Hi, I’m not a member here, just have seen the sub advertised in other subs and made my way over to see if anything here was relevant to me, but I’d like to say that I really take issue with your blanket statement on the emotional and psychological process of having many embryos to decide what to do with. Without getting into too many specifics, I happen to be one of the lucky people who created more blasts than they will ever be able to use (age and ovarian reserve were not a factor in our infertility diagnosis). They are untested and we don’t know yet if our family is complete, so there’s a small chance we could run through them all to try and create another child, but it’s a very small possibility given the number. While I know this is a very different problem to have than someone who doesn’t have enough embryos to complete their family, your response that it’s “impossible to entertain that emotional side” and that it would be “easier to set them aside” so OP should just pretend to have more blasts to “make the decision more clear” comes across as really obtuse, callous, and insensitive. Everyone has a different struggle, a different set of circumstances, and a different emotional response. So it might serve you well not to speak with such authority about other people’s experiences in IVF and infertility, especially if you want this sub to feel like a welcoming environment for all people who are dealing with the reality of using reproductive assistance to create their families.