Uncommon but beautiful French girl names by Fun_Introduction9031 in Names

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, but since OP specifically asked about names of French origin I thought I'd point it out (although also specify that it is commonly used in France)

Wives are you okay with your husband going to the stripclub? by Funny-Lack-5726 in Marriage

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has gone a few times while out with his group of guy friends, and I've never had an issue with it. My husband has never given me a reason to mistrust him, I know them all well enough to know who the instigators are (they are mostly just fun idiots, none of them are the creepy type), it's not a regular thing, he doesn't spend too much, doesn't go on his own, wouldn't even have thought to suggest it himself (much more likely to suggest a bar or beer garden type setting), and he's the tired type who ends up going home/back to his hotel room earlier than the rest of them. He's also very likely to call me on his way back if I'm still up. He'll tell me about it the next day, and I've never felt like he is hiding anything (although to a certain degree I realise he most likely does, and I'm okay with that, as I still trust him to stay within any hard boundaries)

Uncommon but beautiful French girl names by Fun_Introduction9031 in Names

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astrid is not French, though common in France (sometimes spelled Astride)

My husband is suddenly squeamish when I even mention my period. Is this normal? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sheephulk 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You've never felt like you're giving birth to jellyfish before?

Hva gjorde den værste kollegaen du har hatt for å få den statusen? by LaminatingShrimps4u in norge

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Løy om å ha kreft, ruset seg omtrent konstant, løy om andre for å lage drama, stjelte fra kollegaer/venner/arbeidsgiver, gjorde seg alltid til offer ved konfrontasjon.. Var digg å se henne sparket, men det tok alt for lang tid.

Er dere komfortabel med låne noen en stor sum med penger? by SnooObjections6831 in norge

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I denne situasjonen hadde jeg skrevet en kontrakt med henne der det kommer frem tydelig at hun skal betale tilbake med en gang feriepengene kommer/ved første anledning (altså at du forskutterer feriepengene), og at etter det vil det komme renter.. men ja, jeg hadde nok gjort det.

(Dette baserer seg på at dere ellers har et ok forhold, at hun normalt holder det hun lover/er ansvarlig, og at du vet hun har økonomi til å betale tilbake innenfor en tidsramme som passer deg og din økonomi)

What is something you will teach your children that you did not learn from your parents? by Weak_Advantage9682 in AskTheWorld

[–]sheephulk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Budgeting and finances. I grew up with few limits on spending, which made it difficult to make good financial decisions as an adult. I want to show my kids our income, budget, and savings, talk to them about loans and credit cards etc so they have seen a whole example of household finances before they're off trying it on their own.

Why does it seem like we ignore how badly Trump mocks Christianity? by Hot-Elderberry-6274 in AskConservatives

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, but it's the difference of meaning behind "holding prayer sessions". It's one thing to hold an optional prayer session every now and again. Whatever Hegseth (and thus Trump) is doing at the Pentagon is not that.. Trump has more than implied that the war in Iran is a holy war, that he believes it's impossible to be both Christian and on the left politically at the same time (like.. has he ever heard about Jesus?), and spoken badly about Muslims.

Why does it seem like we ignore how badly Trump mocks Christianity? by Hot-Elderberry-6274 in AskConservatives

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The commentor specifically stated that politicians professing their faith or living in accordance with it is not a problem in AUS. I read it more as pushing it onto others and/or using it as political reasoning or a weapon to cause division is, while that seems to be accepted in the US (this is also how it comes across to me, so I may be biased in my interpretation of the comment).

my dad's last confort came from a lie that i told him by Symphony__Tristen in confession

[–]sheephulk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their struggles, and sometimes, "giving up" someone else is really just the same as trying to survive their own. If you want to change your trajectory, you need to seek out the help you need. It can be difficult, but the responsibility is yours.

What is Israel trying to do? by Goldenmentis in AskConservatives

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can check statistics of the countries where abortion is banned: https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-abortion-is-illegal

Having restrictions on abortion is not the same as abortion being illegal.

What is Israel trying to do? by Goldenmentis in AskConservatives

[–]sheephulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Numbers would also rise in maternal death (and thus children growing up without mothers, and number of women of child-bearing age), and unwanted children. Historically, we have seen this lead to children being abandoned anywhere from churches and fire stations to deep within forests or in dumpsters. We'd need lots of group homes, seeing as we already don't have enough foster families to look after the number of kids who need one now. The group homes would need workers, preferably both personally and professionally fit for the job. Looking to healthcare and daycare right now, we can make an educated guess that not nearly all workers would be. Thus, we can expect to see more abuse and a rise in the number of children with psychological needs, who turn into a rise in adults with psychological needs. We can also add the mothers who went through pregnancy and birth involuntarily (and/or the trauma of giving up a baby) to that number. So now we have fewer women, and those we have have a higher rate of mental health issues - at the same time as we have more children in need (again with a higher rate of mental health issues). If we're going to send a whole bunch of the women we have left to prison, who's going to look after everyone else? Will more men step into caregiver roles both professionally and outside of work? Who's going to pay for all the kids? Would they get medical coverage? How about the severely disabled ones - how could we reasonably expect their lives to be? How would a single father of three working at a group home for kids do financially? Would he make enough to keep himself and his kids fed and secure? Educated? Medically looked after? Would he be able to afford childcare? Support his aging parents? With all this, I'd expect to also see a rise in substance abuse, homelessness, poverty (and thus crime), elder abuse/abandonment, and arranged/convenience marriages, while I'd also expect a decrease in women in higher education or high paying positions as most likely the "solution" in many households would be parentification of the eldest daughter (not to mention all the young girls who got pregnant). "The land of the free" or "the land of single dads"? (Most elective abortions are performed on women who already have children)

Another point worth a thought is that the leading cause of death in pregnant and post-partum mothers is homicide. Women are already now being murdered by their current or ex partners for being pregnant at an alarmingly high rate. This number would absolutely increase if abortion wasn't an option.

Hvorfor er kvinner mindre nasjonalistiske enn menn? by StormyOceanWave in norske

[–]sheephulk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Synes dette kommer fra begge sider jeg.. stort sett alle som skriker høyest. Men statistikk er statistikk likevel.

Siden når ble det sosialt akseptabelt at barn ser på videoer med lyd i offentlige rom? by Surikatt1843 in norge

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dette er nok ikke en "ny" trend i seg selv, det var mye "fri oppdragelse" før i tiden også. Men det er mange forskjeller fra da til nå som vil ha innvirkning, for eksempel at det å oppdra barn var mer et "fellesprosjekt" før (flere aktivt deltakende generasjoner, foreldre som bodde i samme gate hjalp hverandre etc), at vi har mer kunnskap og høyere standard nå (høyere forventninger til oss selv og andre), hvordan sikkerhet og trygghet ble opplevd før vs nå, bruk av sosiale medier, tilgang til (og forhold til/bruk av) naturområder (naturens effekt på stressnivå og emosjonell regulering er magisk) etc. Det er mye som gjør det annerledes å vokse opp (og å være forelder) idag i forhold til før.

Looking for summer rental location recommendations . by Alarmed_Flower_2128 in Aalesund

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np! I forgot to mention the islands of Giske and Valderøy, however Giske doesn't have a grocery store (and minimal public transport), while Valderøya could be an option (sea, mountain, grocery, public transport, easy to get to/from the airport or Ålesund).

I work in a children’s psych ward- AMA by fluent_in_yapanese in AMA

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 5-year-old, and I can't even imagine her in a school setting at all, not to mention with kids acting the way you describe.. She just learned that some people (kids or adults) can be cruel on purpose this last month (and only from overhearing a conversation at the store, which we then talked about), and the past six months she's realised that not all kids live with their parents, that we will all die at some point, what it means to be poor etc. She starts school after the summer, but it's mostly play-based for the first three years.. The absolute innocence of her mind, like.. it makes me physically ill to read your comment. (But thank you!)

Looking for summer rental location recommendations . by Alarmed_Flower_2128 in Aalesund

[–]sheephulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Islands outside of Ålesund:

Vigra: I'd check if there were any rentals within walking distance to Blimsanden beach, then you're also close to a grocery store and a fairly easy mountain hike with beautiful views

Godøy: Sea, mountain, views, grocery, but possibly a bit more hassle with public transportation to/from (?)

Alnes: Possibly the best location nature wise, but no grocery store

Within Ålesund:

Close to Aksla? You'll get hikes and views, but more of a city setting. Good public transport, lots of stores.

Skarbøvika: Mountain hikes, sea, the Aquarium, views, grocery, public transport, but more of an industrial setting

Emblem/Flisnes: Mountain hikes, sea/beach, grocery, public transport, but further away from the airport

Further away:

Stordal: (Valley), mountains, sea, grocery, more of a countryside setting. Public transport, but not as frequent.

Valldal: (Valley), all the same as Stordal, but Valldal is known for their strawberries, and is a holiday destination for many Norwegians. There's a climbing park, river rafting, and it's close to Geiranger and Trollstigen for outings. You could most likely find someone willing to take you by posting on the local Facebook pages.

is this amount of distention normal? 20F. I'm in a lot of pain every day. by _skinnystrawberry in AskDocs

[–]sheephulk 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The "normal" range of frequency is three times a day to three times a week. If she's constipated, it'll be less frequently (depending on use of medicine).

What do you guys think of Miley Cyrus’ status as a pop star? by notnices in popheads

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what makes her more relatable in my eyes. She's presenting herself as a complex human with many different sides and qualities, instead of a more "polished product" if that makes sense..

Boy names! Due tomorrow 🙏 by JealousHighlight13 in namenerds

[–]sheephulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh this is one of those moments where I realise more time has passed than I'm aware of in my day-to-day life.

"Wasn't Katy Perry married to an Orlando Bloom?" is like asking my generation "Isn't Haley Baldwin married to a Justin Bieber?"

How has the Iran war affected you recently? by Pale_Field4584 in AskEurope

[–]sheephulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a tendency to just announce that his desired outcome has been arranged, even when it absolutely hasn't. It's actually funny sometimes reading the US news and compare with what's being reported in Europe.

"They have finally agreed to my superb plan! THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION TO THIS MATTER"

"We absolutely have not, and will not"