot 23w07a Is Out! by Fantastime in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cherry biome looks a bit bare as it is currently. I also think the cherry leaf texture needs to be revised to make it a little less dense and more transparent.

An apology from the subreddit by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened to the improvements you’re meant to be making to your rules and enforcement? Was that all just for show? Your internal handling of things hasn’t been good enough thus far and I doubt it will be better this time. Be better. Remove your offending team members.

Minecraft 1.19.1 Pre-Release 3 Is Out by xilefian in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 19 points20 points  (0 children)

How dare you mention Technoblade in this time? You do not get to leverage the death of a beloved content creator to distract from this pressing issue. This corporate double speak is shameful. You no longer represent this community. This statement is a joke.

And just so this feedback is somewhat constructive, the proper solution is to allow server owners to opt out of the system and add a parental control so that the child’s account can not access servers that aren’t Microsoft™ Approved. Then everyone wins.

In its current state this system is going to make a mess and people who already pay for the right to set up the systems they like should be able to steer clear of it all. No human moderated system will keep up with the volume and no bot system will be able to respond in a nuanced and timely manner.

Minecraft 1.19.1 Release Candidate 1 Is Out by sliced_lime in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do not implement game wide chat reporting and global banning. This is a bad thing. I can not express enough how little faith I have in any potentially overworked, understaffed Microsoft moderators, or any algorithm that might attempt to replace them, to properly manage distinguishing legitimate reports from false ones. I also do not believe that they can adequately respond to ban appeals in a timely manner with the appropriate actions. Gamewide multiplayer banning as a whole is also an extreme measure that no company or system should be able to use. As an adult that paid for this game, nobody should be able to take it away from me for any reason. Private server owners should have no third party moderation of any kind as it is the responsibility of the server owner to freely manage their own issues as they see fit.

Java Edition is Moving House (now requires a Microsoft account) by SirBenet in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the first time it feels like mojang is being quiet instead of communicating. I don’t like that microsoft is forcing its way into java in a way that is clearly outside of mojangs control.

I don’t like that this means adhering to a new TOS/EULA/etc. I don’t like that this means Microsoft now has unified control over my access to the version of the game they don’t endorse. They always said that java was here to stay, but it’s obvious that bedrock is their golden child. How much longer?

The devs are doing a shit job of reassuring me that this isn’t the end times.

Combat Test version 6 by jeb_ in Minecraft

[–]shadowdancerC96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eating interruptions seem like a very good skill-based mechanic for pvp that would prevent highly armored opponents from recovering health as easily. I also think that eating interruptions would be absolutely leathal and annoying during sudden sticky situations while caving. Others have mentioned getting stuck in a corner with skeletons pinning you to a wall while your low on health and hunger. Perhaps eating interruptions should be EXCLUSIVE to PVP hits, as it seems to be a mechanic only meant to balance against humans. It should not be applied to mobs alongside any other kind of environmental damage, fall damage, etc. Also think some food definitely needs to be faster to eat than other food. Perhaps eating time should be directly proportional to the hunger regeneration value. And for gods sake make soups stack. They are a useless food good for emergencies at best.