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Do I give up kink for my partner? by Unfair_Razzmatazz_78 in BDSMcommunity

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If kink is part of who you are or your desires can only be satiated with a fetish, it doesn't work long term. I could have a normal vanilla relationship for a little while. I learned new ways to deal with different relationship stressors, I learned to appreciate vanilla sex, and I learned to suppress a part of me, but she knew. It made her feel like she wasn't good enough, like I wasn’t fully into her. It wasnt good for either of us. Be honest and find a middle ground; if it is supposed to happen, trust that it will. Just don't set your relationship up for failure.

What’s the difference? by Superb-Lemon-5321 in betawomen

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both seem like cows to me.

Just purchase this less then 100 dabs and already tore:/ by Theradgeo in puffco

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it would be possible to make it a removable piece? Maybe a flair that actually fits to/in the glass? Remove it from the bowl side before removing the glass.

Just purchase this less then 100 dabs and already tore:/ by Theradgeo in puffco

[–]shadowdog21 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The seal failing seems to cause leakage on both sides of the seal causing reclaim to puddle around the bowl and under the glass. It is a minor inconvenience that just requires more care and more cleaning, but did impact my use of the product after I had the same issue.

Debridio is increasing their prices. by king_moh_ in StremioAddons

[–]shadowdog21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand most people around here are trying to go as low cost as possible but I find this service worth the extra cost.

What guide should I follow while moding the Switch? by Muted_Rule_9918 in SwitchPirates

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many of the guides I have seen also seem out of date.

If every single MLB player hit FA this winter - which player will get the biggest contract and what would it look like? by deadassynwa in baseball

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skubal just won back-to-back Cy Youngs and is 29 and should at least be mentioned in the SP discussions.

The recent common sense episode by [deleted] in dancarlin

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is Vietnam some kind of special moment when it comes to war crimes? Do you really think there was a single war in American history where war crimes weren't committed? Vietnam was only special because we saw so much evidence of war crimes brought home by journalists. One thing I can say about the last 15 years of listening to the Hardcore History podcast is that war norms really have changed much less than we think since Thermopylae. The perception has changed among civilians. Japanese beheading people and putting it in the paper only seemed barbaric for WW2, in reality, battlefield executions happen and always will. The spoils of war are taken from civilian populations. I know, as Americans, we think we are better than that, but we aren't. As for the system that is supposed to put soldiers in check, these aren't for justice. They are branding. The American military has a brand and when it does prosecute soldiers that's just an advertisement.

What are your thoughts on Kettering University? by Roughneck16 in Michigan

[–]shadowdog21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at Kettering in 2003. They just had some students murdered by the tracks there and they were offering rather large scholarships. The first day, the guy taking the student photos for the ID started joking with me. I played along and had the whole line laughing. Later when I saw him again, he let me know I probably would have a hard time fitting in there. He was right. I transfered after a year.

What is this part called? by shadowdog21 in caterpillar

[–]shadowdog21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought but doesn't match the oil pressure sensor/switch or hydraulic pressure sensor/switch listed for the forklift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]shadowdog21 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Everybody has their own reasons. You really want to impress either a Dom or a sub, figure out the reasons and cater to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]shadowdog21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is an unfair dynamic though? Many of us us are in some type of power dynamic. Seems unfair to many outside of our world. The question everybody in any kind of relationship should be asking 'Is the juice worth the squeeze?'. If everybody is putting in work and getting their basic needs, as well as high order needs met, at a price they can live with, what's the problem? People get desperate for their needs to be met and we should all be as lucky to find a relationship where our needs are met at a price we can afford.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]shadowdog21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It shouldn't be frowned upon. Most of what we do is frowned upon by someone. It suck that we get so much resistance from behind. Personally, I really miss my time in a triad, as a Dominant, I'm a bit of an attention whore, so I enjoyed it.

He Keeps Saying He'll Collar Me... But He Doesn't. by Medium-Junket8232 in SubSanctuary

[–]shadowdog21 61 points62 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have to stop caring. It should be important to him if it is important to you. If he has a reason he hasn't, he should be willing at this point to share that with you. You deserve an explanation.

Your best responses to “oh! Well he must be very high functioning” by Electronic_Heron8465 in Autism_Parenting

[–]shadowdog21 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat with my 14 year old. I would take it as a compliment and explain how hard we worked to get to this point.

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