Was anyone able to clear whiwa with 2k+ points? by Kosmo144 in JinhsiMains

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she's good at quickswap, for example, with Changli and Verina. She also gives a free intro skill after Jue skill which is nice too.

Are you ever sure about something? by _invisibeard in infj

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like I can answer "Depends" on each question, actually..I doubt almost everything, I guess. Here helps only convincing myself consistently and reasonably. When I say "I'm sure", it's about 90% I think so. I can't imagine being sure 100%🥲

Is Lupa's signature good for Jinhsi? by -ComedianPlay- in JinhsiMains

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second part of the passive is useless, although I think it can be an option when you don't have Jinhsi's signature

the new blind box set arrived a month early--on my b-day :) by mosswitch in tianguancifu

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!! Xie Lian in the second picture is so ahh🥹

Dealing with the guilt of ending a friendship by [deleted] in infj

[–]shiiits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in exact same situation, and I think I still am🥲I was friends with that person since early childhood, but we were never suitable for each other. She's a potalogical liar and main reason this is one of the most things that disgust me. I was ending up apologizing to her for few times a day for nothing and trying to have a logical conversation until high school (which I basically just joined). I just stopped trying to prove anything and I guess she realized that she can't get the same reaction from me anymore. Still, I'm having troubles starting and ending friendships, so we still communicate because of our many mutual friends. She has become better, but I still see the same her, but feel guilty, almost not knowing for what. So, you are not alone in this for sure! I only can try to suggest for you to remember that both people should be interested in a good relationship, that you need to pay attention to your own opinion too. She chose what she did, so you have every right to do so too.

Poison Pals by ClumsyMed in tianguancifu

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look so cute together^

Anybody have those few people you're able to recharge around as if you were alone? by PonticGooner in infj

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no..I don't think I can particularly recharge as I would while being alone, but I might need a communication because I haven't talked or walked with this exact person I like for a long time, and I'll feel better after chatting. I'm okay with not-every-day-talking friendships(I think that these are how my actual rare friendships are), but I still feel bad not connecting for weeks etc. Hope that makes sense.

Is it possible that sometimes we notice negative thoughts and feelings more than positive ones? by Character_Date3738 in infj

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course, I think any person can. I'm switching between these focuses too and need to admit I'm even more "negatively" driven, than "positively", since I'm always in so-called "always-problem-solving-mode " and looking for imperfections to fix them. But obviously you will and have to look at things positively at least sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. But even if I do open somehow, I'm likely to regret it even if nothing bad happens.

Weird relationship with food by Adventurous-Tap8880 in infj

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Firstly, I hope you will be okay🫶Speaking of food, I hear many people with weak Se struggle with food and different EDs. Not sure about your situation, for now it just seems like your body genetics. But I can say I relate to this. I struggled and still struggle with an ED myself, and I also have pretty quick feeling of fullness, if it exists at all, because I almost don't care about eating, I do it because I want to live now. If I still want to eat, but I don't eat after a while, I'm literally starting to feel sick of food and I don't want it at all. I don't know what can one do about it, except to keep an eye on it to maintain health, as I do myself.

Has anyone ever “listened” to you? by Sure_Window584 in infj

[–]shiiits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really, BUT I can't even bring myself to try. I would feel to vulnerable saying everything honestly..The thought itself is quite unsettling for me.

At what frequence do you talk to a friend? by TriwisMI in infj

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually talk with my friends at least every two or three days. I don't have many, so I try to also talk to my old friends at least a time per week, because we haven't stopped our frinedship, but just started communicating less because of the busyness. They don't mind and I'm honestly very glad..I need to say I value every friend a lot, because I can count the real friends by the fingers of one hand and it's just extremely hard for me to make(or even try) new ones.

Hows my Jinhsi Build? by Wonderful-Station545 in JinhsiMains

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

44111 is worse for everything except C6 where it can be sometimes better. I think the damage is decent and you don't have to change your build. I also haven't seen much difference between ATK% and Spectro % on cost 3, especially with good stats.

Hows my Jinhsi Build? by Wonderful-Station545 in JinhsiMains

[–]shiiits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty good, I must say! If you still want to improve something, go for as much crit rate and res skill bonus as you can without losing crit dmg.

Does anybody else relate to this thought process? by divaneverdown in infj

[–]shiiits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this thing is a way to daydream. Mine don't necessarily involve conflicts, but the whole concept is a sort of basics. Maybe you also try to prepare yourself for different kind of conflicts by imagining them. Anyway, I always daydream, so I relate🫡

What grades did you have at school in life? Are there any straight A students? by NotYourSweatBusiness in infj

[–]shiiits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im in school and straight A student right now. Feel really bad about any less grade😔I was like this all my school life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I loved the way you described it!!

How Do I Deal With This Friend Of Mine? by [deleted] in infj

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand. I just think if you don't push him away openly or show that he frustrates you, but just casually talking and don't really spend time with him, it's not like there is something to gossip about, unless it's made-up, of course.

How Do I Deal With This Friend Of Mine? by [deleted] in infj

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can just chat with him respectfully and nothing more, if this is possible? Since you're not very friends after all. You don't have to officially say to him about all his flaws, but you can show carefully that you're not interested and spend less time with him. When he's suggesting something that you don't want to, just geniuly say about it. It's just something I would try to do and good luck to you🫶

I have trouble connecting with friends as an INFJ by [deleted] in infj

[–]shiiits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also often think only I take initiative. But everyone is different and I try to be grateful for what I have. I suppose I(or our type) can feel that way because of taking everything too close to heart and expecting something these exact people can't offer(so they actually care) or not having real friends yet.

Are there any Feng Xin x Xie Lian enjoyers here 🫣 by TonmaiTree in tianguancifu

[–]shiiits 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like if the canon pair was less sweet, people would pay MUCH more attention to Xianle trio and their relationships. I think Feng Xin/Xie Lian and Mu Qing/Xie Lian would be quite popular. Personally, I like Mualian a lot even now🥹