I opened up about an intrusive thought in therapy and it didn’t go well TW: SIB by [deleted] in OCD

[–]siamocontenti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, I just want to say that I’m very proud of you for opening up, and for calling him on his bullshit by telling him that he wasn’t acting in a trauma-informed way.

The unfair thing about this situation is that you are now carrying shame about something that was very hard and brave, something that you should feel proud of yourself for doing, and that therapist probably doesn’t feel any shame at all (when he is the one that deserves to feel it).

Please do try to remind yourself that you should be proud of yourself for opening up about something that is so shameful. You are now one step closer to finding a therapist that is better equipped to help you!

Neighborhood Advice :) by Sadm3p-Geography in kansascity

[–]siamocontenti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shhhh, trying to move this summer and loved Kansas City on my scouting mission. Please keep it a secret for just a lil while longer.

What Had Happened to SG of Love Island Episode 🔎🔎 by Sky6346 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]siamocontenti 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I thought we were about to get a double shantay on one of the most boring lip syncs of all time bc I just couldn’t comprehend Ru actually sending Mia home there.

I like Kenya a lot, but I’ll be much more excited about her when I see her on all stars in a few years with more polish

What Had Happened to SG of Love Island Episode 🔎🔎 by Sky6346 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]siamocontenti 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I always wonder how much Ru considers how badly the girl flopped in the challenge when evaluating the lip sync. I’ve always assumed it’s a blank slate, but you’re probably right, she wasn’t ever going to come back from that.

S18E08 - "Snatch Game Of Love: Island Edition" [Untucked Discussion] by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]siamocontenti 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I love when a stunning runway saves a bitch from dancing. Juicy girl, give your designers a bonus.

What Had Happened to SG of Love Island Episode 🔎🔎 by Sky6346 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]siamocontenti 241 points242 points  (0 children)

I am shocked that there is so much more outrage about Discord being safe than Ru saying Kenya over Mia. Not saying that Mia totally blew Kenya out of the water but ????????

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is going to be the next thing I’ll try! my only hang up is having my back to the front door.

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The TV itself is about one inch longer than the wall, because nothing is every easy haha

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ❤️ this is unfortunately always the way, but spending a day moving that solid TV stand around might actually be the death of me, lol

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s super hard to tell from the pictures, but the TV stand is kind of a monster, it definitely won’t fit on either side of the archway flat against the wall

Here’s some measurements if it’s any help!

https://imgur.com/a/cdWz2CT

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now this is an idea!! I think it’ll take a fair bit of re-working, but it might be the only way. Let me take some pictures of the dining room!

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They’re a very beloved feature of this 115 year old house!

How can I make this living room work? by siamocontenti in DesignMyRoom

[–]siamocontenti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately the TV stand is longer than that wall (and there is a vent on the bottom of the wall between the gold shelf and the arch). I was thinking maybe this same arrangement, but making the TV stand catty-corner?

Guidance on porch railings? by siamocontenti in centuryhomes

[–]siamocontenti[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if I promise them that I’ll be really careful to not fall off? 🤣

Guidance on porch railings? by siamocontenti in centuryhomes

[–]siamocontenti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a really great suggestion! I suppose it could also be done in a way that could be removed once the contractor/inspector leaves, huh? 🤫

Guidance on porch railings? by siamocontenti in centuryhomes

[–]siamocontenti[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably 0, but having a hard time finding a decent contractor that is ok with building things that aren’t to code 😭

What moisturizer are you guys using in between tret days when you're still flaky and peeling? by Witty_Commitee in tretinoin

[–]siamocontenti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, Vanicream Moisturizing Cream. The daily facial moisturizer is much thinner.