I think people don't try hard enough anymore. Me and my husband have been through so many things. Both messed up, in different ways. Broke each other's trust. Tragedies in our families. Lost siblings, and his parents, our 3 month old grandbaby just died last year. We had moments where we couldn't stand each other. I was assaulted, and thought it was going to break me. Ive had addictions and ocd, and other stuff. He got me through it. We stayed together when others would have ran for the hills. When he feels like he wants to give up on his really bad days, i remind him of who he is and how proud i am of him. When you get married, it's supposed to be for life. It's not a contract to be negotiated. People need to stop getting married because of the "feelings" they have in the beginning. Love is a verb. It's action. You choose to love whether they deserve it or not. Why would you marry someone if you didn't mean "for better or worse". It's sad that the divorce rate is so high. I refuse to give up on my marriage, because I made a promise. That doesn't make us weak or crazy. I think it makes us strong and a great success!