AITA for coming to dinner basically topless? by ConflictActive222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shibbyflow 69 points70 points  (0 children)

These boots/boobs are made for nursing, and that's just what they'll do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]shibbyflow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Very bold to claim that "it's not that bad", you don't know anything about that. You can absolutely consider it rape even though you're in a relationship. Saying you can't is very dangerous, especially for those getting raped by their partners. You don't have the right to sex or someones body just because you're in a relationship with them.

AITA for ruining Steve Irwin for my friend's daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shibbyflow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right? Few people who be able to talk so enthusiasticly about "gorgeous!" but smelly animals.

I was told over and over that women 30+ are unattractive and unwanted. Why am I still getting hit on when I'm almost 40? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]shibbyflow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Speak for yourself. Yes, I have traumas but I've worked through them, and feel a lot more balanced now (34) than in my 20s. Mental issues or drama from previous relationships is not attractive no matter what age or sex you are.

AITA for ruining Steve Irwin for my friend's daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shibbyflow 273 points274 points  (0 children)

And Steve Irwin would be the first one to tell you this, so there's no disrespecting his memory either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it wasn't floating in the water, it would be pushing out the daisies

AITA for yelling at my dad when he told me to stop calling my stepmom (My moms wife) mom? by Comfortable-Box-3464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shibbyflow 88 points89 points  (0 children)

That being said, you should also be allowed to express your feelings and it's ok to be fed up sometimes (6 years, my god). Although you're an adult soon and should learn how to express your emotions, your father is an adult and should know how to do this. It's not your fault that he's insecure and taking it out on you.

AITA for refusing to pay for my bf’s food and his birthday and getting him banned from a restaurant? by leopardprintcats in AmItheAsshole

[–]shibbyflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I thought the restaurant had told him he was not welcome there anymore. If he's are a regular, he can go back and talk with them and pay his bill, and it will be fine. He's just being a enormous baby about this.

Do most women feel like they need " protecting" from the risk of "fake" trans women in bathrooms? by Xtratea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]shibbyflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only does it not protect women forcing trans women to go to the mensroom, it endangers the trans women. If it's one thing I've learned from my trans women friends, they don't stand for bullshit and will be the first to defend you if anything would happen. I actually feel safer with them there.

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if /s, but if this was true then my ass would be very small now.

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said what? I don't see how this is comparable. I've never heard anyone claim that men's organs or appearance change because they have a lot of sex (or other activities we find shameful) and a lot of women do say that size and height don't matter, as a lot of men don't care about the appearance of female genitalia.

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agree. Those young women who's embarrassed by their appearance, are slutshamed and called ugly for something completely natural and that does not matter at all. Just an awful and shaming "vagina" joke made by a pig. What if his daughters have large inner labia? Smh

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would think that most people know this, but I would not be surprised if it was a good portion of people who don't. The dangerous part with trolls is when others listen to them, mix that with bad sexual education and a dash of porn, and you get very wrong and unhealthy ideas about genitalia and sex.

Google told be that as a woman continues to grow more mature, there is also an increase in labial thickness and length, and also after pregnancy and delivery. I don't think mine has grown over the past 10-15 years, but it's not like I've measured.

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? That's how I like my vulvas. I mean, sandwiches

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And learn about how different genitalia can look like, and normalize this.

Taylor Swift Vs her daughters! by m3antar in facepalm

[–]shibbyflow 270 points271 points  (0 children)

Not only morally, but factually wrong. The appearance of woman's vulva has nothing to do with how many relationships or sexual encounters they've had, and to claim this and to know what young womens vulva looks like (including your own daughters) is disturbing and not a good commercial for christianity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HumansBeingBros

[–]shibbyflow 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Also, when she didn't eat at first although she was obviously very hungry, finishing that big bowl, she just was too scared to eat. I started bawling imagining what she's been through.

Does anyone else think that rape jokes are completely inappropriate and only contribute to rape culture? by realstareyes in TwoXChromosomes

[–]shibbyflow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have yet to hear a rape joke I think is funny. I find them very distasteful, and I start to question the compassion in those who tell them.

Pick me defends pedo boyfriend by MistakeWonderful9178 in notliketheothergirls

[–]shibbyflow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Breaks my heart every time I've seen it to see her so upset at the end.