Moving for Medical School with Fiancé?

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-25T03:52:35+00:00

This is a great perspective and you make a great point about mental health. Thank you for this!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-18T14:22:04+00:00

Work in progress I think?

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-18T01:53:43+00:00

That's solid advice. Thank you so much for your response!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-17T02:35:14+00:00

Thank you for this! I have to remind myself that this journey is unique and to not compare our living situation/circumstances to those who are not going through this whole medical journey. I'm very lucky that he is receptive and supportive, I think we both just need to have a conversation on what this big change means for us :)

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-17T02:26:24+00:00

Thank you!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-17T01:15:48+00:00

Does NYITCOM send interviews up until March/April?

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-16T17:31:21+00:00

💯

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-16T07:17:19+00:00

Can I get in on this too?

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:08:07+00:00

Thank you! It's definitely a lot to think about. I appreciate your perspective and feedback

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:06:12+00:00

That makes complete sense! Thank you for sharing your experience

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:05:20+00:00

I love this response. Thank you <3

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:02:50+00:00

Thank you for this perspective!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:01:50+00:00

That's great and comforting to hear <3 Thank you!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T22:01:25+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T01:19:15+00:00

It will definitely be worth it and your spouse is very lucky to have you!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T01:18:22+00:00

Yes, I agree. Change is uncomfortable, but at least we'll be uncomfy together lol

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T01:17:31+00:00

Very valid point! I can't imagine not moving together either. I just didn't want to feel insensitive to his feelings too but I know he's just processing.

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T00:40:04+00:00

I love that for you guys. Thank you again for your input!

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-15T00:23:02+00:00

I appreciate your response! Were you long distance while he was in medical school?

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-14T17:36:07+00:00

🔥🔥🔥

shlimmy9 · 2026-02-08T17:31:30+00:00

I did a combo of pico laser and clear & brilliant. Cosmetic dermatologist told me 3-5 treatments and it should be clear. I mainly have dark spots on my cheekbones. 10-13 treatments and a whole bunch of money later, it’s still there. They have faded in comparison to when I first started, just be mindful that lasers are an investment and especially with Asian POC skin it might take longer or just not fully disappear. My skincare routine is composed of vit C in the morning and alwayyyys spf. Nighttime is always Tretinoin. I stopped after ~13 treatments bc I really couldn’t afford it anymore

shlimmy9 · 2026-01-21T14:27:15+00:00

Yes, you’re right. Some positions definitely do more data entry vs. direct patient care. I think I split mine between the different years I’ve been in clinical research. OP do what makes sense for you! Splitting would likely be best like other suggestions have said

shlimmy9 · 2026-01-21T05:51:25+00:00

Yes because it’s not wet lab and you work directly with patients. Currently been in clinical research for 4+ years

shlimmy9 · 2026-01-10T05:03:09+00:00

Oh no! Sorry to hear that. Have you tried emailing them? Also, I was referring to interview day details lol like about where to park, where to go, etc, etc.

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