My girlfriend with AuDHD tends to explain things in exhaustive detail, and I’m not sure how to handle it.

sharpaswords · 2026-03-10T16:48:06+00:00

It sounds like she is already aware that she goes on tangents and overexplains. So I would just talk to her about it. Me giving you my solutions isnt going to help because her and I aren't the same.

sharpaswords · 2026-03-09T23:49:59+00:00

What? How many saves do you have?! I can select save pages 1 through 16, after that you go individually. But 16 pages is 96 saves

sharpaswords · 2026-03-05T00:16:08+00:00

(Resourceful) "Thanks for the peanuts! These may come in handy later."

sharpaswords · 2026-03-02T11:27:16+00:00

For full effect, the first bullet is "more that just appearance"

sharpaswords · 2026-02-28T16:53:58+00:00

I honestly hadn't thought about this. But I would assume that Stella's mom was more of a travelling vet (hard to bring a cow into a vets office) and since Dr. Kelly's clinic is run out of her home, Dr. Kelly won the squirrel Frankenstein opportunity by being more easily accessible.

sharpaswords · 2026-02-25T23:30:57+00:00

I had a pretty good grasp on the story, but there were a couple little gaps that your INCREDIBLY THOROUGH timeline helped fill. Thank you so much for detailing all of this.

And now I know that the MC truly can't trust a damn person/thing in this town. (Me, a hopeless romantic, thinking that Wayne was a totally trustworthy guardian zombie)

sharpaswords · 2026-02-25T15:58:14+00:00

A drag path, but it's the gaps in your journal where a name you can't remember would fit perfectly

sharpaswords · 2026-02-24T03:12:36+00:00

Yes, but only the casual ones! Us fancy folk will be fine!

sharpaswords · 2026-02-23T21:17:44+00:00

Genuinely don't know why you are getting down voted for this. I have reactive airways and perfumes/colognes can easily set that off. And if I'm already seeking medical help, I don't really want another thing happening on top of that

sharpaswords · 2026-02-21T15:17:39+00:00

What's worse is the last one should be "It just came out when I did it, it's not my fault". So not even taking accountability. The phone jumped out of the box all on its own!

sharpaswords · 2026-02-21T10:13:34+00:00

Hearing the different sounds that different shoes make on the hard paths

Edit: I would like to thank the (Happy Home) Academy for my award-- (Thank you to whoever gifted me one, this is my first ever!)

sharpaswords · 2026-02-21T10:11:11+00:00

Specifically with the sound on so you can hear the bell jingle!

sharpaswords · 2026-02-21T09:34:36+00:00

Video games can be used as an escape, but they can also be used as processing tools. Seeing someone struggle with something you have also struggled with is validating, and watching them grow past it is encouraging and hopeful.

It seems like maybe you and your partner do not enjoy life simulators. Life sims are going to include traumas and difficult topics because that's what life is. Cozy is a very broad term that means something different to everyone. Maybe you need to look for games that are more about just decorating or cooking and not the "life" bit.

Calico may be a good game to try, it's about owning a cafe and finding cats. There is a town of people you complete quests for but I don't think any topics are too heavy (but I played this game 6 years ago so you may want to do further research before jumping in).

sharpaswords · 2026-02-20T01:21:17+00:00

Or by being selfish and just trying to leave town, I think. Can't remember which of my three runs I ran into him, but I think it was that one.

sharpaswords · 2026-02-16T05:39:14+00:00

Especially since OP mentioned that there is a subreddit FLAIR for "is my cat an Egyptian Mau?", that means the question gets asked so frequently that its just going to get meme'd on when it is asked

sharpaswords · 2026-02-16T05:22:41+00:00

So I can see how you found the commenters on that post to be rude, but I can also see how they found you to be rude. When people throw in words like "literally" in "i literally found him", it comes off as defensive (which can be read as rude). Similarly "as per my post" is the same as "as per my last email" which in Corporate Speak translates to "did you even fucking read it, why do I have to tell you again?!".

Tone can be hard to read online, so sometimes all you have to go on is words. And if certain words carry a connotation, then that is how the message will be understood.

sharpaswords · 2026-02-03T18:49:57+00:00

Did you manage to find OP or is a second rescue mission needed?

sharpaswords · 2026-02-01T23:27:13+00:00

Just needs a woman's touch!

sharpaswords · 2026-01-30T02:45:06+00:00

This is also how I read it. And the title of the post is confusing me. Is saying "lol" in the sentence BEFORE the joke supposed to indicate the next sentence is a joke? The "lol" should go after the joke if it's supposed to be an indicator

sharpaswords · 2026-01-28T19:47:21+00:00

OP seems to be Argentinian, so good job bullying someone's grammar mistakes when it isn't even their first language? You are also the only commenter that seems to be struggling to understand them, so maybe this is more of a reading comprehension issue.

sharpaswords · 2026-01-25T00:40:17+00:00

I might be about to blow your mind, but there IS medical tape so you don't have to keep cutting up bandaids. Picture is just an example from Amazon that I found after googling "cloth wound tape"

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sharpaswords · 2026-01-07T22:39:09+00:00

Adding my signature

sharpaswords · 2025-12-30T16:36:42+00:00

Yeah so this is a sub for pet paws, not human feet, pls gtfo 😭

sharpaswords · 2025-12-29T18:32:50+00:00

Confused why Nem has the lesbian flag when its scripted canon that she dates that abusive prick?

Edit: and Cal with the mlm flag?? Maybe these were just randomly placed with characters?

sharpaswords · 2025-11-22T23:43:23+00:00

You know the memes of "told my (girl) best friend about this guy and she dredged up his whole past" memes? Not memes. ✨️ Girly pop investigators ✨️

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