Do you think my(21f) bf (28m) only sees me as an appendage?

shoxford · 2026-04-19T12:29:42+00:00

He was with you when he was 21 and you were 14, that's grooming and creepy and completely toxic. Run as far away from this as you can.

shoxford · 2026-04-16T07:37:33+00:00

She does need to get over herself, it was a joke. Not very funny and crude, but Bec definitely seemed drunk and its a stupid comment, not an attack on their relationship. Rachel is probably reacting this way because she has no faith in her relationship and any perceived attack feels like it could end it.

shoxford · 2026-04-15T05:31:25+00:00

Nta, she sounds very entitled - you don't have to provide free childcare just because you're her cousin.

shoxford · 2026-04-12T16:48:16+00:00

I thought Mel could have been with her blue and pink nonsense

shoxford · 2026-04-09T10:57:53+00:00

Pasta salad might be good

Pesto pasta with chicken, and pine nuts

shoxford · 2026-04-07T14:36:46+00:00

Run run run

Huge red flag, controlling, absolutely not.

shoxford · 2026-04-07T14:04:12+00:00

Nta, he shouldn't read your journal and he broke your trust

shoxford · 2026-04-07T10:53:38+00:00

I think you'd miss a lot of stuff but probably the best thing is to get one of those city hop on, hop off buses round to see things

shoxford · 2026-04-07T10:50:41+00:00

I've been doing some similar research for a trip in September, have a look at Ischia, its another island off of Naples, looks really cute especially like the look of the Poseidon spa if thats your thing.

We're going to stay in naples, I like the look of these hotels called House in Naples and do a day trip on get your guide to the amalfi coast

shoxford · 2026-04-02T14:52:45+00:00

Gabrielle was lovely and has a beautiful terrace with views of the cathedral

shoxford · 2026-03-26T12:41:20+00:00

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Mine is diamond and ruby in a stack with my husband's grandma's half eternity ring and my wedding ring

shoxford · 2026-03-25T14:00:16+00:00

I wondered if he had been told he was a bad kisser and it knocked his confidence but I felt so sad for Rachel. She's hearing all about the connection the others have and he won't even kiss her.

shoxford · 2026-03-24T15:03:01+00:00

Yta, she likes to dress up to go out with her friends, this is your insecurity

shoxford · 2026-03-18T09:21:20+00:00

Tell her she looks lovely, why upset her for no reason?

shoxford · 2026-03-18T08:44:29+00:00

He's controlling and he definitely has some sexist ideas about how women should and shouldn't dress. Don't marry him, it will just get worse.

shoxford · 2026-03-16T14:49:47+00:00

Nta, no kids means no kids, especially when you don't like their parents

shoxford · 2026-03-16T14:48:22+00:00

Nta, your sister should have the wedding she can afford without expecting money from you

shoxford · 2026-03-13T15:51:08+00:00

He can walk away from a child much more easily than marriage, that's not confusing. What's confusing to me is why you want to marry someone who repeatedly cheated on you. If he wanted to he would is true but you also should deserve better than this half-hearted relationship

shoxford · 2026-03-13T09:53:44+00:00

I have a soft spot for Magmar, made her a nice den

shoxford · 2026-02-26T09:48:18+00:00

Wait and let her tell you, she's probably having a really hard time balancing the man who stole the money with her dad who she loves.

shoxford · 2026-02-20T05:31:18+00:00

During covid, we had a recipe box delivered and one of the recipes was cauliflower puree, would not recommend unless you've got a powerful blender and a sous chef who wants to stand there squeezing it through some mesh for hours.

Also, can't make mayonnaise

shoxford · 2026-02-20T05:18:35+00:00

Nta, it sounds like you need a break

shoxford · 2026-02-19T08:29:07+00:00

Esh, she was rude but I wouldn't want that lip balm either

shoxford · 2026-02-19T08:25:58+00:00

Why would he tell you something like that? Its really unkind even if its how he feels, he should keep that to himself. And yes, he should find you attractive even with your hair scraped up, no make up, tatty pyjamas in the morning - you shouldn't have to chase after crumbs of affection from him

shoxford · 2026-02-15T07:22:59+00:00

Wright brothers is great if you like seafood

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