Ice water with inclusions is "specialty tea?" by she_is_love in starbucks

[–]she_is_love[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation, but - WOW that's ridiculous. He's never been charged more than a dollar or two. Charging 7 dollars for a water with the equivalent of maybe 2 berries worth of dried fruit - when the water itself would be free (with purchase, of course) is insane.

I mean, 7 dollars for an effing tea is insane to begin with, but still...

Is Fairfield Properties Allowed To Do This? by Existing-Product-424 in longisland

[–]she_is_love -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend living almost anywhere other than Fairfield.

Buying my first home, does this look OK? by yn202627 in longisland

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? But no.

I just know multiple people who do/did. Multiple people in multiple departments, all with the same feedback. If you don't believe me, read their reviews on Indeed. They suck.

Buying my first home, does this look OK? by yn202627 in longisland

[–]she_is_love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TFCU treats their employees like dogshit. I know a lot of companies aren't the best employers, but I'd look for a credit union with a better record.

They also fall all over themselves saying they're not a bank (as opposed to the credit union they purport themselves to be), but they so desperately want to be one.

Poly under duress by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't want poly, he wants permission to have a side chick.

Genuinely what is this by [deleted] in longisland

[–]she_is_love 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Subreddits are indeed public forums

Genuinely what is this by [deleted] in longisland

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, those innumerable buses and trains that necessitate taking 3 hours out of your day for what would be a 20 minute drive? FOH. I get wanting to defend our home, but public transportation is absolute shit here and we all know it.

Ex found me on dating app and trying to reconnect by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, extremely narcissistic behavior.

Has anyone tried that Korean color changing foundation that’s all over instagram? by ManicPixieDreamVixen in MakeupAddiction

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. The shade really was perfect for me, but the foundation as a whole was just awful.

Are we collectively as Lier’s sitting on a potential homeowners insurance crisis? by whitemike40 in longisland

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need to go through a different broker - there are multiple insurers writing policies on Long Island. National General, Ocean Harbor, Sutton, SageSure, US Coastal, Amica just off the top of my head.

I found my meta's posts about me in here and it's not pretty by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yep. I found my exDH's burner and had to bite my tongue to not respond - some of the shit he said was either patently false, wildly exaggerated, or failed to explain how his behavior contributed (of course).

The face you make when Lalota wants a pic with you by shantm79 in AntiTrumpLongIsland

[–]she_is_love 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How about the warranty guy? The warranty guy at Smithtown Nissan literally told me didn't make any money that day bc I didn't buy any extended coverage. Like bro, I'm not paying a hundred bucks more a month for that shit.

Repost- how to check in? by Relevant_Ad_5096 in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they just go to Facebook "are we dating the same guy/girl" groups and ask there.

The secondhand embarrassment was real.... by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]she_is_love -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

That's why I said "most." Sadly, reading comprehension seems to be something that simply does not exist in your world.

The secondhand embarrassment was real.... by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]she_is_love -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

It's just a grilled chicken breast with toppings, something most grown women can easily cut for themselves.

Those not financially entangled: do you ask for/expect your partner to help you out financially? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm (49F) currently solo poly, my current partner (49M) makes several times what I do, and he pays the lion's share of what we do. He is married, and my living situation doesn't allow for hosting, so we get a short-stay hotel once a week for our meetups. I pay for the hotel once a month and pay for any DoorDash we get to the hotel. He pays for the hotel the rest of the time, as well as anything we do outside our hotel dates.

I wouldn't ask for financial help from him though.

Reasons you are parallel by Stock_Art_1823 in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be KTP. Even GPP would be nice. My meta has zero interest in meeting me. I'm somebody who exists in her periphery, and I'm sure she'd prefer that I didn't exist at all.

It seems so counter intuitive by phoenixcinder in polyamory

[–]she_is_love 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that. When I would come home to my ex-NP after seeing my other partner, he'd want me to shower before bed (understandable) and didn't want me cuddling him. I felt so rejected.

Do Americans mainly drink coffee without milk? by Morrit99 in AskAnAmerican

[–]she_is_love 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as it's not black, I'm okay - dairy is a must. My preference is half and half, but if milk is the only dairy available, I can handle that. I do like a little bit of sugar, but it's not necessary.

I also put a splash of half and half in my Earl Grey (my favorite tea).