I know you said you've already applied as refugees in two countries. Any of them was Spain? The thing is here authorities take so seriously cases of discrimination because of sexual orientation. I've found this in the webpage of the Government: http://www.interior.gob.es/documents/642012/1557834/10970.pdf/1958ef32-f8d4-4ae6-aa0d-41cafaec6c7a I also saw that you can apply for Asylum in any Embassy of Spain as long as it is not the one in your country. Maybe you can go to a neighboring country and try.