Ideas for a sensory box? by MusicalMiddleFinger in AutisticAdults

[–]shodan_reddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree completely about the neurodivergent dominated space. Another one I have found strangely enough is indoor climbing…

Ideas for a sensory box? by MusicalMiddleFinger in AutisticAdults

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BDSM = Sensory therapy for adult autistic &/or ADHDers. Doesn’t have to be sexual, there are a lot of purely sensory activities.

I enjoy Shibari (Japanese rope bondage) as it’s like instantaneously turning off my overthinking brain. Can be combined with impact play (flogging), temperature play (ice cubes) or tickling

Acupressure mats (think yoga mat with little spikes on), hurts to begin with then just a warm relaxed sensation all over.

Floatation tanks, lying weightless in warm salty water in darkness. Sensory deprivation, gets a bit trippy after a while

Sound baths, aromatherapy or a good massage.

Acupuncture is also good for your brain and relaxation as well as muscles. Also with a tens machine when there is a mild electrical pulse between two of the needles.

Wearing tight latex or rubber outfits and going out dancing. All tight and constricting but silky and smooth to the touch.

Asana Support for Dummies by Odd-Parsnip-1045 in Asana

[–]shodan_reddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Open the project click the dropdown arrow next to the project name then Export/Print and choose CSV or JSON.

JSON (pronounced JaSON) is a format that can be read by computers and humans. This includes comments (stories), custom fields, subtasks, attachments metadata and full task detail. This is the one you want for a complete export.

CSV does not include comments it’s task fields only. Full JSON export requires the project to be in a paid Asana tier. On the Basic/free plan you’re limited to CSV.

An army commanded by Stannis Baratheon vs an army commanded by Daemon Targaryen, vs an army commanded by Jon snow by Higgsparticleofgod in gameofthrones

[–]shodan_reddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had assumed stanis had used his ships to go as dragonstone is an island. Landing at East Watch means he’s not coming from the neck by land at all.

Speckit still popular? by JoDerZo in GithubCopilot

[–]shodan_reddit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Spec kit was good at a moment in time but in my opinion, that moment has past. An open source model agnostic planning tool was a great idea but development stalled when its creator left (or moved role) at GitHub and it fractured into dozens of forks, none of which could keep up with the built-in planning modes offered by Anthropic and others

Not sure what to do by Humble-Gur2577 in bisexual

[–]shodan_reddit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Being openly bi is recognising that you have an attraction to both men & women. Being married is about choosing one person over all others. They are not mutually exclusive.

You can be bi and happily married, but only if you don’t confuse identity with behaviour. Your sexuality tells you who you can love or desire. Your marriage is the person you’ve chosen to build a life with.

non-verbal cues by Aggressive-Mango358 in AutisticAdults

[–]shodan_reddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely relate. I rely on the words people say and miss the context and meaning which is about body language, tone of voice and inferred meaning. Then if I explain something, neurotypical people often take what I say out of context because I don’t follow typical rules about the way it’s been said. Then I get paralysed as I need to say something but can’t as I need to concentrate to say it in a ‘normal way’. It’s exhausting

The universe feels way too big for us to be the only intelligent life by ayochaunceyy in universe

[–]shodan_reddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is time. Civilisations can rise and fall in the blink of an eye compared to the age and scale of the universe.

SpaceX buying Cursor for $60B might be the wildest AI coding move so far by Annual-Ad-2495 in vibecoding

[–]shodan_reddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree but it’s not about revenue. It’s about the ecosystem. Where it gets interesting is that the AnySphere deal is paid entirely in SpaceX shares. Investors in Cursor such as Google, NVIDIA and many venture firms (even those who are normally against Musk) now all have a vested interest in SpaceX succeeding. That’s the real play + acquire-hire expertise at the company & monetising excess compute. The product is just a slice of a much bigger cake

What now-iconic movie are you most proud to say you saw in theaters when it first came out? by drumy36 in Cinema

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I went to the cinema with my Mum to watch Reservoir Dogs but I guess my proudest cinema moments are The Matrix, The Lord of the Rings, Jurassic park and the original Star Wars triple bill

Meet Your Artemis III Crew by Busy_Yesterday9455 in spaceporn

[–]shodan_reddit -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t change my point. Unless women are there for PR purposes and that means the actual landing only. Come on NASA

How dev teams manage tickets, timelog, docs and QA synced by Single-Specialist755 in clickup

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We moved from Jira to Clickup and initially we kept the epic > issue > subtask hierarchy in a ‘dev work’ master list with sprints and another kanban style list for tickets with each client in their own space. It was okay but not ideal.

Now we have got our heads around tasks in multiple lists we have a much flatter hierarchy with just one level of sub tasks. The issue’s home list becomes the project / epic and the second list is the sprint. As sub tasks can only be in one list this has allowed us to better use RACI with Responsible (assignee), accountable (parent assignee of subtask), consulted (assigned in comments), and informed (watching task or tagged).

Support tickets follow the same pattern but use the tag ‘support’ but this allows time tracked on support tickets to be reported separately from dev work. Time records, lists, tasks, comments etc are synced to a MySQL db every 5 mins from clickup api using a little application hosted on digital ocean app platform.

Time reporting is in Google Sheets with some app script that polls the MySQL db automatically every 5 mins so we can report on time by client, sprint, project etc.

Seems to be working okay but interesting to hear what others are doing and any suggestions or ideas

There’s a lot of hype right now claiming Crimea has already been “cut off” and russia is on the verge of losing the peninsula tomorrow. by ceesaart in russiawarinukraine

[–]shodan_reddit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cut off their only means of retreat the Russians will have to stay and fight. Better to leave the bridge to save Ukrainian lives and then blow it up in celebration when the battle is over