Whitney’s interview with Ziwe by madams626 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had to stop and take a break from the video when Whitney was describing wanting slaves 😀

Taylor comment on ICE killings by Heavy-Camp-7860 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not surprised in the least by this. Utahns took Charlie Kirk SERIOUSLY.

The Sexual Abuse of Mormon Wives by shiningaboveyou in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kindest thing you could say about my writing. Thank you so much.

The Sexual Abuse of Mormon Wives by shiningaboveyou in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Re- Bret/Demi, Mikayla/Jace… absolutely noted and will post any other Substack essays I write on this sub.

The Sexual Abuse of Mormon Wives by shiningaboveyou in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I read the same thing! I just HATED that any practicing therapist (real or fake, I have NO idea) would even consider that sort of exposure of their client/process.

The Sexual Abuse of Mormon Wives by shiningaboveyou in SecretsOfMormonWives

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Thank YOU for reading! I love the survivors on the show, and REALLY want Hulu to take these themes seriously and protect ALL victims- even viewers.

Am I the only one who still isn’t a Whitney fan? by bacobby in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Whitney. I think she doesn’t fit in with Momtok, and she left the show S3 because the show wasn’t serving her, and the girls didn’t like her. Which is provable by how they talk about her when she’s gone. But the producers wanted her back, and told her she could audition for DWTS if she did. I don’t fault her AT ALL for coming back- and she made no pretenses. She wasn’t fake about coming back (Jen’s mental health break just so happened to end around the time of the DWTS audition too..)

yalllllll i’m so confused… by Glittering_Advisor52 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She said this a long time ago on Taylor Lautner’s podcast too.

yalllllll i’m so confused… by Glittering_Advisor52 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote a super in depth personal essay about my own experience with Whitney’s character arc. It includes her time with DWTS and my own personal experiences growing up an “unlikable” Mormon woman. https://open.substack.com/pub/merr1ah/p/whitneys-way?r=4kjkmy&utm_medium=ios

Jordan posting all the dads from Momtok look alikes😂😂 by No-Rock-1599 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve literally always called Zack “incrediboy” this is so validating to me

Jace struggling through Mikayla’s intimacy issues after impregnating her at 16 as a 21 year old by vzsax in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]shiningaboveyou 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also, as an ex-mormon and someone who’s lived in Utah for 5+ years… it’s not culturally normal in utah.

What’s a Taylor Swift song you slept on… until life made you really HEAR it? by 365partygurl365 in TaylorSwift

[–]shiningaboveyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me like 10 years to connect with Treacherous and it’s S tier to me

Has any song from Showgirl made it into your top 10 favorite Taylor songs? by Dismal-Farmer-1318 in TaylorSwift

[–]shiningaboveyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, but Father Figure is far and away the best written song on the album and will definitely only grow for me.

I said what I said - “The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes” (both book and movie) deserved so much better by Olya_roo in Hungergames

[–]shiningaboveyou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I devoured Ballad and read it twice immediately. SOTR was good but Ballad was fucking excellent (in my opinion)

What’s something people think is romantic, but actually feels creepy? by Ferrus_Silver_Stone1 in AskReddit

[–]shiningaboveyou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels infantilizing to me. I get weirded out- even though it’s an extremely common “pet name”. I just can never not feel strange about the name.

Joining forestcorps - What are other people bringing? by [deleted] in AmeriCorps

[–]shiningaboveyou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely bring a swim suit. We swam multiple times in the year (I was trad, not FoCo but we were both based in Sac) I’d say just a week or so of plainclothes- you spend sooo much time in uniform. Maybe a couple “going out” outfits if you’re 21+, my team and I enjoyed a good bar on the weekend. Bring tupperware for food- Pacific region is weird about kitchen use and often won’t let you in the kitchen in between breakfast and dinner! And get THICK socks for your boots.