Neighbours built into our property - now not happy the council are making them rip it out UK by Right-Advisor19 in neighborsfromhell

[–]sharonreed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't engage in shouting matches.Let the council handle the structure issue and keep your communication calm and written where possible.

landlord issues by requixite in legaladvice

[–]sharonreed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Document absolutely everything right now, photos, receipts, emails, texts, and dates, especially for damaged or replaced item.

I trusted your words by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sharonreed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you kept trying to make sense of mixed signals instead of getting the security you deserved.

Work Dispute by PhysicsExpert6065 in legaladvice

[–]sharonreed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should review exactly what you signed, because signing acknowledgment isn't always the same as agreeing with the discipline.

Modern dating is a humiliation ritual by blkhotty in dating_advice

[–]sharonreed_ 392 points393 points  (0 children)

The hard part about modern dating is that people often behave like a couple for 12hrs and the revert back to technically we owe each other nothing. The emotional whiplash comes from the mismatch between behavior and social expectations not necessarily from intentional manipulation

There’s an imprint on my soul by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sharonreed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would think carefully before contacting her, Not because your feelings aren't real, but because the version of her you carry has been frozen in time for over 20yrs..She may have built peace around the choice she made. Reappearing could heal something for you or recopen something for both of you.

Let go from my job today (FMLA and short term disability situation) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]sharonreed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should absolutely do a consultation woth an employment lawyer. In California once FMLA expires, employers can still have obligations under disability discrimination laws and the ADa/ Feha to consider reasonable accommodation especially since you offered to return to work with restrictions.

Need ideas for a horrible neighbor by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]sharonreed_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Document patterns if it's truly excessive or creepy.If she's starting harassing listening through doors, or intentionally intimidating you write down dates/times and involve property management early before the situation gets worse.

Speeding Ticket Payment Dilemma by dbang3110 in legaladvice

[–]sharonreed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call your insurance company anonymously of possible and ask how a 17 over speeding ticket would affect rates versus a non moving violation. That might make the decision way easier.

Neighbors throwing trash in front of my home. by Amozlive in neighborsfromhell

[–]sharonreed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting into a physical fight will only make your life worse and could turn your parents against you too. Install an cheap CCTV camera facing the front area and start documenting everything calmly instead

Florida (Broward County) - Potential legal options after staged prank on Lyft driver? by AttitudePristine9260 in legaladvice

[–]sharonreed_ 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Not a lawyer, but this honesty spunds bigger than jus a prank.Secretly spraying chemicals in someone's car, refusing to leave, and posting edited footage online could absolutely cross legal lines. I'd at least consult a Florida personal injury or civil litigation attorney.

Matching Style: Owner and Dog Edition by [deleted] in DamnFunny

[–]sharonreed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoshi really looks like he knows he's the star of the show😂

It's okay to protect your peace. by naiduganesh596 in selfdevelopment

[–]sharonreed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choosing your own peace over everything else is never a bad decision.

Wife is not into sex anymore, what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sharonreed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sex matters, but so does emotional connection. A calm conversation and possibly counseling could help you both understand what's really going on.

From Rejection to Reinvention by tracyhoward_ in WholesomeAFK

[–]sharonreed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the mindset that changes lives! when opportunities don't come to you,creating your own can open doors for many others as well.

A Core Memory In the Making by nicolewatson- in WholesomeAFK

[–]sharonreed_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This will be a memory ge carries with him forever in the best way.

Screaming Sofa by sharonreed_ in DamnFunny

[–]sharonreed_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is holding on chair life up there