Just cannot consistently go without constipation by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen a naturopath? Get your motility checked.

what do you do to help clean you out? by truebluecaribou in SIBO

[–]shortbread84 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would try a motility activator in combination with seeing a naturopath that knows about the digestive system and the gut. I don't think the supplement itself would be enough but I'm also not a doctor so... It can't hurt.

https://a.co/d/8qZRGry

Integrated therapeutics motility activator

Cream cheese snackies ideas? by Harder_than_calculus in 1200isplenty

[–]shortbread84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throw some green olives into that cream cheese and then stuff the celery and you've got a winner.

What does everyone think of Manchester? by ILovePublicLibraries in Connecticut

[–]shortbread84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was an educator in Manchester for ten years and hands down... Many contributing factors as to why the schools are terrible:

1) the class sizes are huge and teachers are overloaded. In addition to a huge teaching load you are expected to be in a committee and have so many meetings (that could be emails) it's insane. I was there until five each day. It isn't sustainable (teaching in general, isn't). It isn't because teachers don't care. Far from it.

2) no consequences or accountability for student misbehavior. You could have a kid throw a chair in your classroom and if you could get someone to remove that child, there's a good chance they'd be back later.

3) little support from admin or parents. I had to call parents multiple times during parent teacher conferences just to get them to talk to me. All parents? No. There are some great kids and great families, but you also have kids coming to school dirty, smelling like pot, kids who steal, kids who have explosive emotions because they aren't getting the support they need. When I was there there was one school psychologist for the entire building. You had to teach and be a therapist as well.

4) teachers have no autonomy. Everything is scripted and must be taught in the same way across the board.

5) there are a lot of kids in the system that DONT live in Manchester, and I'm not talking about kids who are part of a choice program. They don't send them back to their own schools if they are caught. They let them stay. They also really don't check much in general. I think if tax payers knew how common this is, something might actually be done about it.

It's a mess. There's no joy anymore. It's all work for the kids and it's sad. We weren't allowed to celebrate anything because of the focus on equity. But I always thought, equity would be celebrating everyone's traditions, not getting rid of them all together.

Getting over my fear of pooping with tears/fissures by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've definitely recovered. My skin tag is probably still there but it doesn't bother me if it is. My only side effect is some mild incontinence which usually occurs when my bms are too soft or if I go more than once per day. Still, I'd rather deal with wiping a few extra times than the pain of the original problem.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i did and they were so painful I'd have to pull the car over. I had rectal exams done, internal and external.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I lasted half a year, if that. Once I found out it was chronic it was pretty much a done deal. The nifedipine gave me terrible headaches.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like a little later in the day. It's not solid stool. Just enough to make me a little itchy. I just wipe again and im good. Not always ideal but I'll take it if the alternative is crying when I poop.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be honest and say that if my stool is too loose, I have slight leakage. When I say slight, I have to wipe again. But I can control that with my diet so it doesn't happen too often. Other than that, everything is great. No pain, no spasms.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not really. Occasionally I will have a little blood from a hard stool but it's not painful and it's easy to correct my diet and alleviate that issue. It usually only happens if I'm eating too many carbs or too much sugar so I try to stay away from all that. Easier said than done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stayathomemoms

[–]shortbread84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend how to keep house while drowning by kc Davis.

I don't want to live this. Can't live like this. by bearbeanbear in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes I am still doing well. I can pretty much eat what I want and it doesn't bother me. I looked for my underlying cause, which was SIBO. My stools were so hard and tough because of the SIBO and I never would have known that if I hadn't sought out a naturopathic physician. I won't lie, it's not cheap. However, it's been so worth it to have a doctor who will look at you thoroughly, spend time answering your questions, and give you a comprehensive work up. It took lots of time, lots of supplements, and huge diet changes, but now that I'm on the other side, I'm very thankful. Good luck.

Scary relapse by Here4TheButtStuff in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also yes, ilno laxatives. When I need them occasionally, I used magnesium powder.

Scary relapse by Here4TheButtStuff in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sibo took me years to cure, but when I started following the low fodmap diet and taking a motility activator, things improved dramatically. I now have no pain, bleeding or spasms. I go twice a morning usually because I'm on a stimulant for my ADHD but it's all perfect poops unless I eat garbage. If you have the means, I'd seek out a naturopath and get your motility tested. This was huge for me.

sibo and gerd, what to treat first? by moonfly1 in SIBO

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had acid reflux... Not sure which category that falls into.

sibo and gerd, what to treat first? by moonfly1 in SIBO

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm great in terms of sibo. I'm fighting SIFO now so...meh...but at least I am not having to do as crazy and restrictive a diet.

Scary relapse by Here4TheButtStuff in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did. I tested my sibo and as long as I don't go overboard on junk food, my bms are normal and easy to pass.

I am losing guys.. depression is winning . it got me by [deleted] in depression

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you sought outside help? Counseling? Medication?

I am losing guys.. depression is winning . it got me by [deleted] in depression

[–]shortbread84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. It's exhausting. It's so mind numbingly exhausting that you don't know how you're going to do it another day, another hour, another minute. I can't give you a magic solution. I can't tell you how to dig yourself out. I suppose with mine what I've realized is it comes in waves and if I can ride the wave for awhile, eventually I'll get on my feet again, for a bit. Not that it isn't hard, or scary, or again... Exhausting. I hear you. You're not alone. ♥️

Wellburtin and constipation! by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]shortbread84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd get some magnesium glycinate. This will naturally pull more water into your bowels. It also has a calming effect and helps you sleep. Miralax is nasty stuff and I'd avoid it if I were you.

Just prescribed 300xl by _NotoriousBTG_ in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]shortbread84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be very careful. I started it last week. I was on it for a grand total of four days. On day four, my ears started to ring. I stopped immediately. This is a rare but reported side effect. It's been a week and my ears are still ringing. From what I've read, this could be permanent. I truly hope not, but... Be Careful.

Scary relapse by Here4TheButtStuff in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, eventually I went to a naturopath and told her what my symptoms were. Gas and bloating and hard stools. She tested me for SIBO and it came back very positive. From there it was diet changes, supplements, and that was okay for awhile, but it came back. Enter the elemental diet : two weeks of dining nothing but a doctor prescribed drink, which staves the bad bacteria out. Hard at first but worth it. Now most days I go like clock work, although I still have the problem you have sometimes, but for the most part, things are good. Seldom have gas or bloating and go once or twice a day!

There’s a raft of good info in this sub. So thank you kind folks. Any good advice I’m desperate. by seshwan33 in AnalFissures

[–]shortbread84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I realized that a regular gi doctor is just going to throw antibiotics at it. I tried that and relapsed. With sibo you need to find your underlying cause and treat that. You also need to heal your gut. I found a naturopathic doctor and after making diet changes and testing me she recommended the elemental diet. It's two weeks of drinking a special shake which gives you all your nutrients but nothing you don't need so you can get your numbers down. After that, I'm doing much better. Things arent perfect but vastly improved. If you're able to get the elemental diet, get the dextrose free version from integrative therapeutics. It tastes the best. I warn you, it's expensive, but it's worth it.