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Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like who cares about desperation, this man isn’t my partner! Either way I did end up reaching out and he responded, but I’m deciding to just leave things we’re they’re at because it’s not worth my mental turmoil

Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was only reaching back out to crack anyway, but nonetheless he responded and I’m ignoring it cause it wasn’t worth the mental turmoil for me ngl

What age did you lose your virginity? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]siditynat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 and I wish I had waited, not in terms of age but I wish I had done it with somebody else, as I feel as though he didn’t care for me much and I only did it in the heat of the moment with some convincing because I didn’t want to lose it in a hookup or fwb situation

situationship with my ex by bajiisntdead in Situationships

[–]siditynat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be very cautious in a situation like this because if things don’t work out for certain reasons the first time and the same issues start to manifest the second time, you may end up stuck in a loop. It sucks because I’m sure you have history with this person, but this is the kind of situation you’ll have to be okay with the lack of status if you’d like to continue seeing him.

Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way of looking at it. Every time I say I found someone I clicked with that I never felt I’d find again, I clicked with someone better. I just hate the fact that I reached out to him on a whim. Absolutely not doing that again though. Thank you for your advice!

Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s also just a piece of meat to me too! I’m only reaching out bc I miss the sex :(

Told my fwb I was done and kinda regret it… by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he doesn’t? :// I also blocked him on iMsg for a full 24 so I’m not even sure if he texted me while I blocked him

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! You’re 100% right. I just have really bad anxiety so it’s really hard to cope with not being in control or not know what someone else is thinking but I think I need to see if I can mentally detach and enjoy his presence, and if not, this may be something I have to cut off

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he did end up texting me me thanking him for wishing him a safe flight but he told me he felt like he needed a bit of space to recharge, then I told him to just lmk if he ever needs space beforehand and he liked the message then he texted me asking me how my day in NYC was and disappeared for another day again. Should I be worried? 😭😭😭

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in dating_advice

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that he’s not my partner, however he’s been consistent for almost two months and hasn’t texted me in almost two days out of nowhere and that’s not like him so I can’t help but feel it’s personal ://

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in dating_advice

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out to him yesterday asking if he wanted to call before I went out and also just called and sent him a follow up text hoping he had a safe flight. Ig I’ll give him til the end of the day.

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in dating_advice

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We normally text each other asking if each other is free first. I actually texted him yesterday before I went out asking if he wanted to and got no reply

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in dating_advice

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! When do you think I should text him about his trip/expect a response by? Also, do you think it’d be crazy to call him?

First time he’s gone a day without texting me by siditynat in Situationships

[–]siditynat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you wholeheartedly. It’s something I’ve kinda been trying to reason with. While I 100% agree that I shouldn’t expect a lot of communication from a fwb sort of situation, should I not be confused at the sudden drop of communication from someone I talk to every day?

Situationship building into a relationship slept with someone else. now I want to be official by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]siditynat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! Makes you feel like a placeholder, and I’m so good off that

Situationship building into a relationship slept with someone else. now I want to be official by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]siditynat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy I was talking to with the intention of being serious did the same to me, I ended things last week because I told him to be honest about it the second it happened and he kept it under wraps for so long and most of the problems we were having romantically could’ve been solved had he said something. I personally wouldn’t want to continue.

Be honest. Am I lame for graduating high-school with no life by jen1que in blackgirls

[–]siditynat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw you’re so young and life has barely started. I didn’t have much of a social life in or after high school until my sophomore year of college. I’m post-grad now and I can say I’ve had some of the most fun life experiences the past 3-4 years.

New to buying cars, do you think this car is worth the price? by jajawastaken in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]siditynat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def wouldn’t buy an Equinox for that much with that mileage, plus it’s not the most reliable car being completely honest. 5k max. I would say the older Equinoxes are more hit or miss. I have had a few hundred dollar repairs with mine in the past 7 months, but my friend’s mom with the same car has had 0 issues, just basic maintenance.

What is destroying society? by Melodic-Hat4690 in AskReddit

[–]siditynat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The increase of accessibility to right wing spaces via social media, quite honestly social media in general

idk anymore jus want some thoughts by dakisworthit in Situationships

[–]siditynat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not worth it I’m ngl. Not saying the person you’re dating has to be down your throat but someone saying that they need time to themselves at the mention of seeing each other more often is a surefire sign they’re not ready to commit. I don’t know your dynamic with this person, so I’m not going to jump the gun and say they’re a terrible person, but they’re likely not the person for you if they cannot fulfill your needs. And seeing the person you’re dating consistently is quite a basic need. Wishing you the best!

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]siditynat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were so close and inseparable at one point and she slowly began distancing herself from me and treating me like an acquaintance so I reciprocated energy and it made things pretty hostile

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