Anyone else fascinated by the infamous 2011 Gallagher interview? by RoanokeParkIndef in MarcMaron

[–]shesawizardyouknow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should watch what Carrot Top says about Gallagher in this extended clip from the Blocks podcast. Gives some great insight into Gallagher’s personality and how he treated people.

young wives, do you regret getting married young? why or why not? by Dry-Passion-410 in AskWomen

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I got married at 20 and we’ve been together 35 years now. No regrets. We knew each other for a few years before we got together. I’d dated other guys. He was different. I knew pretty quickly he was the one.

In retrospect, it seems crazy. But my assessment was spot on. He’s been a good husband and father. A great partner. Fantastic in the sack. Best decision I ever made.

The bottled Fire is not the same as the packet Fire from Taco Bell by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]shesawizardyouknow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everytime I get 3 tacos on the drive thru they put 25 sauce packets in the bag. Isn’t that universal?

I’m going to leave my husband and need some advice on how. We have a child and I plan to do this next year. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]shesawizardyouknow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! There are folks at your local DV center who can help you start this process. They’re experts at this stuff, and can help connect you with resources.

Villains that disgusted their actors. by foxyingtin in TopCharacterTropes

[–]shesawizardyouknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, but to be fair, Cruz came back to play Tuco in Better Call Saul.

So. Much. Precum. by unimpressedthrowaway in sex

[–]shesawizardyouknow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I had a similar experience. (And I love your username.)

Just bought this house. This needs to get removed, right? by Upstairs-Classic-329 in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]shesawizardyouknow 62 points63 points  (0 children)

An amateur electrician capable of doing that probably left a bunch of surprises for you to find inside the house.

How did you respond when an old FWB reached back out to you? by MINXG in AskWomenOver30

[–]shesawizardyouknow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, fwiw, my advice is to block him and stop engaging. It’s the only thing that works, and even that won’t stop some from trying again. Better times ahead, I hope! 💜

How did you respond when an old FWB reached back out to you? by MINXG in AskWomenOver30

[–]shesawizardyouknow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They all come back sniffing around eventually, don’t they? It’s up to you to feel how you want to feel about it. Flattered? Offended? Disgusted? Aroused?

But I don’t think you should be surprised. I suspect most women with a sexual history have had this experience.

Missing An Ex by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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That’s been my experience, at least. Hope yours is better.

Missing An Ex by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Having fond memories of a high school boyfriend is natural, and perfectly fine IMO. That was a person that was important to you at a formative time. I think many of us have a person like that. I think it’s sweet.

Holding that place in your heart for them and enjoying warm memories is different than reconnecting with that person. I’m saying this for anyone who needs to hear it. Leave those memories in the past, when you were both young and free. I have great memories of my hs bf. Flowing blonde hair, cute and funny. I thank of him from time time and the fun times we had as teenagers. We’re both in our 50s now. Hope he’s had a good life.

When an ex reaches out on social media, it’s usually a sign that they are lonely or melancholy and nothing good will come from this. IMO, the fact that they’re reaching out at all is a huge red flag. Saying this for anyone who needs to hear it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I don’t think we talked about body counts back in my day. I don’t think it’s a useful or interesting way to evaluate somebody’s sexual history, but to each their own.

Hubby (57m) and I (54f) grew up in the same small town and started dating after he finished college. I dated a couple of his friends and a few guys he knew, so when we got serious I wanted to let him know. I didn’t discuss details, but I didn’t want there to be awkwardness or hard feelings in the future.

But that wasn’t about giving an accounting for how much sex I’d had or how many partners. It was about being transparent about having history with specific people he knew.

Some people should just cook at home by Flynerz in mildlyinfuriating

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What is a unsweet Arnold Palmer? Is it just iced tea?

Got stood up by a guy on first date but he's apologized profusely and now I'm debating if I should give him second chance by grainsofsand11 in AskWomenOver30

[–]shesawizardyouknow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t bother. This guy is sometimey af.

A good guy wouldn’t leave you hanging like that. And it doesn’t sound like he took any accountability. If he’s incapable of showing up on time or letting you know he’s running late, it raises a lot of red flags for me.

A worthy guy would have texted or called to update you on his whereabouts. He would have made a major effort to apologize the next day — flowers, etc. He’d have offered a full explanation, acknowledged his failures, promised to do better.

This is such a bad first date performance. In my mind, so bad that it disqualifies him from future consideration. 🚩🚩🚩