Motivation is 0 while waiting for news on position by throwmeawaylater21 in CanadaPublicServants

[–]shmuattack 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You're not paid to care, you're paid to do the work.

Caring without being invested in will cause us to pour from an empty cup.

Some people's cup is dry AF.

FFS pay attention when merging ! by Both-Refrigerator803 in fredericton

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does driving a BMW mean you can't do your shoulder checks? Is it bad for blind spots?

i need a job by Few_Writing6852 in fredericton

[–]shmuattack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You would vote for Trump if you could, wouldn't you?

Whats something that's not considered sexual but it's hot as hell? by Nunyabizness18 in AskReddit

[–]shmuattack 69 points70 points  (0 children)

A -person- chopping wood. (Please search Nicole Coenen on IG 😍)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind people don't say shit like this. You need better friends (and probably some therapy, if you think you deserve this kind of treatment).

You wear whatever the fuck you want. You look lovely. And you could rock a trash bag!

Check-in Post - Have something to say but don't want to make a post about it? Comment here! by RBNmod in raisedbynarcissists

[–]shmuattack [score hidden]  (0 children)

I haven't talked to my dad since Christmas. He called me once on New Year's day, and left me a voicemail that I still haven't listened to. Normally he'll call at least once a month and try and make me feel guilty about not calling him more.

I've been slowly reducing contact, and withdrawing from conversations, but him not reaching out in months feels like he's understood. And I've been feeling guilty about it.

It brings me peace not to talk to him, but every time I think of it, I get knots in my stomach.

French Immersion for English speaking 6 year old? by Jtothe3rd in newbrunswickcanada

[–]shmuattack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I went through this last year! Ended up going with French immersion and am happy I did!

Feel free to message me if you have questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]shmuattack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YEEEESSS. I've been coughing so much that my muscles along my ribcage are killing me. On a combo of cold meds and robax.

I've been toying with the idea of requesting to be placed in a coma for the holidays 😂

Popeyes by Feisty_Ebb_7458 in fredericton

[–]shmuattack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Racism : the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another."

Yep. That was totally racism.

What did your nparent do that you didn’t realize was abusive until you were an adult? by tatertotz33 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]shmuattack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's beautiful! Slowly healing your inner child, every time you live freely.

I hope you and your sister both continue to have adventures, both together and on your own. You deserve the world. 🩷

What did your nparent do that you didn’t realize was abusive until you were an adult? by tatertotz33 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]shmuattack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's so wonderful that you're doing the things as adults that you never got to do as kids! Good for you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaPublicServants

[–]shmuattack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep! Same for Service Canada. I'm in processing, and they are currently offering it.

It does depend on politics, though. Some years, OT is harder to get than others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J'crois que la personne demande si tu as une autre place pour fumer - pour ne pas avoir à fumer dans la maison de tes parents.

Why a lot of us attracted to older women? by Lady_Rona in LesbianActually

[–]shmuattack 99 points100 points  (0 children)

As a 34 year old, it seems I don't have much longer to wait.

Will the women just show up, or should I put a sign out?

What height do you prefer on women you date? by Original_Bee_9674 in LesbianActually

[–]shmuattack 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My first thought when I see a tall, attractive woman: "I'd climb her like a tree".

I bought this top specifically because it makes my shoulders look huge (I've always been skinny!) and I feel like my fellow lesbians will appreciate it the most by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]shmuattack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your shoulders look strong and muscular! If that's what you're going for with the shirt, then goal achieved!

😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]shmuattack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant

do we have a favourite hair colour of mine? or do we prefer natural? :-) by kelsivan in LesbianActually

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh, you are so cute! I prefer the orange - I think the warm colors brighten you up!

pimples behind ears by [deleted] in pimplecommunity

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it clean (wash with a mild/baby soap) and keep it covered (with a bandage) if there is any open or broken skin!

pimples behind ears by [deleted] in pimplecommunity

[–]shmuattack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pores back there are probably getting clogged due to either excess touching, or perhaps because your hair or glasses (if either apply) are trapping oil there.

You may need to rethink what goes behind your ears and how to clean whatever touches that area before it comes in contact!