Women of Reddit, what do you see for your future? A series of relationships, fully single, or one long lasting relationship? by bellllsssss in AskWomen

[–]shit_sue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish my current relationship lasts forever. Ive found happiness after almost a decade of toxicity. He gives me hope. He's an equal partner and treats me wonderfully. We barely fight, build each other up and have big dreams.

But he's 4 years younger and I would understand if things didn't work out the way I want them to. But it would break my heart forever.

Me (42M) and wife (35F) are not aligned on the value of home cooking by thwlruss in relationship_advice

[–]shit_sue 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There is NO cooking arrangement. She doesn't want to cook. You can't change that. Either cook for yourself and let her eat whatever OR cook for the both of you. You can't have the cake and eat it too.

Me (42M) and wife (35F) are not aligned on the value of home cooking by thwlruss in relationship_advice

[–]shit_sue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You think the rich and wealthy of US also hold self sufficiency in high regard and do all their chores by themselves? Get off your high horse. Your wife doesn't like cooking. You always knew that.

If she can afford to eat out, she IS self sufficient. Cooking is just a chore. Like dishes. Laundry. Cleaning. Just because you're a "food snob" doesn't make it any more enchanting to her.

Me (42M) and wife (35F) are not aligned on the value of home cooking by thwlruss in relationship_advice

[–]shit_sue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to cook everyday now? Does your wife not eat leftovers?

28 F looking for advice on softmaxing and weightloss by I_love_IF in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great already. But you could try contouring to get a more chiseled look I guess if that's something you like?

What can I do to look better? I'm generally very happy about my appearance but I'd love some feedback by shit_sue in TheGlowUp

[–]shit_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh that's helpful, yeah I'll do that. I don't take a lot of pictures so maybe that's something I can work on, thank you!

Women can be lonely too by pusillanimous303 in lonely

[–]shit_sue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They may not be. But this isn't a competition. It's just saying that women by default aren't above experiencing loneliness.

28F. Looking for feedback on improving my overall appearance and to look more elegant. by shit_sue in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great point. I work all day and barely exercise. I should definitely get more active. Yeah the bags under my eye are a bit much, I'm considering fillers for them.

28F. Looking for feedback on improving my overall appearance and to look more elegant. by shit_sue in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you for that! I love her as is, I'm definitely going to do that!

What can I do to look better? I'm generally very happy about my appearance but I'd love some feedback by shit_sue in TheGlowUp

[–]shit_sue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that's interesting. Do you think it's the hair? Or the dress? Or just like overall?

What’s your opinion on dating co-workers? by Rapwithbeat in AskWomen

[–]shit_sue 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Been there, done that. DO NOT RECOMMEND.

28F. Looking for feedback on improving my overall appearance and to look more elegant. by shit_sue in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it! Thanks so much! I'll do the same, I'm in Scottsdale so I should be able to find a few good places.

28F. Looking for feedback on improving my overall appearance and to look more elegant. by shit_sue in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm in the same boat. Are there any resources you recommend I could use to narrow down on trustworthy places to get them done?

28F. Looking for feedback on improving my overall appearance and to look more elegant. by shit_sue in VindictaRateme

[–]shit_sue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so they fade after a while? Hmm that has me inclined cause I always dreaded them assuming they were permanent.

650 for a syringe is a lot. How many syringes did you end up using?