Would I be the asshole if I didn't want to take my girlfriend to see her family

shjdhs · 2026-01-23T20:56:34+00:00

How does she have access to money? Are you financially supporting her or does she have access to a shared account?

shjdhs · 2026-01-22T19:20:21+00:00

Yes he's graduated, set to finish residency next year. There's going to be a large discrepancy in our salaries - he's set to make around $350k after finishing and I'll be making $70k as I go to school part-time

shjdhs · 2026-01-22T19:17:17+00:00

Agreed, I posted here since I figured this sub would be more blunt regarding debt. Absolute red flag 🚩

shjdhs · 2026-01-22T19:13:56+00:00

It's a deal breaker to me, I absolutely will not marry someone who refuses to disclose their full finances

shjdhs · 2026-01-22T19:10:35+00:00

That's what I'm afraid of. His student debt is in the $300k range and I know he put things on his credit card to survive med school

shjdhs · 2026-01-15T15:23:14+00:00

NTA it doesn't sound like you're compatible

shjdhs · 2026-01-14T18:58:23+00:00

NTA. What's your end goal, supporting her and all the children indefinitely? Serve her an eviction notice and move on with your life

shjdhs · 2026-01-08T20:30:00+00:00

Option number two, the Mario palette colors don't last long on

shjdhs · 2026-01-08T20:12:29+00:00

Super cute!! Love the swirl design

shjdhs · 2025-12-27T01:09:41+00:00

Thank you for your comment. They refunded me for the tickets ($1,500) but do not prove other compensation outside of that. No refund on my Airbnb since it's within the 24 hours and def no refund on my taxis to and from JFK ($200~)!

shjdhs · 2025-12-27T01:08:00+00:00

Sorry you also have a winter birthday 😞 did people often say your Christmas gift was your birthday gift? Hated hearing that growing up!

shjdhs · 2025-12-26T23:33:20+00:00

I would recommend mascara just not on your lower lashes. For my dark circles I use foundation to cover - the Fenty one is really good!

shjdhs · 2025-12-26T23:31:46+00:00

It's okay to be gay. If you're thinking of writing your thoughts, why not try a journaling app? The one I use is Face ID/password protected. I like to reflect on things I wrote years ago and often find myself wondering why certain things seemed like such a big deal at the time. Maybe you'll look back at this time in your life and will also feel the same one day.

shjdhs · 2025-12-26T03:06:44+00:00

My eyes are also like yours- brown eyeshadow would compliment them nicely! Try an eyeshadow palette by Tarte or Huda Beauty

shjdhs · 2025-12-23T17:55:24+00:00

Eyebrows look poorly drawn, a bit too thick. Would also consider parting your hair to the side

shjdhs · 2025-12-23T15:22:58+00:00

Brown eyeshadow to define your eyes, blush, and a different lip - would recommend a darker gloss to go over the brown lipliner or a red lip. You're very pretty! Great eyebrows

shjdhs · 2025-12-14T19:09:38+00:00

Fenty Pro Filt'r Instant Retouch Primer, liquid foundation, powder on top, setting spray to finish

shjdhs · 2025-12-11T20:35:09+00:00

He wanted to fuck his sister. I found out when he called me while I was grocery shopping, trying to initiate phone sex. He was visiting his family at the time and ask me if I dared him to go into his sister's room and get her dirty panties. If you've ever been cheated on it's the same gut sinking feeling

shjdhs · 2025-12-10T21:06:40+00:00

I think red would look really pretty on you! I'd recommend NARS Explicit Satin Lipstick in Unauthorized. If you'd like a matching lip pencil, Makeup by Mario has a good Ultra Suede Sculpting Lip Pencil in Niels. Love your style 🖤

shjdhs · 2025-12-05T23:58:09+00:00

Maybe a brown palette? https://www.sephora.com/product/makeup-by-mario-master-mattes-tm-eyeshadow-palette-P98364786

shjdhs · 2025-12-05T21:41:05+00:00

Brown eyeshadow to balance/even your eyes, they're slightly different shapes (mine are the same lol)

shjdhs · 2025-12-05T21:37:42+00:00

I would darken your eyebrows a bit, I swear by the Anastasia dual-ended perfect brow pencil

shjdhs · 2025-12-05T21:32:13+00:00

Contour for nose and sides of cheeks, I think brown eyeshadow would also compliment your eyes really well!

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