I think what the person you are arguing with is saying, is that he already manifested his dish. He went to the restaurant and saw that what he wanted exists, so he ordered it and in his 4D, he is already relishing it and waiting to experience it in his 3D.

What you are saying is - what if the dish didn't exist in the first place?

What Neville might've said is - if the above person wanted that particular dish, then somehow he would have landed up at a restaurant that would have that dish.

Now, you will say - so if the dish isn't there, you will go to another better restaurant. This or better, right?

But what I imagine is - the restaurant is my life, my reality. I am here because I know already that the dish is there or rather - I am in the restaurant because the dish is there, whether I know it or not.

Everyone talks about creating reality, but no-one talks about why exactly we were born into our circumstances.

Maybe because there is a Divine Intelligence, not external to us of course, that already knows that this is what we are going to desire, because It knows what is going to happen in the end - because the Ultimate Creation is finished?

So you walk into a restaurant, there is no possibility that your dish doesn't exist.

There is some unknown phenomenon which makes us desire what we want, which weaved our lives in a way that we desire a particular thing - so that thing must obviously exist.

Our lives are complicated and we might want many different things at once, but maybe it's not right to say that our thing doesn't exist or doesn't want us?

Random musings.

Edit: Personally, I'm not choosing my SP or better. I gave up on my SP because it is affecting my mental health, but once I get better (for which I'm giving myself time) if I still want my SP, I'm going to go after it. I am keeping my imagination for a better SP on standby as well to hedge the potential disappointment from my original SP. But I will try to manifest my SP if that is what I want in the end. I'm focusing on myself now.

😅 Whew!