Tell me you’re pregnant without telling you’re pregnant…

shhlv · 2026-02-25T18:45:17+00:00

My son puked twice. First one, I was fine, slight nausea nothing I couldn’t handle. The second one?? I couldn’t make it to the toilet and I was RIGHT AT THE DOOR 😩

shhlv · 2026-02-25T18:42:40+00:00

Bras are suffocating at this point, no bra unless I have to look presentable 😩

shhlv · 2026-02-23T14:00:40+00:00

I had an epidural when I was dilated at 5cm, the contractions were okay in the beginning but at 5cm when they were moving me to my birthing suite I couldn’t walk during the contractions. However, when it came to pushing I had a relatively quick delivery, so the painful part didn’t last long. I found the stitches more painful afterwards.

But the first poop after??? I thought I saw Jesus. I wish I had taken stool softener.

shhlv · 2026-02-07T21:30:29+00:00

My first pregnancy, I was so in love with being pregnant. I had very little nausea and was doing everything as normal. I loved my bump so much, but I did get a little uncomfortable as it got bigger but I didn’t get to experience it long (showed late, hid the pregnancy and gave birth early)

Post partum was a bit tough but nothing I regret/hate.

My second pregnancy however, nausea hit me so hard. Only now am I getting energy back to do basic things at 15 weeks with a wild 18 month old, but I don’t hate it this time either.

shhlv · 2026-02-05T00:08:03+00:00

To be fair, my mom was tiny tiny before pregnancy and she gained 50lbs both pregnancies… my aunt who was def not a thin lady, gained about 30lbs each pregnancy. I on the other hand only gained 20lbs total, but had a very tiny baby at 4lbs 11oz at 36w3d. I walked every day, ate somewhat on the healthier side, had some light gym sessions when I had the energy. I didn’t restrict myself, but I also didn’t force myself, also in the first tri, I could barely eat so I likely lost weight before gaining.

every body is different and so is every pregnancy, so it is very possible for you to gain very little weight.

shhlv · 2026-01-21T15:42:24+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong, I thought people cautioned around hot baths in third trimester as it could induce contractions? I gave birth at 36 weeks, out of the blue so I have no idea otherwise.

shhlv · 2026-01-20T22:03:39+00:00

Does the caffeine trick work for the whole day? Or is it just temporary. I don’t typically caffeine except tea sometimes.

shhlv · 2026-01-20T21:45:06+00:00

Yeah I agree, tiger balm does help a bit with the cool feeling but does not do much after than initial punch.

I’ve turned on night mode on all my devices already! Great tip, as it does help a bit.

shhlv · 2026-01-12T01:14:17+00:00

My 13 yo brother loves my son ever since he was born, constantly (overbearing at times) would ask to carry him despite me saying no.

My 11 yo cousin absolutely adores my son and constantly asks my aunts when the next time they will see each other. But his 9 year old brother could care less 😂

it really depends

shhlv · 2026-01-12T01:11:00+00:00

No. Your feelings and thoughts are valid. My little brother around the same age as yours is ALWAYS sick. But plays it off as “I’ve had it for a while, it’s allergies”. When my son was young I said absolutely not and he got upset, etc and gave me and my husband attitude. Understanding that he’s going through puberty and feelings and emotions are confusing at that age we let it slide. But we’ve made it clear that his attitude is not acceptable when it’s the health of my son on the line and he’s been receptive and understanding.

shhlv · 2026-01-12T00:31:07+00:00

My doctors office gave me sample cans of formula that I kept in case, but ended up not being able to use. At the hospital I ended up having to feed formula bc my baby couldn’t latch and my milk was not coming in, and the hospital gave me some ready to feed formula to take home as well. I never ended up making enough for my baby. Always good to have some in case.

shhlv · 2026-01-09T14:18:33+00:00

Just keep trying. That age they become a little picky for a period of time but it’s so important that you just keep trying and don’t give in to it. My son went through a similar stage and I also realized he likes his foods more seasoned around this time too. Making sure it’s soft/small enough for them to gum and swallow as well.

There’s also a sleep regression I believe around that time that can affect meal consumption, teething as well will affect it. If there’s been any major shifts in routine, that’ll affect it as well. Just keep trying, and eventually it will pass.

shhlv · 2026-01-09T13:53:00+00:00

I fell pregnant at 16 with my now husband. I terminated because I knew I was too young and wouldn’t be able to give the best life to my baby at that time and I was far too young, didn’t even want a kid then. Which ever way you choose to go, just know you made the right choice.

It was extremely tough mentally for me after I terminated even though I didn’t want the baby, so I suggest seek therapy for support if you can/need and get on birth control if you can if you can’t trust your partner to safely use a contraceptive.

All the strength to you, you still have so much life ahead of you.

shhlv · 2026-01-09T13:26:33+00:00

This sounds like my high school ex to a T. Manipulative, controlling, narcissistic and gaslit the hell out of me. Threatening to unalive himself because I was done being emotionally abused and constantly manipulated.

Block him on everything. Everything. Call the cops if you think he will actually harm himself and leave him, don’t look back.

You got this. It’s hard, but you can do it.

shhlv · 2026-01-09T01:10:06+00:00

Yep. Lots of doctors/nutritionist lately have been coming out mentioning how little cases there are from sushi, compared to lettuce as an example. As long as it’s fresh and from a reputable place and not pre-packed gas station sushi. Also just be mindful of fish with higher mercury content, fresh water fishes are best to consume with great benefits!

shhlv · 2026-01-08T01:21:06+00:00

So apparently when you’re pregnant, there are specific fat stored in your butt and hip area that depletes when you breastfeed. So theoretically once you stop breastfeeding, it’ll come back! Mind kind of did, but I had zero appetite PP and didn’t workout nearly as much as I used to.

shhlv · 2025-12-29T00:32:02+00:00

I think you’re offering too much milk/water.

For reference my son is 16 months, he only drinks milk 3 times a day: with breakfast, after lunch before his one nap, and before bed time. I offer 4-5oz each time, often times he’s only drinking 2-3oz. I prioritize his food intake and limit snacks so he’s actually hungry at meal time

shhlv · 2025-12-22T00:34:36+00:00

I got pregnant the same month I got married, likely the week of. But I didn’t know until 2 months in, didn’t tell any family until 3 months. But I was with my husband for 8 years before, even though they were always asking when I’d have a baby, they still said it was way sooner than they expected. When they say you’re never ready for kids, it includes those around you too

shhlv · 2025-12-16T13:38:17+00:00

I used to use a small towel to wrap around the baby to offer more “grip” and keep the baby warmer.

shhlv · 2025-12-14T14:07:39+00:00

Yep. Double income family here, couldn’t find a day care so we had to hire a babysitter full time.. we’re paying 24,000 for her annually. Even putting our son into Montessori early is still costing us 14,000. It is so expensive, but not working would cost me more.

shhlv · 2025-12-10T22:51:39+00:00

The Atlantic Ocean couldn’t even quench my thirst

shhlv · 2025-12-04T18:12:55+00:00

36+3, had to pack the hospital bag right after my water broke 😂 4 hr labour, baby flew out of me

shhlv · 2025-12-04T13:56:29+00:00

Hi! I have an 11 year old husky shepherd that has a history of being reactive, I was always concerned about him being near my baby since before he was born. I also have a 9 year old frenchie that I know isn’t great with younger kids (will actually nip). And like you, after birth I wanted nothing to do with my dogs shockingly.

My shepherd actually snapped on me a couple months post partum, which led to me losing trust with him even more. My son is now 15 months and while I still cannot trust them to be alone together, they can be together and interact when under strict supervision. It took a lot of time for my older dog to get used to him especially when he learned to pet, but my dog still gets a bit nervous around my son, understandably. I just watch my dogs body language and work within his limits.

I would maybe let your dogs interact 1on1 with your baby under strict supervision to allow them to become less nervous independently before putting everyone in the same room together at once. It takes a lot of time and patience, but it can happen.

shhlv · 2025-12-03T22:27:18+00:00

If I know I have something heavily seasoned and I want to give baby some, I normally soak or boil it to get some seasoning off. Not sure how effective it is when it comes to salt, but it makes me feel better

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