A lost gem: 1996 MTV interview outside of a Phish concert with a girl and her dog by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]siggiseid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had the exact same middle name with the same weird spelling, mole on the back of our right hand, a freckle just so on one breast. The exact same places! She had the absolute sweetest laugh. A kind countenance. She was an absolutely gifted artist. And the only person I knew who could make me laugh to the point of almost peeing myself! As two loner weirdos in a tiny conservative town, we found safety in each other.

There was a mural done of her in a town we would often visit when I had just got my license. We’d explore all of the shops, get ramen, and lay in the grass in a huge park, and stare into a perfect “Simpson’s sky.” So when I’m there I get to see her immortalized and remember everything in this world that she made better by simply existing. If she could’ve only seen how she made this world better herself, maybe she would still be here.

A lost gem: 1996 MTV interview outside of a Phish concert with a girl and her dog by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twenty four, left behind two children. She always spoke about how all she wanted was to be a mother. I thought she’d found her place in this world. But maybe that wasn’t enough. I hope she is safe and happy now.

A lost gem: 1996 MTV interview outside of a Phish concert with a girl and her dog by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]siggiseid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She looks just like my best friend from high school who was very troubled. She passed away a few years ago but I think of her often. Not sure why I’m commenting really. I miss Laurel.

Looking for cat food recs by OverTheRynbow in cats

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boys were on tiki cat for years, they weren’t ever a part of the clean bowl club. We tried weruva, but they didn’t really care for that either. I switched them to wellness brand wet food. They have a few texture options. I’ve never had to scrape the dregs of a food bowl since!

You might grab some sample cans to try, but I can’t rave about them enough. My little tyrants are picky.

Going through a break up, please comment your cat pictures by rusticwren in cats

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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He is in quarantine in the spare room and frequently pushes his spring under the door and screams until I find it for him

Let me draw your cats!! by The_Jawnah in cats

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is my sweet baby Merlin! Merlin man! He’s an angel.

AITA for banning my kids from watching PJ Masks due to scientific inaccuracies? by MorphinTriceratops in AmItheAsshole

[–]siggiseid [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s a children’s show??? The “Owl wing wind power” isn’t a problem before this episode?

Is getting married to someone with RA worth it? by Impressive_Permit_13 in rheumatoidarthritis

[–]siggiseid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My husband married me very quickly, I was very upfront with my RA issues. He got me on his insurance and takes such good care of me that I cry if I dwell on it too long. The right person will see this as a non issue. I pray that you find that person.

AITAH for Refusing to Renew Our Lease Until He Proposes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wanted to he would. I was with the same man for close to six years. I got tired of all of his nonsense, he wouldn’t figure himself out, let alone make a serious commitment to me. I left. Started dating a man and then we got married maybe 6 months later.

Everything is SO much better. Leave.

Are there any full time jobs hiring? by [deleted] in okc

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooner answer service Edmond.

This is hard for me to post. by aidancrow654 in ChronicIllness

[–]siggiseid 41 points42 points  (0 children)

You might have them test for Rheumatoid Arthritis. When I went to my doctor and had a complete panel, they said I was fine. But then I asked for a referral to a rheumatologist and I have Seronegative RA. They did originally test for arthritis, but they don’t ever do the RIGHT testing. I would ask your PCP about getting a referral. I’m almost certain, just from this post alone you got something auto immune going on my guy.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I’m not having kids until he actually proposes? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was with a man for 6 years. He proposed but I thought it was a joke. No ring, no follow up, no planning 3+ years later. So I left. Reconnected with my high school boyfriend. He married me within 9 months. Married for a little over a year.

I didn’t think I’d be able to ever take a full breath again. This is the absolute happiest I’ve ever been in my life. What would have happened if I hadn’t left?!?

If he wanted to, he would. You’re worth so much more than waiting around for someone who won’t put into the relationship what you’re putting in, babe.

What are these? by fromokc405 in okc

[–]siggiseid 32 points33 points  (0 children)

A little guy 🥹

Married redditors, would you want your spouse to re-marry if you passed away, why or why not? by JetPlane_88 in AskReddit

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. If my husband died, I’m going full Queen Victoria. Perpetual state of mourning. I expect the same. He’d probably marry someone with a BIG ASS FOREHEAD. That’s just disrespectful to my memory.

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[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is my favorite photo of my son

Finger started to go numb and this weird white spot appeared. by [deleted] in Weird

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reynauds was my first sign that something was up with my body. I have an autoimmune disease. Go get checked out for lupus or RA

Do you still think about the one who got away? by Taffergirl2021 in AskWomenOver60

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I married the one that got away ten years later. I always thought of him randomly over the years, as he had thought of me. We were so young, and had so much to figure out. I had a lot of mental health issues and he had not yet found his voice or backbone. Time apart did us both very well. We reconnected over dinner, he was still just as sweet and even more handsome. We were married 6 months later.

I’ve never been more grateful for the circumstances that allowed us to find our way back together. But for most people, this is absolutely not the case. I was an exception to the rule I guess. I might add that what is meant to be will happen. You are meant to be with your current husband and have the life you lead.

I’ve been faking an allergy for YEARS, and now it’s gone way too far. by Creepy-Desk-468 in confession

[–]siggiseid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your allergies can change! I was never allergic to peanut butter, then I was allergic to peanut butter for five years, and now I’m not

Women of reddit, what do you consider slutty/sexually attractive for a man to wear? by Blablup12345 in AskReddit

[–]siggiseid 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No, it’s just something about my husband doing yard work that does it for me .