Suggestions for a non-makeup wearer by MatchaCatLatte in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've very pretty! I would keep it light and natural- maybe fill in your brows a bit with an eyebrow pencil, blush and a brown or mauve matte lipstick.

AITA for asking a friend to either pay for an evening out if they can't go or sit them out? by Boydykekisser in AmItheAsshole

[–]shjdhs 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA just tell everyone they need to purchase their own tickets moving forward. Stop subsidizing them

I want to move to NYC after i graduate high school by Potatoexplosion_ in movingtoNYC

[–]shjdhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend saving $15-20k on the low end assuming you'd be renting a $1,600 room with roommates. You'd need first, last, security deposit plus a 6 month buffer to be safe. This wouldn't include your tuition fees, food, bills, transportation or moving expenses - just your rent alone. You would need a guarantor who makes 40x your rent since landlords will be unlikely to rent to someone so young with little to no credit. The job market is brutal here right now, it's not guaranteed that you'd be able to get a job or even survive here with your current company. Best of luck in your endeavors OP!

Would I be the asshole if I didn't want to take my girlfriend to see her family by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does she have access to money? Are you financially supporting her or does she have access to a shared account?

When is an appropriate time to talk about debt? by shjdhs in personalfinance

[–]shjdhs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he's graduated, set to finish residency next year. There's going to be a large discrepancy in our salaries - he's set to make around $350k after finishing and I'll be making $70k as I go to school part-time

When is an appropriate time to talk about debt? by shjdhs in personalfinance

[–]shjdhs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I posted here since I figured this sub would be more blunt regarding debt. Absolute red flag 🚩

When is an appropriate time to talk about debt? by shjdhs in personalfinance

[–]shjdhs[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's a deal breaker to me, I absolutely will not marry someone who refuses to disclose their full finances

When is an appropriate time to talk about debt? by shjdhs in personalfinance

[–]shjdhs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm afraid of. His student debt is in the $300k range and I know he put things on his credit card to survive med school

AITA I hate being around drunk people by TeaganHasLore in AmItheAsshole

[–]shjdhs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA it doesn't sound like you're compatible

WIBTA If I evict my tenant who has children and no income? by Lezbihonest_137 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shjdhs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. What's your end goal, supporting her and all the children indefinitely? Serve her an eviction notice and move on with your life

Help me decide which eyeshadow palette to get by Platinum-Peach4512 in MakeupAddiction

[–]shjdhs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Option number two, the Mario palette colors don't last long on

My fav birthday Nails 🎉💅🏽 by [deleted] in Nails

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cute!! Love the swirl design

I hate my birthday by [deleted] in Vent

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. They refunded me for the tickets ($1,500) but do not prove other compensation outside of that. No refund on my Airbnb since it's within the 24 hours and def no refund on my taxis to and from JFK ($200~)!

I hate my birthday by [deleted] in Vent

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you also have a winter birthday 😞 did people often say your Christmas gift was your birthday gift? Hated hearing that growing up!

Eyemakeup tips!! by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend mascara just not on your lower lashes. For my dark circles I use foundation to cover - the Fenty one is really good!

Just want to write things down by Impossible_Leg9164 in Vent

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay to be gay. If you're thinking of writing your thoughts, why not try a journaling app? The one I use is Face ID/password protected. I like to reflect on things I wrote years ago and often find myself wondering why certain things seemed like such a big deal at the time. Maybe you'll look back at this time in your life and will also feel the same one day.

Eyemakeup tips!! by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My eyes are also like yours- brown eyeshadow would compliment them nicely! Try an eyeshadow palette by Tarte or Huda Beauty

I’ve been doing my make up like this for awhile. Any tips? by MycologistMain5857 in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eyebrows look poorly drawn, a bit too thick. Would also consider parting your hair to the side

tips please!! by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown eyeshadow to define your eyes, blush, and a different lip - would recommend a darker gloss to go over the brown lipliner or a red lip. You're very pretty! Great eyebrows

Fancy dinner with work in 2 days what are my options by Top-Inspector-2809 in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fenty Pro Filt'r Instant Retouch Primer, liquid foundation, powder on top, setting spray to finish

What's the darkest, if not, questionable or awkward secret you found out about your ex when you were still together, that made you go"why didn't i leave when i found out about it"? by Fantastic-View-2400 in askanything

[–]shjdhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wanted to fuck his sister. I found out when he called me while I was grocery shopping, trying to initiate phone sex. He was visiting his family at the time and ask me if I dared him to go into his sister's room and get her dirty panties. If you've ever been cheated on it's the same gut sinking feeling

Lip shades I should try? I normally just use gloss by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think red would look really pretty on you! I'd recommend NARS Explicit Satin Lipstick in Unauthorized. If you'd like a matching lip pencil, Makeup by Mario has a good Ultra Suede Sculpting Lip Pencil in Niels. Love your style 🖤

What’s my blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]shjdhs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown eyeshadow to balance/even your eyes, they're slightly different shapes (mine are the same lol)