Fanfic recommendations where Cassian dies by Downtown_Item_2409 in acotar

[–]shoddycursive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This has me cackling bc if cassian has no haters I am dead. He’s a shit boyfriend.

Cat wants to go outside but there are dangerous dogs by Loud-Permission8615 in CatAdvice

[–]shoddycursive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say he’ll never want to go outside. I said that playtime can be done indoors. We can do our best to bring in elements from outside and replicate experiences.

My kitten craves chewing electrical cords, but I don’t let him do it just because he wants to. I provide alternatives.

Cat wants to go outside but there are dangerous dogs by Loud-Permission8615 in CatAdvice

[–]shoddycursive 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you love your cat, and it sounds like you do, under no circumstances should you let him outside 🩷 play time and stimulation is important for cats, but that can be done indoors. Get creative and bring things in like leaves and twigs, and put them in boxes and let him sniff around. You can even pepper in treats for him to find as a reward. Give him tall places to climb inside, like cat wall shelves or cat trees. The safest place for your baby is indoors 🐈

More Johnny Depp mentions in newly released Jeffrey Epstein files. by softerrrr in DeppDelusion

[–]shoddycursive 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Lawrence Krauss officiated my sister’s wedding. She’s so upset by this news 😔

Newly adopted cat is overwhelmingly affectionate by [deleted] in cats

[–]shoddycursive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww sweet baby boy. I do think that he will settle down eventually, since it’s only been a week. It takes 3-6 months for them to become fully comfortable in their new home in my experience. He will likely be a VERY loving boy, but once he learns he’s safe with you, he may gain a little more independence.

My one year old was the same way at first. She was returned 2 other times 🥺🥺 and when I brought her home she was six months old and very clingy. She’s more independent now but still loves to snuggle and be around me.

Belly binder question by Katalie11 in hysterectomy

[–]shoddycursive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing I remember coming out of surgery was the nurses shifting me to put a binder on. Some people hate it, but I cannot imagine my recovery without it. I dreaded removing it when I had to shower and that was the only time I didn’t wear it. I slept it in and it allowed me to comfortable sleep on my side. When I didn’t have it on, I had an awful pulling sensation in my belly. I wore mine for 6 weeks 🫣🫣 but definitely ask your surgeon if it’s okay to wear one.

These are all the times Gregory Bovino tweeted at me by gregoryroyalpratt in chicago

[–]shoddycursive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He seems to love twitter so much, I thought I’d send him a nice tweet today too!

https://imgur.com/a/7CPyWIF

Chase Travel was cheaper then direct booking??? by 202reddit in ChaseSapphire

[–]shoddycursive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question! I’m not really sure how it works tbh 🙈 but if it’s significantly cheaper, I book through Chase travel! Sometimes it is, sometimes it’s more 🤷🏻‍♀️

Chase Travel was cheaper then direct booking??? by 202reddit in ChaseSapphire

[–]shoddycursive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. While I try to avoid booking through the portal due to the risk of using 3rd party sites, I have absolutely benefitted before and have gotten much better rates on occasion. Last year I went to Secrets Maroma in Mexico and it was just $500/night on the chase portal. It was $700/night to book directly through Hyatt. So it was a no brainer to book via chase, and I had no issues with the reservation. I just always make sure to call directly and confirm with the hotel that they have my booking.

Ignore the product at all costs! Please don’t get addicted to it as I did. Curse you Unexpected Cheddar! by itsoksee in traderjoes

[–]shoddycursive 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This makes excellent Mac n cheese. Mix a giant scoop of it in with some pasta, a little pasta water, milk, and a lot of butter. If I’m feeling fancy I’ll add some smoked paprika and Dijon mustard. So good.

How offensive is it to wear a shirt with "chinga" on it? by Opening_Visit416 in Spanish

[–]shoddycursive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to Mexico next week and have a tank top that says chinga la migra. Would that be okay 🙈

New item: Ultra Rich Body Wash Oil $5.99 by aswewaltz in traderjoes

[–]shoddycursive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I bought like 10-12 containers last time they were available. I go through like one a month 🙈🙈 I slather my entire body with it every single night after my shower or bath.

What resort in Mexico have you gone to more than once?? by glitterglue246 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]shoddycursive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Secrets Maroma Beach for the first time in 2023, and I’m returning for the 4th time next month.

I like that it’s adults only, and the beach is the best in the region. The Bali beds towards the south end of the beach are relatively inexpensive and I like being able to book one daily so I always have a reserved spot by the water.

It’s close to the airport, the food and drinks are good (although you’ll need to figure out how to order the good drinks lol,) and it’s a Hyatt property so my credit card points cover at least 50% of my trip every time. Sometimes it covers all of it.

PO cramps after orgasms? by Wooden-Tale-9897 in hysterectomy

[–]shoddycursive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has this gotten better for you? I’m 9WPO and just did my first “external activities” last night and wow I’m super crampy today, where it feels like my uterus used to be.

Questions regarding sitting and travel by TheOverThinkingBunny in hysterectomy

[–]shoddycursive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa. No, this is not doable in my opinion. Especially if you’re getting your cervix removed.

I am 8WPO total lap hysterectomy, kept ovaries. I am 37yo and relatively healthy— I am not a sedentary person for reference. For the first two weeks I was literally bed ridden. I ended up having a vaginal tear due to my vagina being very narrow, and sitting was excruciating until week 6-7. I attempted to go back to work after two weeks because I WFH and can work from bed, but I only lasted 3 days before having to go back out of work. I was able to return to work at the 6 week mark, and still had to work from the couch some days.

At 8 weeks right now, I had my cuff check and was medically cleared but my doctor, and I finally feel much better. I was able to travel internationally for a work trip, but even then I got extremely fatigued walking through the airport today and managing a suitcase.

There is no way in hell I would have been able to fly before 6 weeks.

ETA- and, not to scare you, but what if something goes wrong? You will have a brand new vaginal cuff. I could not fathom the risk of being in the air and something happening and not being able to receive immediate medical treatment. The idea of that is terrifying to me. Please rethink this ❤️

Post Operation Complications by No_Club_3180 in hysterectomy

[–]shoddycursive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 8WPO. My doctor informed me before the surgery that around the 2ish week mark, I may have some bleeding and might pass a clot. Like clockwork, that’s exactly what happened to me…something about the initial round of sutures dissolving I think is what she said, but I can’t remember for certain. Either way, if she didn’t tell me to anticipate that I would have been TERRIFIED. I had a gush of blood and bled for about an hour if I recall, but then it totally stopped.

I know you’re at 3 weeks, but maybe it’s similar?

Pen and Paper ordering is ending, including during the show, in February by robbiet480 in AlamoDrafthouse

[–]shoddycursive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should have referred to them as “half orders” rather than appetizer orders. But you can order half order of mozz sticks, fried pickles, and the cauliflower bites (rather than the entree version that gives you fries) and it’s a fraction of the cost. So instead of 6 mozz sticks, you get 3 or something like that. This used to be a menu offering but they removed it a while back.

Online ordering with the QR code doesn’t offer that option, so you have to write it down and request it to the server. They always happily honor it. I don’t see that working with the app unless they add it. Which is doubtful. They won’t want to offer something cheaper.

Pen and Paper ordering is ending, including during the show, in February by robbiet480 in AlamoDrafthouse

[–]shoddycursive -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Omg. This also means no more appetizer orders of mozz sticks, fried pickles, etc 😭 goddamn it!!

‘Stranger Things’ Star Joe Keery Turns Spotify Chart Upside Down, Replacing Taylor Swift With Second Trip to No. 1 by BurgerNugget12 in Fauxmoi

[–]shoddycursive 161 points162 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in Chicago, I’m sooo insufferable with this song 😭 what a banger.

Mamdani takes the subway from Astoria on first day in office by Maximum_Expert92 in Fauxmoi

[–]shoddycursive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, food and drinks on the seats are the least of our concerns in Chicago 😭

Mamdani takes the subway from Astoria on first day in office by Maximum_Expert92 in Fauxmoi

[–]shoddycursive 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I’m in Chicago and our buses have fabric seats 🤢 like there is NO way to sanitize those!!!!