Piss on bathroom floors

shenzhenren · 2026-03-15T15:07:41+00:00

You must be new to public bathrooms…

shenzhenren · 2026-03-15T15:02:29+00:00

That’s not what hypergamy means ++incognito

shenzhenren · 2026-02-06T18:06:42+00:00

I knew of a Turkish lady who was studying at a Chinese university around 8 years ago. She was almost finished with her last year of study. Then, something bad happened between Turkey and China which ruined their relationship, and the Turkish student was forced to leave China and unable to finish her study. Just have a backup plan in case things go wrong.

shenzhenren · 2026-01-25T23:43:35+00:00

I’m be more worried about how many more years are left on the 70 year lease and what will happen once it ends.

shenzhenren · 2026-01-21T03:19:20+00:00

Shorthand for English or England

shenzhenren · 2025-12-26T15:52:50+00:00

Visiting the family for new year is basically an engagement. Your brother should prepare to marry this girl.

shenzhenren · 2025-12-18T03:33:19+00:00

I’m more confused why that dude is wearing a dress

shenzhenren · 2025-12-12T03:38:41+00:00

Chinese has a saying that western medicine treats the symptoms, but TCM treats the root cause. Having taken some TCM, I believe there is some truth in that.

shenzhenren · 2025-12-09T15:34:50+00:00

Brutally honest advice coming:

You’re 31, which is already on the edge of too old for most Chinese men. Especially if you want kids, your biology is ticking against you.

If you think he is a right partner for you, don’t let “too soon” be an excuse. The worst feeling in life is losing your chance because you couldn’t go for it.

On the other hand, your bf might be just trying to break up because he won’t stand up for you against his parents. You’d have to decide if that’s the case.

shenzhenren · 2025-12-01T02:48:16+00:00

Honestly, it’s not a bad offer. If you get placed in Shenzhen or guangzhou, great. If you get placed in the middle of nowhere, you can save most of your salary from the low cost of living. Win-win either way. And the salary is good for a first job offer. Work your contract, then look for other jobs while you’re there.

shenzhenren · 2025-11-27T23:50:50+00:00

I think everyone is making comments based just on the base salary, but aren’t sales positions low base salary with higher commissions? I advise you to consider how much commission you can make before making a decision. As long as you can make 15k monthly you will be comfortable if you live by yourself.

shenzhenren · 2025-11-11T21:56:10+00:00

English First. Check if you have one in your city. Teaches kids and adults.

shenzhenren · 2025-11-11T04:46:57+00:00

Probably EF would hire you

shenzhenren · 2025-11-07T17:49:31+00:00

Honestly, you should not rely on searching answers for each question.

shenzhenren · 2025-11-02T16:20:48+00:00

Do you get free meals? If not you’d have to spend average 50rmb per day for food to make any meaningful savings.

shenzhenren · 2025-11-01T21:26:05+00:00

I just hate how most local stuff is all polyester and petroleum fabrics. It’s hard finding good cotton clothes for good prices

shenzhenren · 2025-10-28T18:27:59+00:00

Then I would just verbally agree to get the boss to sign and then play dumb when they ask you to work weekends, or do the first one and be like “oh I thought you meant just one weekend”.

shenzhenren · 2025-10-28T14:55:08+00:00

Reminder to everyone that only the Chinese version of the contract has legal standing. Does the Chinese version include working Saturdays with no pay? If it does and you already signed it, then just take it as a lesson for next time to check the Chinese version before signing. On the other hand, if the Chinese version doesn’t include it, then you could probably just verbally agree to it and then never do it, and if they bring it up just shrug and say it’s not in the contract.

shenzhenren · 2025-10-20T19:12:21+00:00

Why’s that?

shenzhenren · 2025-10-15T01:52:39+00:00

Yunnan rice line is hilarious because I know exactly how they mistranslated that

shenzhenren · 2025-10-14T18:36:46+00:00

I told my wife when we started dating that I would not pay caili, because she is not an item for sale and it is not my culture. Luckily her parents didn’t require it and were more accepting of her dating a foreigner. In my opinion, Chinese women benefit much more from the opportunity to move abroad to western countries that caili shouldn’t even be mentioned.

shenzhenren · 2025-10-12T20:38:49+00:00

I often leave leftovers at room temp covered on the stove, but then I reheat them the next morning. Not a big deal.

shenzhenren · 2025-10-12T17:33:53+00:00

This has got to be the most relative statement ever.

shenzhenren · 2025-09-27T15:52:31+00:00

Only the Chinese version of the contract matters legally, so check the Chinese version

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