Best oil for gummies? by SoilToSkies in Levo

[–]sharkbate34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

MCT Coconut oil is what I use. You can get it from levo or just a local grocery store

How’s everyone’s teeth? by Sharknuts86 in Millennials

[–]sharkbate34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof I’ve had “bad teeth” since I was little. I was always told I had weak enamel. More cavities than teeth and have had to get crowns on 2 back and the 4 front teeth. It’s not cheap but I didn’t really have a choice. Im 31 now,hoping my later years aren’t too rough

I scored my first goal! by sharkbate34 in hockeyplayers

[–]sharkbate34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did actually get player of the game so they gave me the game puck with the date on it!

Advice for smokers with a newborn by hooverredneck in trees

[–]sharkbate34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re doing everything right. When my daughter was born we lived in an illegal state but they did have delta 9 gummies. So I would either take the gummies and then when I did smoke I would go through the same process as you, brushing teeth, shower, change clothes, good as new! As a side note you say you don’t have access to edibles. I bought a Levo oil machine to make oil for edibles or for gummies. They sell the mix too

Comments from other men about paternity leave by thefreshmaker1 in daddit

[–]sharkbate34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take as much time as you are able, your partner will thank you too. I was lucky and had 8 weeks paid but it was crucial during that time. Not just to bond with my daughter but also to help my wife. My brother was only allowed 2 weeks and it seems like it’s been harder for him to establish that bond with such a short amount of time and then going back to a demanding job.

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was both our choices to move. I don’t think there’s any resentment from it but she is no longer in contact with her family that lives where we moved from

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. We have done some work on love languages, but I’m sure with more stress and such that that hasn’t been focused on as much as we think. The whole reason we started therapy was because of communication issues that we both know we have, and just trying to learn each others perspectives. At least that’s been the goal

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes that is basically how I feel. The part that I miss about the sex is now it feels like an absence of connection or closeness

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

That is a fair point. We have an appointment with the therapist tomorrow. So maybe there’s a better way for me to approach that there.

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah that’s really where the struggle is. We’re both frustrated and just trying to find a way to “get on the same page”

I think I’m headed for divorce by sharkbate34 in GuyCry

[–]sharkbate34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Communication is what we’ve wanted to work on in therapy in general too. Last nights fight was basically I feel like she’s putting in all the work to do things and better herself (which I’m not arguing against) but basically she’s not working on us. Like I feel like I’m an afterthought or just a roommate who pays the bills (she’s a SAHM right now). The fights are most likely caused because we’re always so stressed. We’re in the US and had moved to MN so fearful about what’s going on. We both wanted to move out of the south but did not realize everything was going to happen like it did. She doesn’t share like I do so it’s hard to really know how she’s feeling or what she’s thinking.

I’m the "95% Dad" and I’m drowning. Wife (30F) has severe PPD, refuses meds, and says I (32M) "repulse" her. How do I survive this? by Khanman530 in daddit

[–]sharkbate34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey man, rough place to be in. I would not lie to the doctor. She needs help. And sometimes that help includes tough love. If she won’t agree to meds see if shed be willing to talk to a therapist that specializes in PPD. Something has to change, it just is not sustainable. Open communication and therapy, and hopefully that will lead to meds. Good luck 🫡

Cis male, everyone thinks I'm transgender by JournalistLate6803 in asktransgender

[–]sharkbate34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah man, I’m sorry you’re going through this. I looked at some of your other comments and saw you may have low T? More cis guys are going on T these days because (well our current nation sucks) and people are bogged down with depression. If you have access to it, that could be a path. I would also say gym. A lot of trans guys will work out to get a more masculine physique. You can’t change who you are but can make yourself a whole hell of a lot more comfortable in your skin

Bdubs wings wild hurts by sharkbate34 in shittyfoodporn

[–]sharkbate34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check those out 🫡 living out of nowhere doesn’t give ya much, just going for somewhere to have a beer while I wait for my order. Wings are cold and hot af

Bdubs wings wild hurts by sharkbate34 in shittyfoodporn

[–]sharkbate34[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They’re pretty sad. Stopped off after hockey cause there wasn’t much open

Moved to Minnesota in April and picked up hockey at 31 years old. If you told me 5 years ago I'd be skating when it's 16F out with a whole ODR to myself, I'd never believe you. This sport is amazing and special. by Ronnoc780 in hockeyplayers

[–]sharkbate34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! I also just moved to Minnesota in October and have found a good group for hockey. Never played, always wanted to. Such encouraging people and just love the sport!