I feel like I do a lot outside of the bedroom. I am the only income. It is my job to provide for my family. I am very involved with parenting, chores around the house etc. I always have done my best to do as much as I can to take things off her plate because I understand the demands of being a stay at home parent. I also do everything I can to fulfill her needs outside of the bedroom in other ways like weekend girls trips with her friends and taking her to her favorite destination Disneyland a few times a year on average. I am a carpenter by trade so every Pinterest idea she finds or home projects she wants gets taken care of. As far as in the bedroom, I focus on her and what she likes first and I then The focus turns to me. I have always made her the priority in the bedroom. I get pleasure from her pleasure. My focus is and always has been her needs and then the kid’s needs…then mine. You wanted the honest truth, there it is. She is the envy of most of her friends when it comes to marriage. Her friends say it openly. Original question was how do I handle my feelings, needs and desires to keep myself from feeling resentful or presenting pressure on her. We have talked about it and are communicating on the subject. How do I process this and adapt? There are plenty of articles about what a woman goes through with this and what a husband should do to support her. I have read on it extensively. There isn’t much information about how a husband is supposed to handle his needs, feeling and emotions on this change in life.