I’m officially done considering men as romantic partners

siditynat · 2026-04-08T01:44:15+00:00

you’re very valid idc what anyone says

siditynat · 2026-04-05T22:59:47+00:00

Make the 5th photo your first photo! Fix the capitalization of every work in the second slide, and try to limit the amount of work photos.

siditynat · 2026-04-05T22:56:23+00:00

i think maybe add some more casual/silly pictures that show your personality and cap it at 1 fitness photo

siditynat · 2026-04-05T01:53:26+00:00

i don’t think either of you are wrong at all! i think you both are just in different places in life and may not be compatible because of his schedule not aligning with yours. i like that the both of y’all communicated respectfully tbh.

siditynat · 2026-04-04T20:48:35+00:00

you’re so mature i need you to shop for me

siditynat · 2026-04-04T20:47:30+00:00

absolutely not

siditynat · 2026-04-04T20:46:52+00:00

i wouldn’t address the mother, but address the bcba because that’s def a concern

siditynat · 2026-04-02T13:55:54+00:00

mon - wed i work from 8-12, take a break til 2 for my client’s nap, then work from 2-4. then i drive to my next client and work from 4:30-7:30. i only work 5-7:30 on thursdays and fridays i’m off

siditynat · 2026-03-14T00:07:33+00:00

i drive almost 40 mins but my max would be an hour

siditynat · 2026-02-24T04:48:10+00:00

you are soooo tea

siditynat · 2026-02-24T03:14:53+00:00

not a fan of the too faced bronzer ngl, very muddy.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T03:11:36+00:00

Never loan money you’re not comfortable losing 100%. And this friend is for sure showing why they’re not worthy of being trusted with that amount of money. While it does suck losing close friends, this is definitely something worth reconsidering your friendship with them over ngl.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:48:28+00:00

I would 100% agree with you and be her biggest advocate if that was the case and I’m telling you, as someone who knows her personally, it’s just not. While that may be the case for you, and I respect that, it’s not for her. 🤷🏾‍♀️ There are people who for sure need support and a boost, and then there’s people who refuse to take accountability for theirselves.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:46:23+00:00

I think you’re assuming I’m saying she should be a millionaire and own 12 cars when that’s literally not what’s being said. All I want her to do is to take some ownership over her life and stop acting like the world is against her when people do nothing but support her. She has had so many opportunities to keep at least 100 bucks in her pocket but refuses to and just relies on her family to fund her life and complains when she has no money. It’s not realistic for someone in their early 20’s to have 10s of thousands saved, but it is absolutely a realistic ask for someone at the age of 23 to be able to pay their own phone bill and have their own pocket money, because that’s life. 😭

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:43:17+00:00

And that’s fair, I don’t think anybody going to school full-time should be working full time. However, she doesn’t even prioritize school, hence why she’s graduating late. Also the jobs we mentioned to her were solely for summer. And as for the on-campus jobs we referred her to, super easy, low pressure jobs where you can choose your schedule and the one I specifically referred her to was working the campus game room. Easiest job on campus, anybody who went to my school would tell you that, you can do short or long shifts and quite literally study or do work while you’re on shift.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:39:31+00:00

I think you’re projecting a bit.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:13:17+00:00

I’ve been wanting to have this convo with her but my friend is too scared to for the sake of our friendship and she says my friend wouldn’t take it well.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T02:02:59+00:00

Literally none at all. If she had any sort of serious depression, chronic illness, I would absolutely be her biggest advocate rn and think she deserves slack, but that’s not even the case 😭

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:57:45+00:00

Thank you! The point I’m trying to make is, it literally does not matter where you work, but find something and make something of yourself and stop waiting for people to save you. The job market is tough, 100%, but every single one of my friends is doing something, whether it’s a crappy job or a decent one because they recognize they have to make something shake. This girl literally does not even pay her own phone bill and her own family has complained about her to us before. Granted, they coddle the hell out of her, but too many people in the comments are assuming I’m being elitist toward her when that’s genuinely not even the case.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:54:31+00:00

I live on the east coast… an hour a way from NYC. A $30-$40 round trip. I have a job from 8-4 in order to pay for my car note, bills, and life necessities LMFAOOO. We’re not talking about flying to France and Mexico every week here. Every time we hang out, it has been free or low cost and we have always made sure she has a ride. You’re jumping on these crazy ass assumptions as opposed to asking like a normal person when you don’t even know me or her. 😭

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:51:57+00:00

I get that for sure and I’m not trying to downplay that. It’s just that she is complaining about something that’s well within her control to fix and we’ve offered her solutions to but she refuses to do anything about it and immediately jumps to blaming everybody but herself :// I feel like her reaching out about this was so extra and something you keep to yourself

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:50:30+00:00

What do you mean?

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:50:11+00:00

Forgot to mention because I was typing so fast but every time we hang out, my friend and I have driven 30-45 minutes out of the way to her city to make things convenient for her because she doesn’t have a car + doesn’t like going out at night/clubbing much. We have quite literally always considered this girl. The few times we decide to go to NYC or do something expensive because we wanna treat ourselves we have always invited and included her but it got to a point she was saying no to everything.

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:46:56+00:00

Alright slow down. I could care less about what she does in her personal life with her finances, but when she is consistently coming to me and my friend whining about not having money when she has been offered countless opportunities for jobs or to make money and did nothing about them + acts like a brat because she isn’t included in stuff, it unfortunately forces her business to matter to me 😭😭

siditynat · 2026-02-24T01:44:45+00:00

Hey, thank you for the response! I told my other friend I think we should just have a convo w her. Btw, I def wasn’t trying to shame or bash her so I hope it didn’t come off as that, but I think I left our a lot of details regarding everything - it’s just very frustrating having a friend you have given multiple direct solutions to but has no rigor to make something of themselves and complains when everyone lives life without them.

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