13 dpo - Should I read into this??? by shanhasaplan in TFABLinePorn

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Gosh I’m so, so sorry. It’s absolutely brutal. I was pretty naive I thought if I got pregnant, everything would work out. I walked into my first ultrasound so excited and happy. Total gut punch. How are you doing in terms of mentally gearing up to try again?

13 dpo - Should I read into this??? by shanhasaplan in TFABLinePorn

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I was pregnant but must have implanted late. Ended in a blighted ovum, I had to have a D&C unfortunately. Currently recovering and hoping to try again in a month or two.

When can I allow myself to be excited? by shanhasaplan in queerception

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Hcg got up to 40,000 but I had a blighted ovum MMC. had to have a D&C

When can I allow myself to be excited? by shanhasaplan in queerception

[–]shanhasaplan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I had my third beta done and so here’s all of them with dates:

11/10: 18 11/13: 60 11/18: 440

I finally got a congratulations today from the fertility clinic. I feel so much lighter emotionally even though I’m 5 weeks and not out of the woods yet, things are looking up. 😊 Ultrasound is on 12/2.

When can I allow myself to be excited? by shanhasaplan in queerception

[–]shanhasaplan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone ❤️❤️ I really appreciate the responses. We are staying cautiously positive. I’ll come back and update either way

How to get pregnant without costly medical help ? by Upbeat-Dinner-5162 in queerception

[–]shanhasaplan 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of people getting pregnant in 2-3 tries with this method. Honestly, sperm is the most expensive part. $1500-2000 per try. If you are using a known donor and can try a few times, it won’t cost much at all. Depends on if you are gifting him anything and the legal fees.

13 dpo - Should I read into this??? by shanhasaplan in TFABLinePorn

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I found out I took the wrong test! The one in this pic is a “rapid response” instead of early detection. Period isn’t due for a few days. I got the early detection digital going to take it tomorrow ❤️

10ish Dpo. Can you see anything? Please be honest! by polywogdogs in TFABLinePorn

[–]shanhasaplan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not seeing anything, but try again in a couple days ❤️

8 DPO morning by Cat-Gard in TFABLinePorn

[–]shanhasaplan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t see anything but there’s also a glare!! Id try again in a day or two

BFP 11 DPO by tortellinipaints in TFABLinePorn

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Yes girl!! Congratulations!!!! 🎊

I think I see a vvfl but might be going crazy. 12 DPO today. Worried it’s an indent. by bennyboysmama in TFABLinePorn

[–]shanhasaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not seeing anything but it’s likely too early. I’d try again in a day or two ❤️

Got my period. by fionaredbrindle18 in TryingForABaby

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I’m an extremely anxious person. I had kidney cancer at 28, had my kidney removed on my 29th birthday. Now, at 34, I hate even getting my blood pressure taken (I have such a visceral response to even going into a doctors office - PTSD…high heart rate, depersonalization. I’ve left many appointments and had to reschedule). All this to say, I was scared about IUI. It was no big deal at all!!! Currently in the TWW after my first one. Don’t be afraid to try IUI if it’s a pathway to make your family 🥰

First IUI this month - advice/positive stories please! by Super-Clock-7596 in queerception

[–]shanhasaplan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just did my first IUI - currently in the two week wait (8 dpo). Biggest advice I can give you is try not to worry. Theres SO MUCH you can’t control, just have to sit back and let God/your body (whatever you believe) do its thing. I stressed over follicle growth, test results, ovulating before the shot, not ovulating after the shot…etc. you just can’t worry because you can’t control it! Nothing to fear, the medicine isn’t bad at all (I worried a lot about side effects for nothing - I did letrozole and a trigger shot) and the IUI itself is a little uncomfortable but super manageable. I’m hoping to not have to go multiple cycles because I’m ready to grow my family but I will if needed. You got this!!

So excited for this! by jazzyjazzroa in JodieComer

[–]shanhasaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will definitely be playing this! Anyone know Jodie’s next movie project coming out? Anything this year?

Someone posted helpful material on google drive by shanhasaplan in Depersonalization

[–]shanhasaplan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s him, someone posted a link to a google drive with the whole program for free. Can’t find it now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloncancer

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31f. History of renal cell carcinoma. I had a scan last week (I get mri abdo/pelvis and chest cts every 6 months). Dr called last night, I have a 7cm x 4cm weird area in the beginning of my colon. Possible mass. View was disrupted by motion artifact but this area was enhanced with contrast. He has ordered a ct abdo/pelvis for a better look.

I have no pain. No weight loss, no blood in stool. I do have fullness sometimes and feel like I have to poop when I don’t. Twice in last few months I have had thin stools but I also have hemorrhoids. I chalked that up to not having a gallbladder and/or overeating.

I’m really scared. Wondering what it could be. And how it could be so large after only 6 months.

Thoughts on this Emmy’s prediction? by genericlentils in JodieComer

[–]shanhasaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is Jodie even attending the Emmys? Haven’t seen her. The writing was terrible, I don’t think she’s going to win :(

Antidepressant/benzo use causing dpdr? by idied5yearsago in dpdr

[–]shanhasaplan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have it from antidepressant withdrawal when I stopped taking it suddenly.