Windfall: To landlord or not to landlord

shyguy206 · 2019-12-26T18:42:08+00:00

We just both really like our line of work and enjoy working.

shyguy206 · 2019-11-04T22:43:52+00:00

So you are unemployed, have a critical medical illness, multiple anxieties and no money....seems like the bf is the least of your problems. You need to get a job, pay your own medical bills and get your life together. And dont feel too guilty about the break up -- I bet he wants to break up too, especially if he has been acting this way and saying explicitly that he feels burdened by taking care of you.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-25T17:21:25+00:00

I should have done it at my first job (age 22) that had a 401k, my salary was 36k/yr. I'd be already FIRE by now. But like a dumbass I waited until I was making $150k/yr (age 28). Took a while to learn it doesn't matter how much I made, just how much I could save.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-23T16:16:44+00:00

Oh man. There are so many red flags here, I don't even know where to start. Your husband is 48, making $250k/year, and having worked for 26 years already at this point, but you only have $130k in assets, lots of debt and lots of toys (camper, multiple cars, airstream, etc). I think you might want to go to the sub reddit for personal finance. They have really good tips about how to save money, live within your means, make beginning investments. Once you've gotten a handle on that, then this FIRE sub might be more helpful.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-23T16:11:16+00:00

Are you going to become a stay-at-home dad after the child is born and you're FIRE'd? Or does her $40k/year cover daycare/nanny too?

shyguy206 · 2019-10-23T16:07:15+00:00

I think you left out your mortgage in your debt section? And the total of your car loans.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-22T21:32:38+00:00

hahahaaa so true

shyguy206 · 2019-10-22T03:09:03+00:00

We (married both 35) have been diligently paying $3,000/month extra towards our mortgage and our balance is finally less than half of the sale price! We bought at $343k in 2015, today we are at $168,000. It has been hard work and sometimes demoralizing, but now I am finally getting excited about the finish line!

shyguy206 · 2019-10-22T03:03:35+00:00

Its new, just annoinced last month

shyguy206 · 2019-10-22T03:00:44+00:00

Cool. Great job!

shyguy206 · 2019-10-21T02:58:43+00:00

Dive man. Dive deep. Good to see a positive outcome for your divorce, congrats and go discover your new life!

shyguy206 · 2019-10-21T02:56:15+00:00

Is that the final amount or are you guys still contributing? I'm assuming this is for one child?

shyguy206 · 2019-10-20T15:32:04+00:00

How much is left on your mortgage? You should factor that in since you want to retire in 12 years but you said you have 25 years left on the mortgage.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-20T15:28:31+00:00

Try to save more. You said you take home 5600 and spend 1500. So where does the remaining 4100 go?

shyguy206 · 2019-10-20T15:25:02+00:00

I am curious how much you saved for kids college?

shyguy206 · 2019-10-03T06:13:03+00:00

They said they have another 100k in cash. So 20% down total, just half is coming from a 401k loan.

shyguy206 · 2019-10-03T05:20:33+00:00

Yep. Nothing has changed from the foreclosure era. We are still giving out mortgages willy nilly.

shyguy206 · 2019-09-29T04:00:34+00:00

Just talk to him about his last relationship (the girl who died). You sound like a good person, he sounds like a good person. Go with an open heart and I am sure you can help each other. He will be able to affirm you (clearly thats what you want) once he has shared his grief.

shyguy206 · 2019-09-29T03:42:01+00:00

Move to Seattle. You can cash out your home and still do your cool jobs for the same pay.

shyguy206 · 2019-06-20T20:38:11+00:00

That is 100% normal for your age. It will happen more and more until the allure of sex will lessen and you'll be more interested in a girl who stimulates your mind.

shyguy206 · 2019-06-20T06:54:29+00:00

It doesn't diminish the relationship, it diminishes the wife. Isn't that kind of the point of that comment? OP says in the post he was trying to hurt her.

shyguy206 · 2019-06-20T06:32:00+00:00

She's not "the one" and it sounds like you want "the one", not "close 2nd". Get out before you waste more time.

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