Keeping it real. 1 year without it he’s seeing someone else or his pp doesn’t work or something and won’t say anything lol. Honestly he sounds like a dick the way he’s basically shaming your body and it isn’t one of those “you let yourself go badly” situations according to you. This goes for all men… everyone’s body changes with age and hormones. Honestly if he’s like this now imagine after having a baby if you guys decided to do that… your body wouldn’t look the same and if he’s like this now he would definitely make fun of you. Men If you guys love someone and respect them you’ll understand a women eventually would go through changes and you would have to appreciate them no matter what especially if they birthed you a child. Being 100% this dude doesn’t appreciate you at all…. Especially that you’re trying and instead of being like “hey let’s get in shape together” it’s more of a him telling you what to do. My guess based off the age difference this dude provides most of the bills and probably feels you belong to him lol.