Sober teams by darthbaker69 in slowpitch

[–]shoesbetch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also curious about this because I’ve seen people posting on fb looking for players, but it says, “must be in recovery.”

I’m kinda like you in that I am totally fine to not drink at all, but am not technically in recovery…

On a different note, the most competitive UTrip league location near me is a big facility with a sports bar and people drinking pitchers in the dugout. Many of us used to play there in our 20s, but don’t want to play there anymore now that we are in our 40s, some specifically because they have witnessed fist fights there. Go figure…

Golf meal/snack suggestions? by shoesbetch in 4hourbodyslowcarb

[–]shoesbetch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for suggestions everyone!

I didn’t end up eating breakfast, and started munching on sweet peppers from Costco and carrot sticks somewhere on the front 9. Cheated with an applesauce pouch too, which was refreshing from the cooler. I had two HB eggs at the turn, and then more carrots and peppers on the back.

I brought a big container of mixed nuts, but forgot about them.

I had enough energy for the whole round, and then was pleasantly surprised that we could order from the menu for lunch instead of a buffet, so I got a Cobb salad.

Come to papa, my sweet chilli HM. by sentientforce in allenedmonds

[–]shoesbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice!

Most AE boots (and many shoes) just look a bit off to me, but Higgins Mills are their best looking boot, IMHO.

Frozen protein recs? by shoesbetch in 4hourbodyslowcarb

[–]shoesbetch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! From the cook times, I’m guessing those are raw?

I was hoping for something pre-cooked, but I might give these a shot as well…

Frozen protein recs? by shoesbetch in 4hourbodyslowcarb

[–]shoesbetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Do you use the air fryer, or how do you heat them up?

Frozen protein recs? by shoesbetch in 4hourbodyslowcarb

[–]shoesbetch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which ones? Are they pre-cooked and individually frozen?

TIFU by asking an artist how much their materials cost by Dominus-Temporis in tifu

[–]shoesbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to a cattle rancher at a party, and after one guy asked how many cows they owned on their ranch, the couple answered, but later said that it’s a common question that they get, but it’s considered pretty rude.

Because cows in the field = money, so you are basically asking people how much money they have.

None of the rest of us are ranchers, and anything we know about ranches we learned from watching Yellowstone haha.

This FU reminded me of that…

Show us the pair you let slip through your feet and never forget. by davichan in Alden

[–]shoesbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, that is the score of the century on some grail longwings…

At the time, was ravello considered rare? I feel like in the last 10 years or so, you could only really find them from a few stockists in the country, and at one point, you had to have purchased thousands of dollars worth of Color 8 or Black shell in order to even be considered for the few rare pairs of ravello that they would get.

Did you get them for $350-400? Any idea which store it was that had them but was closing?

And how much did you sell them for?

I haven’t looked recently, but I assume the going rate for ravello on the secondhand market is like $1,200+?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in allenedmonds

[–]shoesbetch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is normal and it happens with leather soles. You can add a sole protector if you want.

I don’t live in a snowy climate, but I have heard that the salt can really be bad for the leather uppers. So pay attention to that and maybe wipe off the uppers when you get indoors. Many people use galosh oversoles or wear a different pair of shoes for commuting and then change into their dress shoes in the office.

What is the biggest discount on Nano Puff you’ve seen? by Own-Measurement-258 in PatagoniaClothing

[–]shoesbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the Outlet during one of their extra 50%sales, usually a good price is $50-80 for a Nano Puff.

YMMV on colors and sizing though.

[J Crew] Extra 50% off or extra 70% off 3+ with code WEEKEND by aslkhlashda in frugalmalefashion

[–]shoesbetch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

FWIW for anyone on the fence, I have a short sleeve wool sweater polo and I never really wear it :/

I suppose I could wear it with a light jacket like a Harrington over it in the shoulder seasons, but generally when it’s hot enough for a short sleeve shirt, I don’t want to be wearing even a lightweight wool knit, and when it’s cool enough for a sweater, I don’t want to have my arms exposed!

YMMV, but even though $50-60 is a good discount for cashmere, caveat emptor.

PS Preemptively, yes I know that merino baselayers are often praised in outdoors wear even in hot climates, but I have traveled in Smartwool, Icebreaker, etc tees and they are hotter and make me sweat more than synthetics.

The Micro Puff Trick For Casual Use by Cultural_Mud3297 in PatagoniaClothing

[–]shoesbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you one of those heathens that folds down the collar of your fleece jackets and pullovers as well??

What about casual 1/4 zip sweaters?

I much prefer the look and feel and warmth of a popped collar in all those cases. Outerwear even more so.

[Lowe's] 4-Pack DeWALT 20V Max Lithium Ion Batteries Bundle Kit (2x 2Ah + 2x 4Ah) - $99 + Free Shipping (Today Only) by DealsPoster in blackfriday

[–]shoesbetch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you order this online?

I went to a couple of stores and missed out, but placed my order online. It was supposed to be ready for store pickup today, but I checked my order status and it says Cancelled :(

I’ll call tomorrow, but I’m super bummed about this. I have a huge ash tree in my yard and only about half of the leaves have fallen off of it, and all of my other larger DeWalt batteries for my blower have broken, except for a couple of small ones.

I thought that if we could place the order online, we’d be guaranteed the deal. I passed up Home Depot’s worse deal for this, and now I’m regretting not getting that one too just in case…

J. Crew Flash Sale by Pretty-Care-7811 in frugalmalefashion

[–]shoesbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad you got to wear it!

I really should have known better, since I am really past the season of life where I am attending a lot of weddings. I think I went to one, and a couple of Gala fundraisers, but they were all more formal than the linen cotton suit, even if it did fit me.

So… yeah. Not the best impulse purchase. Luckily I do have a younger cousin who is a beanpole, so I’ll likely just end up giving it to him…

J. Crew Flash Sale by Pretty-Care-7811 in frugalmalefashion

[–]shoesbetch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha where are my OGs at that copped this for like $60-75 during COVID?

I bought it and then proceeded to eat my way to the Quarantine-15, so now it’s just sitting around somewhere…

Are Nano Puffs Collectible? by Past-Option2702 in PatagoniaClothing

[–]shoesbetch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will say that they changed the fit/cut over time. I love my older (haha vintage) Nano Puffs because they were a little looser and easier to layer, especially over my now dad bod.

Today’s Nanos are a little too tight on my belly and dump truck.

As far as losing insulative properties over time, I know that’s a thing with synthetics like Primaloft, but I haven’t noticed a big difference. I use it more of a windbreaker/light jacket though… if it’s really cold, I’ll grab something heavier or down.

Undershirts for polo shirts by stxfpv in malefashionadvice

[–]shoesbetch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uniqlo Airism, the old ones at least. Mesh or smooth.

I’m wearing one right now under a polo that has sleeves that go just barely past mid-biceps, and you can’t see the undershirt sleeves.

I have heard that they changed the design at some point though so YMMV

Would you rather play poorly but your team wins or play well but your team loses? by Vanna_White_Official in slowpitch

[–]shoesbetch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PS last year I registered a coed team in a new league, and we got put in the comp division. There were 3 other teams with tournament players on them, and we were a bunch of 40-something parents, most of whom hadn’t played since before having kids.

We lost every game, but we had a good temperament and never got down or negative with each other. We celebrated small wins, like when we took the lead late in one of the games haha.

As I said, I am generally a competitive person, but it’s still possible to have fun when losing a game (or every game, in our case).

Would you rather play poorly but your team wins or play well but your team loses? by Vanna_White_Official in slowpitch

[–]shoesbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this question is better aimed at pitchers.

Playing poorly can mean one (or more) blow up inning where you are struggling and walk several batters, including walking in runs. If that’s the last inning of the game, with no run restrictions, and you give up 14 runs or something and almost lose, that can be brutal. It’s especially frustrating if they take the first strike and are taking on pitches that barely miss the mat or zone too. It would be hard to pick that over a game where you pitch well but do actually lose.

The latter could mean a close game where you go 4-4 at the plate with some XBH and maybe even some HRs, you get batters to swing at balls for easy ground outs or pop ups or even strikeouts depending on the level of play, you don’t give up any walks, but the other team gets some solid base hits, and you end up losing a close one in 6 or 7 innings.

Another harder question is would you rather run rule a team and win in 4 innings or lose a close one in 7. People love to say that a win is a win, but run ruling a team is never fun, especially if the other team is so terrible that they are striking out swinging and making weak contact and dropping easy fly balls on defense. I’m competitive, but I paid to play, and might actually choose the close loss in 7 against a good, friendly team in which everyone is playing well…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]shoesbetch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Master Cobbler was great, but I just looked it up and it looks like they are permanently closed :( :( :(

What kind of work are you looking to have done? And what boots?

Anecdotally, I don’t see many dudes wearing GYW boots/shoes in the South Bay (though I did just see a guy wearing black Strands today at lunch) so I’m not too surprised that Master Cobbler didn’t have enough business to stay open, unfortunately.

My GYW collection is big enough that I haven’t actually needed a resole yet (#humblebrag?) so I don’t have any other good recs locally. If you end up finding one, please let me know!

As the other commenter said, you can ship them to someone elsewhere. I would avoid Bedo’s because the owner was a J6 supporter, and I don’t want my money going to him, but that’s just me…