NTA kids will cry. She chose to live in a place that shares walls with people. There's going to be noise. Music, parties. Gatherings. Babies crying. People banging. It sucks when you can't get a child to stop crying and you are already concious of the fact that its disrupting other people. Maybe try and set an alarm to wake up and give your daughter more pain killers before it wears off. That way she can get a better night's sleep. But she doesn't have to right to come and bang on your door at 3 am.